Robert S. Frew

I met Bob 45 years ago at my first Scottish country dance class. He was one of the few "real Scots" in our group. He never lost his lovely accent, his charming way of expressing himself. He wore Scottish dancing like an old comfortable coat. He danced with an effortless grace and elegance that always caught one's eye on the dance floor. I once asked Bob how to get from here to there in a dance and I'll never forget his reply: "Hang a left." A fully accredited teacher of Scottish dancing, Bob...

I was a student of Bob´s, worked on many of his State Street buildings, witnessed his skill at pool and sailing and was regaled with stories of Scottish Dance events. His passing is a great and sad loss; I hope his legacy remains a comfort.

My sincere condolences to Susan and all of Bob´s family. I was a student and then lecturer at Yale from 1973-84, and have fond memories of working closely with Bob on early Computer-Aided Design, and sharing his passion for math and computing puzzles. In the 1970´s, Bob connected Yale students with rising stars such as Bill Mitchell (Harvard, MIT) and Don Greenberg (Cornell). Bob had a great Scottish accent and wit, and I will miss the twinkle in his eye and the friendship I was lucky to have...

I knew Bob through his work on State Street and my role at the New Haven Preservation Trust. He was an urban visionary and responsible for saving State Street by rehabilitating many of the old buildings which were slated for the wreaking ball. I enjoyed his enthusiasm for preservation, his delightful wit, and his courage to take on tough projects. My thoughts to Susan and his children!

Dear Susan and Family, I am very sorry for your loss. Robert was quite a gentleman and scholar, and he always made my day when he came to Lowe's where it was a pleasure to see him. Thinking of you and your family, and missing him greatly. Sincerely, Mary Jane (retired cashier, Lowe's Pro Services)

Ian I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I always had fond memories of him. Sailing to block island and to Mystic seaport.

Ian & family, I am so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. Rest assured of our prayers