Robert A. Loder Jr.

Dear Shirley: I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved husband. You and your family are in my thoughts. I hope to see you soon at your 'post' at Risden beach and give you a big hug.

Chris--I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and so appreciate you being there for my family suffering our own. My thoughts are with you and your family.

To the Loder Family:

I strolled through the gallery during our annual "down the shore" vacation a couple of weeks back, hoping to pick up yet another sketch to add to my already overflowing collection, when your eldest son, who was in the gallery at the time, told me of Mr. Loder's illness.

I was devastated. Although we only spoke on the phone, I was moved by his warmth, good nature, and immense talent. Whenever I requested prints (which was often...) he and Shirley were...

Dear Shirley,

I am sitting here in my office this Thursday evening having just heard of Bob's passing from a friend in Bay Head. I sit here at my desk looking at a painting Bob had been asked to do for me of the Bay Head Beach visualizing Bob's smile and always uplifting words when I would come in to visit the studio. I will miss him very much. May the peace that the Lord can provide comfort you during this difficult time. Your May 14th Birthday Pal, Chet

To the Murphy and Loder families:
My heartfelt sympathy to all. Although it has been many years, I will remember him as someone who was always ready with a big smile and hug. I know he's sketchin' in heaven!
Fondly remembering you all...

Kathy, Kerry and Mom Loder-
I am sorry for your loss and deeply moved by your expressions of love for Dad Loder. I am grateful for the love he gave to me as well as his warmth and acceptance of me as part of the family.
I extend to you my deepest sympathy.
Melanie

Kathy and Kerry Murphy
I am deeply saddened by your dad's passing. I have lost a beloved member of my extended family. I love you all vey much.

Dear Shirley: We are devastated by your loss, and Bob's untimely passing. All of us will miss his laughter, good humor, and extoardinary talent, and I will cherish the memory of our 58 years of friendship.

Chris - we are sorry for your loss and our thoughts are with you and your family.