Robert G. "Bob" McIlvaine

Like Jen says below, you've definitely made an impact, Bobby. I never even met you, but I feel like I know you regardless. You name memory marches on through the countless lives you've touched and the written word that you loved so much. You were just a few years older than me, but hearing your story takes me back to those days of younger adulthood when our lives' story was still in the initial stages of composition. You life continues beyond those all-too-short 26 years.

23 years on - never forgotten. You wanted to make an impact - that was apparent in your youth - and I promise you you have. Your kindness, competitiveness and inquisitive nature is as real today as ever.

Like the reader directly below me, I am also coming from the Atlantic piece - - it vividly conveys who Robert was in a way that is not shown in the obit. And his spiral notebook dated Sept 6, 2001...it does give me goosebumps. It's a small window into the [once] real hopes and dreams of all who were there that day, whether on planes, towers, etc. Robert G. McIlvaine, you have taken me back to that day like no one else. For that I'll always remember you. Your life lives on.

I read the Atlantic piece, what an amazing person he was.

We send our continued heartfelt sympathy to your family for such a sad loss. The passing of time doesn't always end the great pain when we lose someone dear. May God always give the comfort and strength needed to cope. Bob will always be fondly remembered.

I'm not quite sure if you will ever receive this but I couldn't help but to look up your amazing son and his story! After meeting you both I felt as though I needed to express my sympathy but also let you know that he finds a way to live on through your love and devotion! You raised a special man ! Health and best wishes to your family I hope you are doing better! Mary Dingas RN

In Memory
With Honor & Respect.

To the family...I have been walking at Mondauk Park and I noticed the beautiful mums as I passed the bench with Robert's name on it. I stopped to read the beautiful memorial plaque on the bench and I realized that Robert must have been a victim of September 11, 2001. It took me right back to that day. I thought about Robert and his family throughout my entire walk and I just want you to know that I was sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. When I came home, I couldn't help but...

Thinking today of your laugh, Bob. Thinking as well of all those subway rides at the end of another long day slinging books. Take care, my friend.