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for ROBERT NEW
April 16, 2011
Dear Pam, My dad died at age 58 suddenly of a heart attack. This age is too young to die. I hope you are feeling better and hope to see you soon. Kathleen Bergeron Raffoul
March 16, 2011
Dear Pam:
I am so terribly sorry to just now learn of Bob's death. When you and I spoke a few years back you told me of Bob's victory over cancer many years before. The wonderful strength, love and compassion you shared in that brief conversation has stayed with me. In 2007 I too was diagnosed with cancer and have often thought about you and Bob. Through God's grace I have recovered.
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy.
Bill Lauderback
Austin, Texas
Colette Dyer Johnson
March 12, 2011
Mrs. New,
Fresh out of college I started the management training program at NationsBank. My first real boss was your husband. And I mean real in every sense of the word. I learned so much from him that I still reflect on even now.
At my first branch I won a trip to Las Vegas and had the opportunity to join you and Mr. New for a trip to Nevada. Everyone else had a spouse or significant other, I chose to bring my mother. You both treated her in such a loving and caring way...it was one of those moments that I'll never forget.
I was searching for Bob to touch base when I saw the obituary. To say the least, I was saddened beyond words...I know that it has been almost a year since his death. Even though time has gone on, I know the hurt has not. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. And please know that your husband was truly a blessing in my life.
Mark Robinson
October 16, 2010
Dear Pam & other family of Bob New,
While over at Green Bank on Thursday, I learned that Bob had gone to be with our Savior. I'd called Bob every 3-4 months to check in, but the last time was a bit longer - in February. I regret not having been able to attend his funeral to share with each of you in person how much Bob meant to me personally and professionally.
Bob and I both went to Trinity ('95), and were introduced by one of his colleagues Peyton Jones. Soon thereafter, Manny and Bob invited me to be the green consultant to Redstone as it became Green Bank, trusting my firm with brand & website design, green building certification, green electricity procurement, team training, and much more. What an honor to be able to drive by part of his legacy daily. But, I'll never forget how Bob had printed out, bound, and highlighted every page of my web site for the interview. He was thorough, disciplined, well reasoned, frugal, creative and visionary.
On a lighter note, I still remember how red in the face he got when I repeatedly, jokingly encouraged him to buy some Gold Toe brand bamboo dress socks at Dillard's, since he was tackling a Top 10 List of Ways to Go Green at work and home. About 4 months later, he wrote me a simple note on personal stationary "Never say never. Bob" just below a bamboo socks sticker.
I cherish the many authentic conversations as mentor and friend that he offered. What was apparent since we met in 2007 was that he genuinely loved each of you, particularly his son, of whom he often spoke.
May God continue to bless your family. I look forward to meeting you someday.
Warm regards,
Mark Robinson
Momentum Bay Associates LP
May 31, 2010
SENATE PROCLAMATION NO. 556
In Memory of Robert Valentine New, Jr.
WHEREAS, The Senate of the State of Texas joins the citizens of The Woodlands in mourning the loss of Robert Valentine New, Jr., who died April 18, 2010, at the age of 58; and
WHEREAS, Robert Valentine New, Jr., was born October 26, 1951, in Pasadena, California; as a young man, he became a student at the Marine Military Academy in Harlingen, a step that was to play a decisive role in shaping his outlook on life; and
WHEREAS, While at the academy, Mr. New lettered in football, basketball, and swimming and earned his private pilot's license; he became a company commander and earned the Superintendent's Award and the Military Leadership Award, graduating with honors before going on to serve in the United States Marine Corps; and
WHEREAS, Mr. New earned a bachelor's degree in business administration at Trinity University in San Antonio; while attending the university, he met Pamela Ann Roche, and they were married on June 26, 1976; and
WHEREAS, Mr. New enjoyed a long and productive career in the financial services industry; he began his career at Southwest Texas National Bank and worked at Texas Commerce Bancshares, where he was mentored by Ben F. Love; he went on to work with several banking groups and to serve on the boards of numerous community organizations; and
WHEREAS, A man of courage, strength, and integrity, he gave unselfishly to others, and his enthusiasm, fair-mindedness, and positive outlook on life will not be forgotten by those who knew him; and
WHEREAS, He was a devoted husband and father, and he leaves behind memories that will be treasured forever by his family and many friends; now, therefore, be it
PROCLAIMED, That the Senate of the State of Texas hereby extend sincere condolences to the bereaved family of Robert Valentine New, Jr.: his wife, Pamela A. New; his son and daughter-in-law, Robert V. New III and his wife, Kelly E. New; his sister, Dr. Bonnie A. New; and his brother, Michael A. New; and, be it further
PROCLAIMED, That a copy of this Proclamation be prepared for his family as an expression of deepest sympathy from the Texas Senate.
Tommy Williams
Member, Texas Senate
Shauna & Mayor Bob Lucas
May 28, 2010
Pam,
Frank Evans just informed us of Bob's passing. Shauna and I offer our sincere condolences and we will always remember the night we met Bob and you at the 'Big Party' with Linda and Frank. Your 'Texas' personalities made us feel like we had known you for years.
With Love your cousins Lisa and Paris Mariano
May 18, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
Carol fARRINGTON
May 18, 2010
Dear Family of Bob New,
I met Bonnie at Indiana University in 1970. We became fast friends the first day of school and she became part of our Indiana family. She spoke so highly of her brother Bob and grieved over his diagnosis of Hodgkins. When he was treated successfully we were all so happy.
I am so sorry for all your family at the loss of a wonderful man.
Love you Bonnie and I know all the family will miss him very much. Carol Farrington
noel bustamante
May 15, 2010
Dear Pam, I was recently trying to find y'all so I could invite myself over. I am sad that I missed the opportunity to talk to him again. It had been at least ten years. Bob was my boss in the early 90s in Houston. I want you to know that I clutch you and Bob tightly in my heart. Bob absolutely cherished you and we all adored you both.
Noel Bustamante
Janet Reinhart
May 15, 2010
My heart breaks at the loss of Bob.
When NCNB acquired University Savings, I approached Bob on his first morning in Houston ... I want to be your secretary ... you need me! We started with 1 file folder. For the next 12 years, we were a team; Bob and Me and the beautiful Pam. I was never "just a secretary" to them. I was and am their friend.
Bob was one-in-a-million, and I'm so grateful to have had him as part of my life. He and Pam will be in my heart forever.
Brad and Christy Mize
May 6, 2010
Dear Pam,
We were so blessed to have the both of you as our new neighbors. We wish we would have gotten to know Bob better. He obviously was a remarkable, honorable and loving man. You have constantly been in our thoughts and prayers over these very hard months. Bob is in a wonderful place with God now, and his pain is gone. May precious memories stay with you always until you are reunited. We are so thrilled that you are going to continue to be our neighbor! The little Mize girls adore you and so do we. Knock on our door anytime you please, you will always be welcome.
Love, Christy, Brad, Megan, Madelyn, and Macie Mize
May 6, 2010
Your “Star Pupil”
It was 1993 when I first met Bob New
Little then did I know
Fourteen years of my life I would spend with him
Where he managed, I would go
Throughout his career I remained employed
Regardless of the acquisitions
With each transition a chance to grow
Always granted a new position
We saw many changes from year to year
As each building would post its’ new name
Our respect for each other and friendship in tact
That would always stay the same
A handsome man with a sense of humor
A boss who was somewhat stern
Who expected the best and encouraged the same
Through his guidance, to be successful I learned
When being assigned to a project by Bob
I would diligently work through the day
But in the end he was always in charge
It would always turn out just his way
We would all rise to meet his high expectations
When Bob was proud of his team we all knew
For he was always sincere in expressing that pride
And gave credit where credit was due
With beautiful handwriting via felt tipped pen
Be it black or brilliant red
When an inter-office envelope arrived at my desk
The color signified if there was something to dread!
If a red shade appeared I would take a deep breath
Oh so slowly I’d untwist the seal
A lesson in banking to learn once again
With his wisdom I learned how to “deal”
A stickler for expenses with one exception
And this system I still use on the job
The secret is BINDERS, MORE BINDERS YOU NEED!
Thus the nickname, “Binder Bob”
Bob was greener than anyone I knew
Save cans, paper, and boxes was his rule
He worked at Green Bank and grew up in Greenville
Bob was green before green was cool
A wonderful father to Bobby, his son
Devoted love to wife Pam; ever caring
As a couple they traveled to follow his dreams
Down each path, a love worth sharing
Pam and Bob were the hosts at Christmas each year
Opening their home in a gracious way
I recall a dilemma with the caterer one year
Bob came to the rescue with those deli trays!
I remember one year Pam showed me his closet
Shoes and clothes neatly faced in a row
Showing organization not only at work
Perhaps being a distinguished marine made that quality so
Each year as Christmas cheer was shared
A tin of toffee would arrive on his front step
A thank you note was soon to follow
And all fifteen I’ve cherished and kept
When I think of Bob, I will always be grateful
For calling me to come and work at each bank
And the grace he possessed to make us all feel
We were equals, no matter our “rank”
He always made time to talk with me
Now at peace, he won’t break tradition
I can picture him there keeping angels in line
To make some type of “heavenly acquisition!”
Just a few days ago I held his hand
I’ve been blessed by our time God allowed
From this day on, I promise you this
Your “Star Pupil” will make you proud
~Teresa Null
Kathleen Raffoul
May 1, 2010
Dear Pam, Remember him as he was before he became so ill. Just remember the happy times always. He was really too young and was gone too quickly. I pray that God will give you strength and comfort. Kathleen
April 28, 2010
In one of the stars
I shall be living.
In one of them
I shall be laughing.
And so it will be
As if all the stars
Were laughing
When you look
At the sky at night.
~ The Little Prince
Antonine de Saint-Exupery
There is sweetness in the laughter of all the stars,
and in the memories of the one you love.
April 27, 2010
Reading by Kelly Elizabeth New
Psalm 23
The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. he makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; Your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; My cup overflows.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
April 27, 2010
A Son's Promise
Dad, All of life's lessons, you taught me along the way. I pray I can remember, all that you had to say.
I'll do my best to serve the Lord, and always lend a hand. For men are measured by their good deeds, this I understand.
I'll respect peers and colleagues, each step along the way. And though their views may differ, I'll value what they say.
I'll treat my friends like family, and be there when in need. And for my family's wishes, over mine they will precede.
I'll love my wife so dearly, and keep her free from threat. To honor words I've spoken, and vows I won't forget.
I'll take care of my mother, and hold her when she cries. I'll teach my children right from wrong, and not to tell a lie.
You showed my be example, these teachings I hold true. I'll put them into action, this I promise you.
So Dad, Thanks for all the words of wisdom, I'll ensure I comprehend. This I promise to you, my father and my friend.
Your loving son,
Robert V. New III
Em Spera
April 26, 2010
Tina and I will forever remember Bob. He was my best friend. Bob, I am sorry I could not be there to pay you the tribute you earned throughout your life. I will miss you Bob.
Al Denison
April 26, 2010
My deepest sympathies and sincere prayers for Bob's family.
I was stunned to read of Bobs transfer to his new Duty Station at Marine Barracks Heaven.*
I remember Bob very well from my years at MMA.
Semper Fi Marine and God Speed Bob.
We'll see you again soon...
Cadet Sgt Al Denison MMA '67-'69
*"If the Army or the Navy ever look on Heaven scenes, they will find the streets are guarded by United States Marines."
Marine Corps Hymn vs 3
Phillip DeMatteis
April 25, 2010
Pam Sandy and I were sadddened to hear of Bobs passing please accept our sympathy for your loss
Lynne and Mark Bolotin
April 25, 2010
Dear Pam,
We were saddened to read of Bob's passing, and we wish to extend our most sincere sympathies to you and your family. While we only knew Bob for a short time, we enjoyed the time we spent together.
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shirley Fiscus
April 25, 2010
I was saddened to hear of Bob's passing. I had the pleasure of working with him at Bank of America and he had a way of making you truly enjoying your job and what you do! I have never forgotten him impact on my work ethic! My condolences to your family.
Andy Nations
April 24, 2010
When He gets to heaven , St. Peter he will tell , "Another Marine reporting Sir , I have served My time , and all is well. "
"Semper Fidelis" , Robert V. New Jr. .
This old world is now a lesser place , and forever shall be a much better place , just because you were the " MAN IN THE ARENA "
Alice Melancon
April 24, 2010
Pam, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope as time passes your happy memories will give you comfort. I didn't know Bob, but I remember you from our PTA days in The Woodlands. I know how much you loved your family.
Alice Melancon
Sam Houston DAR Members
April 23, 2010
Sam Houston Chapter, NSDAR send sincere condolences to Pam and all family members of Robert New. His loss will leave an irreparable rent in the fabric of Houston's civic and patriotic communities.
Kelly & John Mooz
April 23, 2010
Dear Pam & Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Bob. Our lives intersected briefly when we bought your beautiful house in West U. I always felt a connection to you all as my dad was also a Marine (semper fi.) You both were so kind to us through the house buying process. Our condolences are with you during this very difficult time.
Best, Kelly & John Mooz
April 23, 2010
My sincere condolences to you and your family. You will remain in my prayers. With sympathy, Lorie Marcionetti
Rivers Patout
April 23, 2010
My sympathies to the New family. You will remain in our prayers.
Jim Kollaer
April 23, 2010
Pam. Bob and I got to know each other when I was serving as President of the Greater Houston Partnership. He brought a fresh, exuberant and witty viewpoint to everything we worked on. He was a gracious host, a willing volunteer and a friend. The last time I saw him, he was upbeat, optimistic and cancer free. As a survivor myself, I know how he must have felt.
Now that he has graduated from this all too short life we live, please remember all the folks whose lives he touched and the ways his wry smile brightened the day for those around him. We are all the better for having known him, saddened for your loss, and smiling at all the great memories he left in his wake. God Bless.
Bert Pearsall
April 23, 2010
Pam,
I just saw this and wanted to let you know how sorry I am to hear about Bob. As you know Bob and I worked together at Bank of America and we were also good friends. When you left Texas I lost touch with him, but I know I will see him again when it is my time and he will be in prominent position of leadership and caring.
Bert
Kathryn Lima
April 23, 2010
Pam,
We were so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. Although your time in the Shenango Valley was brief, we still share your loss. Our sincere condolences to you and your family. With sympathy,
John & Kathryn Lima
April 22, 2010
Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your wonderful husband. May your many fine memories help you in years to come. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please know your friends love you.
Judy Saks Rosenthal
Chaplain, Lady Washington
Patti Hawk
April 22, 2010
Dear Pam & Family,
Bob was a man of honor, character and he was well respected. I worked with Bob at NCNB/NationsBank/Bank of America. I always admired his management style. He always expected 110% from the people who worked for him, but he also gave them 110% and more. I feel blessed to have worked with such person. He will be truly missed. God bless you all.
Kim White
April 22, 2010
My condolences to the New family. I was deeply saddened when I read in the FNB First Insider that Mr. New had passed away. I work at the Tech center and had the pleasure of meeting Mr. New a couple of times. He always had a smile and a hello. The one day he was walking with Louise Lowery (my boss) in the atrium where a couple of us girls were eating our lunch. He took the time to stop and say hello and even tell us a couple of jokes,(pretty funny ones at that!) Not many CEO's get that personal. He just always made you feel like you were equal when you saw him. I think that says alot for someone. FNB has a Relay For Life Team and I will be sure and have a Luminaries Bag with Bob's name on it at our Relay on June 20th. God Bless
April 22, 2010
Pam: Nancy and I are so sad to hear about Bob. We had so many great times together. I met Bob at the University Club and we hit it off the very first time we met. We send our heartfelt sympathy and love to you. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Fondly, Nancy and Rick Kendall
April 22, 2010
Pam and Family, you were so fortunate to have Bob as a husband and father. Attending MMA with Bob made me realize he was a devoted person.
Harold John Zurlo
MMA'69
Peggy Carter Wehe
April 22, 2010
I worked with Bob for a while after the Nationsbank / Bank of America merger. He was loved and respected by those who worked for him. I am sad to read of his death. My sympathy and prayers to the family.
Casey Lowery
April 22, 2010
My thoughts are with the New family. From an Alumni of the Marine Military Academy who was not with him in S. Texas but followed in the foot steps of the classes that helped set and keep the standard of the Corps.
I have fond memories of meeting Bob and will keep his family in my thoughts and prayers.
MARTIN JOHNSON
April 22, 2010
My prayers to the New Family, I remember Bob as a leader and mentor. God Bless Bob and his Family. Semper Fi
Martin J. Johnson
MMA - '73
Gary Cook
April 22, 2010
To Pam & Family, I only knew Bob for a short period of time when he was part of FNB in Pa. He was a very good person and gentlemen in every respect. Please accept our condolences from the staff of Bank Capital Services a subsidiary of FNB of Pennsylvania.
George Adelson
April 22, 2010
Chardelle and I offer our condolences to the New family and especially Pam. We have known Bob for a long time and will miss his unbelievable smile, especially when he hit a "winner" on the tennis court. A great friend and wonderful person, he will be sorely missed.
April 22, 2010
Dear Pam and Family, I pray for you and your family, I have enjoyed knowing both of you - God Bless, Marilyn Weeden
April 22, 2010
Pam,
May God bless and comfort you. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Phillip and Lisa Sharp
Mia Hinojosa
April 22, 2010
Dearest Pam & Family,
I had the honor of working with Bob at Green Bank. It was amazing to hear of an open door policy and know that Bob was always welcoming your knock on his door. He was a CEO and Leader that wasn't afraid to sit down with his employees to learn more and help find resolutions to any obstacle that you may have been faced with. I was able to visit him during a Steelers game after he moved and was happy to hear of his return back to Houston. I will remember his laughter, and all the notes he used to leave by the empty candy jar on my desk which was guarded by a tiny tiger (notes he wrote reading- feed me i'm hungry), ah yes and he would greet us daily with the joke of the day - but most of all I will remember his electrifying smile that could light up a room. I am deeply sorry to hear of your loss, and I want you to know that he touched MANY peoples lives. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers always.
Theresa Burkett
April 22, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with the New family during this difficult time. May you find peace with your memories. I enjoyed working with Mr. New at Coastal Banc.
Eric Lipper
April 22, 2010
Bob was a great friend, always enjoyable, and a true leader. We should all strive to emulate him. He will be missed!
Tom Tamlyn
April 22, 2010
As another graduate of the Marine Military Academy, I heartily agree with Bob on what it taught me and others: the timeless values of hard work, teamwork, building positive relationships, leadership by example, and ultimately success.
Our family expresses heartfelt condolences.
Belinda Januszewski
April 22, 2010
My condolences to Rob and the entire New family. I had the absolute pleasure of working with Bob at Nations Bank and Bank of America. He was my mentor. He gave me my start as a manager for Bank of America and I will never forget him. I tell everyone that Bob was the best leader I have ever worked for. He taught me the true meaning of work, family life balance. It was always clear that his family meant everything to him. If there is any "good" in me as a manager today, then I attribute that to Bob New. Rob, please know that my prayers are with you.
Nancy Sims
April 22, 2010
My sympathies to Pam and the family. Bob was one of the finest people I have had the privilege to work with over the years. His commitment to Houston and civic service was unwavering. He touched and improved many lives.
God Bless.
Alan Bagwell
April 21, 2010
My condolences to the New family. Mr. New was a kind man who loved his family, The Marines and the Banking Industry.
Siri & Buddy Schuchardt
April 21, 2010
Dearest Pam & Family,
We have thought of you so much during the last nine months and always with the hope that Bob would pull through this stumbling block just like he did so many years ago. We remember coming to San Antonio when Bobby was only about 18 or 20 months old and seeing how Bob just looked adversity in the face and challenged it to take him down. He was a good man, one who loved his family with all his heart, and it showed. Pam, you were his angel, and now he can be yours. Be thankful for the memories, the love, and the knowledge that you will go on and be fine. There are so many of us to help you along the way.
We wish we could be down there for the service, but you know we will be there in spirit and say a prayer for you all on Saturday.
Love,
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