Photo courtesy of Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph
Saint Joseph, Missouri
Sep 21, 1939 – Aug 26, 2025 (Age 85)
Robert “Bob” Patton passed away unexpectedly on August 26, 2025, surrounded by
his loving family.
Bob was a man whose life was defined by love, generosity, and a steadfast commitment
to those he cared about. Known affectionately as Bob, Good Ol’ Bob, Stanley, Bobbie,
Daddy Don’t, Papa Bear, or Robert (if in trouble), he lived with humor and heart. Bob
believed a person’s word was their bond. He was someone you could always count on,
a man who worked hard, loved deeply, and showed affection through his trademark
teasing smile and twinkle in his squinty eyes.
He shared 57 wonderful years with his late wife, Helen, and together they built a family
grounded in unconditional love. Their years together were filled with joy, partnership,
and deep faith. Bob was blessed to spend the last eight years with his partner, Loretta
McCray. Together they enjoyed traveling, cheering on the Chiefs and the Mustangs, and
spending time with family and friends.
Bob found joy in the simple things—morning coffee with friends, woodworking,
afternoons on the golf course, walks hand in hand with Loretta, or long drives pointing
out plants and trees along the roadside to his grandchildren. He loved celebrating the
accomplishments of his children and grandchildren and was always present to support
them in their activities. Whether offering guidance, teaching the value of hard work, or
simply showing up with encouragement, Bob’s family knew his love and pride ran deep.
He is survived by his partner, Loretta McCray; daughters Lynn Wilson (Gerry) and
Kathy Patton (Todd Ward); grandchildren Zach Wilson (Rachael), Alix Cronin
(Jarret), and Gaige Wilson (Emma); and great-grandchildren Carter, Mavry, Lincoln,
and Lucas.
Visitation will be held on September 2 from 4:30–5:30 p.m., followed by a service at
5:30 p.m. at Heaton-Bowman-Smith-Sidenfaden Chapel at 3609 Frederick Blvd. St. Joseph, MO.
Memorial contributions may be made to Camp Haven (summer camp for children ages
8-12 who have lost a loved one) St. Joseph Habitat for Humanity or St. Jude
Children’s Research Hospital.
Shocked and sorrowful ! Bob & Loretta came to Wichita to visit our “new home “ a week prior to this uneventful passing!! God be with him !!
Richard & Phyllis
August 29, 2025 | Friend
Bob was a wonderful neighbor and friend to our family on South 39th Street. He was always smiling and so full of life. Prayers for peace as you navigate this profound loss.
Lisa Beringer
August 28, 2025 | Bella Vista, AR | Friend
Words are difficult to form in situations as this. Bob Patton was a very honest and welcoming man. Thank you, Mr. Patton, for the life you shared with us! We will remember you and miss your teasing but loving presence!!! Continued thoughts and prayers for your wonderful family! Lovingly, Brooner family
Deb Brooner
August 28, 2025 | Saint Joseph, MO | Friend
My sympathy to the family. I worked withe Bob at SWBell. Great guy made the job fun.
Ronald Mueller
August 28, 2025 | Sunrise Beach, MO | Coworker
The description of his "trademark teasing smile and twinkle in his squinty eyes" couldn't have been said any better. I will miss that exact thing the most. I could always count on Bob teasing and giving me a hard time, but that is how I knew he cared about me. You are one of the great ones Bob, and we will miss you dearly. All our love to Bob's amazing family. He and Helen passed many wonderful traits to you all, and we're blessed to know and love you. Thank you for sharing your father and...
Megan, Jeremy and Charlee Kidwell
August 28, 2025 | Saint Joseph, MO | Friend
My sincere condolences to you and your sister I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was so awesome to us all. Love you.
Jill Geiger
August 27, 2025 | Gravois Mills, MO | Friend
Bob and my husband David worked on Habitat projects together and knew each other from golf. He was always an exceptionally friendly man and he will be greatly missed. There is, unfortunately, a number of wonderful Duncan Hills golfers up There to greet him. My deepest sympathies to the family.
Micki Schussler
August 27, 2025 | St Joe, MO | Friend
You will be missed dearly at Duncan Hills’s golf course. You were a wonderful Marshall golfer and and a gentleman
Tonya Young
August 27, 2025 | Savannah, MO | Coworker
My heart is saddened. Dear, dear friend and great memories to hold on to
Penney Kerns
August 27, 2025 | St Joseph, MO | Friend
