Robert Proctor

Many years ago, (1970-73), Robert was my neighbor three doors down on Prospect Street. When Robert discovered I was establishing the first speech therapy services at Cooley Dickinson Hospital, he thought I would have a special ability to understand him, which I didn't always because I was often in too much of a hurry to be patient about understanding him, especially after I had a baby in 1971 and was always needing to race into the house to relieve the babysitter when Robert would catch me...

I'm saddened to hear of Roberts passing an even more saddened that I'm reading this 3 days after his service. I was happy to read that he lived an amazing life. I first met Robert when I was the head teller at Pioneer National Bank many years ago. He was always very kind when he saw me. I hadn't seen him for many years and ran into him on Conz Street. I was so happy to see him and I took a picture of him. He gave me a warm embrace. I guess all that bike riding was the key to his longevity....

Robert was recycling before it became the thing to do! He would always ride around on his bike with stacks of cardboard he collected. He always went into the bank and had to wait for my mom to wait on him. She was his comfort zone to deal with and she enjoyed helping him. RIP Robert, you will be missed as an icon of Northampton.

Robert led a most remarkable life. We were friends for many years. In the beginning of our friendship I often wrote my responses during conversations. Until one day he stopped me mid- writing and asked, "Why are you writing to me? Are you disabled!?" Whoever wrote this thoughtful and touching obituary-thank you. It captures Roberts´ spirit and lifetime accurately and tenderly. Robert always brought out the best in me, as in all people, and I will miss his kindness and friendship.

Robert often stopped by the Northampton Sr. Center on Conz St., where I had delightful conversations and interactions with him. He liked to put his hands on my cheeks as he said, "Thank you." He truly was a unique and sincere man.