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Robert Roy Obituary

SOUTHINGTON - Robert E. Roy, 86, of South End Road, passed away on Wednesday, July 14, 2010, at the Westfield Care & Rehab in Meriden. He was the beloved husband of Dorothea (Caivano) Roy.

Born Oct. 18, 1923 in Torrington, he was the eldest son of the late Louis J. and Bertha (Courchaine) Roy. Robert was a veteran of World War II serving with the U.S. Navy in the Pacific Theatre of Operations from 1943 to 1946, and was a proud member of the U.S. Navy Beach Jumpers, BJU6. He was employed at Gray Mfg. Co., Hartford, Times Wire and Cable, Wallingford and retired from Sikorsky Aircraft, Stratford in 1990, as purchasing manager. Bob was an active parishioner of Mary Our Queen Church, serving on the building committee and was a Eucharistic Minister and commentator.

Bob was actively involved in his community, most notably serving as the Republican Town Committee chairman in the 1960's. He was passionate about his numerous interests including, the arts, environment, genealogy, technology, photography, history, politics and lifelong learning. He was a member of the U.S. Beach Jumpers Association, American Legion Kiltonic Post 72 Southington, VFW Post 09086 Torrington, Provincetown Center for Coastal Studies, Association des Familles Roy d'Amerique of Canada, French Canadian Genealogical Society of Connecticut, of Tolland, Southington Genealogical Society of Plantsville, Connecticut Historical Society, where he volunteered for over 10 years, Ocracoke Preservation Society, The Statue of Liberty-Ellis Island Foundation, Inc., and the National Geographic Society.

Bob's family would like to thank the staff at the Westfield Care and Rehab and the Franciscan Hospice care for all their care, attention and support shown to their husband and father. Bob will be incredibly missed for his quiet nature in achieving his many accomplishments and most of all his devotion and love to his family.

Besides his wife, Bob is survived by his two loving daughters, Annette R. Lombardi and husband, Anthony, of New Hartford, and Michele R. Pekoske and husband, David, of Bethesda, Md.; a brother, Donald J. Roy, of Torrington; four adoring grandchildren, Matthew D. Pekoske, of Alameda, Calif., Kristen M., Corinne N. and Jillian E. Pekoske, all of Bethesda, Md.; a niece, Lynn Banziruk, of Torrington; and a nephew, Thomas Roy, of Acworth, Ga.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the U.S. Navy Beach Jumper's Memorial Fund, 450-106 State Road 13N, #407, St. Johns, FL 32259-3860 or to a charity of one's choice. The funeral will be held on Saturday, July 17, at 8:45a.m., from the DellaVecchia Funeral Home, 211 N. Main St., Southington, to Mary Our Queen Church, 248 Savage St., Plantsville, for a Mass at 9:30 a.m. Burial with military honors will be in St. Francis Cemetery, Torrington. Calling hours will be Friday (TODAY) from 5 to 8 p.m. For online condolences and directions please visit, www.dellavecchiafh.com

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Published by The Record-Journal on Jul. 16, 2010.

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Louise Elvidge

August 13, 2010

Dear Annette and Tony,
We were so sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please extend
our deepest sympathy to your Mom, Michelle and her family.
Love Louise, Bob, Vicki and Amanda

Doug Hageman

July 20, 2010

I regret not being aware of Rob's passing in a more timely fashion.

Rob was among the pillars of the Southington Republican Town Committee when I first arrived here 35 years ago.

I recall others speaking of his coming up with a live elephant for one of the earliest Apple Harvest Festival Parades - I wish I'd have seen that!

Always a pleasant soul, we'll remember him fondly.

Roland Roy

July 19, 2010

To the entire Family of Robert Roy:

I was not aware of this until recently and I want you to know that you are all in my prayers. He was a great family man and certainly will be missed. You will be all in my prayers for strength.

Roland & Maureen Roy

Mary Ann

July 18, 2010

Michelle & Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sorrow.Mary Ann Arszyla Bonczek

Mary Ann

July 18, 2010

Michelle & Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all, in this time of sorrow. Mary Ann Arszyla Bonczek

Mary Ann

July 18, 2010

Michelle and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow. Mary Ann Arszyla Bonczek.

July 16, 2010

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