Roland Burphy Jr.

On this Thanksgiving day I can't help but think of you my dear cousin/little brother. I miss you so much words cannot express how much. Man you would've had a big plate of food today and went back for seconds and more. We will never forget you and will always keep your memory alive. Your death will not be in vain.

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome...

Aunty Nan, Whi-Whi and TK, only God knows all the answers to our questions right now. My prayers go out to the entire family. Shagari, you are gone but your 22 years of life will never be forgotten. May your soul rest in eternal peace.

One month and a day ago, we laid Shagari to rest. Our family continues to mourn this incredible loss but we also cherish his moments with us and celebrate his wonderful life. Shagari was more like my baby brother than my cousin and I feel blessed to have enjoyed almost 23 years with him. I will always miss him but I rest assured that his life was not in vain and that we will meet again in heaven. May the same true God who welcomed Shagari home comfort each of our hearts!!