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Ruby Cornelia Lowder Smith Moore

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Ruby Moore Obituary

Ruby Cornelia
Lowder Smith Moore
'Banty'
Ruby Moore, last in line of her immediate family, began her journey in life on May 7, 1916 and joined her heavenly father on Friday, January 21, 2011 at the grand age of 94 years. She was born in Charlotte where she lived for most of her life.
Visitation for friends and family will be on Friday, January 28, 2011 from 1:00 to 2:00 pm at McEwen Funeral service Charlotte Chapel (at Sharon Memorial Park), 5716 Monroe Road, Charlotte, NC 28212. The service will be held immediately after visitation at 2:00 pm and interment will follow at Sharon Memorial Park where she will be laid to rest next to her late husband Jack S. Smith.
She was preceded in death by her father David Selkirk Lowder (d 1953), mother Janie Faires Lowder (d 1918), brother Harry Lowder (Ethel), sisters Louise DeSousa (John), Bertha McIntosh, first husband Jack Sherman Smith (d 1945), second husband Ernest Linley Moore 'Pop'" (d 1959), step-daughters Virginia Herman (Charles), Gladys Hall (Garwood), her third child Michael Winslow Smith, Sr. (d 2009) and her son's second wife Daphne Johnson Smith (d 1993). She is survived by three children: Loretta Bacot, David H. Smith and Nancy Simpson (Milton) of Monroe and daughter-in-law Joan Smith Bates.
Her grandchildren are: Marcia Rushing, Denise Moore, Regina Lewis, Robin Crenshaw (Rocky), Michael W. Smith, Jr., Jack E. Smith, Sr. (Carrie), Tonya Honeycutt (Richard), Simone Smith, Devin Smith (Brittany), Heather Birmingham (Shea) and Christopher Simpson; step-grandchildren are: Rene Pittman (Mike), Kyle Johnson (Cherry) and Anita Johnson.
Her great-grandchildren are: Tracy Rushing, Jesse Holar, Anna Hill (Eric), William Hill, Brandy McDonald (Tim), Jack E. Smith, Jr., Joseph Smith (Sarah), Sandra Smith, Tony Ellis, Cody Honeycutt, Danielle Smith, Colbie and Emma Smith (twins), Bryson Birmingham and Hunter Birmingham; and step-great-grandchildren are: Brittany Johnson, Cassidy Johnson, Kasie Britt, Josh Fischer, Shawn Pittman and Shannon Thomas (Josh). Her great-great-grandchildren are: Nathaniel Ellis, Skyler Ellis, Ruby Hollar, Cameron Ross, Olivia Hill, Elijah McDonald, Alexis McDonald and Abigail Smith; and step-great-great-grandchildren are: Jayden Britt, Marcus Britt, and Jaylyn Thomas.
During her journey through life she lost her mother at the age of two in the flu epidemic of 1918; was at Alexander Children's Home from 5-12 years old; went to live with her sister and had to quit school at Central High School in the eleventh grade to go to work to help support her family during the Great Depression; in her fifties she earned her high school diploma in night school; married in 1934 and had 4 children; worked at the Shell Plant in Charlotte during World War II, worked for Southern Bell in Charlotte as a long-distance operator, service assistant and test-desk technician from 1946-1981 where she retired. She was an active member of Communication Workers of America (CWA) for retired telephone personnel. Her travels took her to the Holy Lands, parts of Europe, Hawaii and Brazil. On two different years, she and her son, David, traveled in a pop-up trailer and visited 48 states. She always wanted to see Alaska but it was just not to be.
She was very active with her church activities by singing in the choir and Sunday school teacher at Seigle Avenue Presbyterian Church, choir member and cub scout leader at Plaza Presbyterian Church and an active member at Northside Baptist where she sang in the choir along with other 'Jolly Sixties' activities.
We would like to express our most heartfelt gratitude to Betty Starnes (Bill) for the faithful daily encouragement and prayers over the past three-plus years. We would also like to thank family members, people she worked with at Southern Bell and members of Northside Baptist Church who brought her joy and comfort when they visited, phoned and sent cards. Also to Advance Home Health Care staff during the years she was with them and to the Presbyterian Hospice staff for her care during the last days of her life.
If you wish, in lieu of flowers, a donation may be made in name of Ruby Moore to Northside Baptist Church, 333 Jeremiah Blvd., Charlotte, NC 28262 or because she contributed to many worthwhile charities over the years, you may want to make a donation to any charity you wish.
Condolences may be sent to: www.mcewenfs.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Jan. 24 to Jan. 25, 2011.

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Lilly Elena Ashleigh Calebro

January 19, 2012

Its been almost a year since our Banty left us.Its see like a lifetime to all of us.Banty we love you and miss you so much.There can never be a replacement for you. I am so thankful that my sisters and I were a part of your wonderful life.I know you are watching over us every minute of every day.Love you so much

Janet Colborne

February 7, 2011

My mom was Nancy Lowder Gilbert, who preceded Aunt Ruby in death in 2008. I met Aunt Ruby several years ago and was delighted to meet her. My mom spoke so highly of her Aunt Ruby. I remember the last Christmas card Aunt Ruby sent to my mom, in 2007... we were amazed at her penmanship...beautiful writing and sweet thoughts. I don't think Aunt Ruby knew that my mom died, but I feel joy that they are reunited in Heaven now!

Margie Faires

February 4, 2011

Nancy, I'm sorry that you lost your dear Mother. Be thankful for the many good memories that you have of her. She was a wonderful person, and I really enjoyed the few times I was able to visit with her. I was married to her 1st cousin, Maurice Elmore Faires.

Still tellin' stories

Simone Smith

February 4, 2011

My Banty...I remember spending summers with you and learning how to cultivate my green thumb in your yearly garden. Oh, what a chore! Watering plants, Pulling Weeds!, picking cucumbers and learning about blooms. I remember learning how to fold laundry and Banty saying, "One day you'll have to this for your husband", and me, six years old saying back without skipping a beat, "But Banty, why can't he fold his own laundry?", and getting a good laugh. I remember long, long afternoons at her kitchen table learning multiplication tables. Spending time reading out loud to her and catching her sleeping while I did. Learning about Jesus, God, and the Holy Spirit. Learning about my history. Hearing stories about her jumping a train at 12 years old, winning dance competitions, and doing back flips to show her co-workers she still could. Most of all, I remember her love and grace. Thank you Banty for cultivating the ruby in my heart. I'll keep listening, and growing in the Lord. I'll be seeing you. Your Monie.

Vanessa Morgan

January 29, 2011

Nancy, Heather, & other family members I am sorry I didn't know her service was today or I would have been there to tell Ms Ruby one more time I will see her later. When God calls me home. I thought the world of Ms Ruby. I had the opportunity of meeting her at Heather's bridal shower, we looked forward to seeing each other aand visiting after that. She was such a beautiful lady who could hold your attention through conversation, like most people couldn't I loved her talking of the old days and about growing up at Alexander's childrens home. I would get closer to her with wedding, baby showers and just a drop in hello. If there is anything I can do for you Nancy or any of your other family please let me know. This is sent with love to Nancy and Heather but most of all alot of love for Ms Ruby. She lived a long life and was blessed in so many ways. She learned young how to take nothing and make something out of it. She was a hard worker who had a great relationship with Jesus and now she can go and rest in peace.

Carey Smith

January 28, 2011

Dearest Banty... I had the honor of meeting you when I was 17 and I have never forgotten. You welcomed me into your home like you had known me my entire life. I always enjoyed visiting with you. When Jack and I became a couple, your words of wisdom to me have stayed. I am so thankful that I am privledged enough to be a part of your family. I love you and I miss you already. You will live in my heart forever and as you asked, I will continue to take care of Jack and the children. I hope I live up to your expectations and I can not wait until I see you again. All my Love, Carey

Jack Smith Sr

January 28, 2011

Banty I had to say good bye to you today, I will miss you so much.you being gone leaves a very big empty spot in my heart as you are so much a part of me. I have always been so lucky to have you as my grandmother you were always there for me and everyone else. thanks to you I have learned how to be a better son,man,father and husband. I was one of the lucky ones on this earth I had Banty in my life. I love you Banty Jack Smith Sr.

January 28, 2011

My Banty was a woman of great wisdom, strength and, most of all love. She touched hearts and dried tears. She was always there .I grew up like most others with this great women. Learning stories of where she has been and about my family history but most importantly about God. She shared this with all of us. Trust in God. She said there was a purpose in life that would take us to a place of beauty and peace and love. A perfect place where we would meet God. She said that was her home and ours. Looking down with a smile of love and understanding, her hand is in Gods. She is happier than she's ever been. This is for Banty.

Carry on and bless it be
for angels cry and we shall weep
A day has come for ones judgement day
and may we all pray for our own heavens sake
We will meet again you and I
And play and laugh like old times
so heres for the one that has passed us by
A friend
A Mother
A Grandmother
A Great grandmother
A Great Great grandmother
A Great Great Great grandmother
A Banty
and many more
Ruby Moore

Always and forever with love
Your great grand daughter sandra smith

January 28, 2011

To My Angel Banty,
If roses grow in heaven , Lord, then pick a bunch for me . Place them in her beautiful arms and tell her thery're from me. Tell her that I Love and Miss her, and when she turns to smile, place a Kiss upon her cheek and hold her for a while. Your Loving Grandson/Son, I Love You Banty Mike Jr.

Brandy McDonald

January 27, 2011

I love you Banty, and I miss you terribly, though I am am positive that you are enjoying being at the right hand of God. You truely are an angel that walked the earth, bring joy and the love of Jesus to everyone you met. Now you are are in heaven, no doubt watching over all the babies as you so loved to do, showing them how to do cartwheels as you did in your younger years. I love you and I miss you.
Brandy

Cynthia Calebro

January 26, 2011

Banty,I know you are so happy to be in the house of our Lord.You are now with your mom again.I feel like I knew her with all the stories you told us about your childhood.I have the fondest memories of you taking all of us to church as young children.You making oatmeal with the fruits in it for breakfast on Sunday morning .I never liked the fruit but I did eat it.When I got older you took Jon to church and many places.When the three girls came along thats all it took they were you heart and you were theres.They remember Halloweens spent at North side and you coming out of your way just to come by and talk to them.I think your 93 birthday was a blessing that was the last time your family and adopted family was together.My heart aches for you but I know one day I will see you again.I Thank God for for you everyday and want you to know you will be truly missed.We love you always .Skipper Cyndee( Lilly Elena Ashleigh your little beauty queens)

January 25, 2011

Dear Family of Mrs. Moore, Our families' history goes back to the 40's. There are many memories of Mrs. Moore and her children. I remember eating rock candy one summer night with my family and the Smith family. I remember when I first started to church at Seigle Avenue and Mrs. Moore was my Sunday School teacher in the Cherub class. When my first child, Angela, was baptized, Mrs. Moore and Mr. Vanderburg stood with us as Dr. Snyder baptized her at Seigle Avenue. My daddy, Paul Simpson, visited Mrs. Moore some Sundays and they shared their faith. My mother, Lucile, was there in attendance with Mrs. Moore, when Nancy, her daughter was born. There are many fond memories I have of Mrs. Moore. As surely as her family misses her, there are many more who will also. She was an easy, likable person, but what I admired most about her was her strength. God bless each of you at this time of her homecoming. Love, Carol Simpson Miller

January 25, 2011

My Mom, Nancy Lowder Gilbert, (Harry's daughter) always talked of her Aunt Ruby so fondly. I regret that I never got to meet her. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Ellen Gilbert Johnson-Huntersville, NC

January 25, 2011

Banty, We all know how over JOYED you are to be with your Jesus, and all of your family right now. I, We will miss
you, but I know you are with us all right
now, looking over all of us and taking care of us always. I Love You and will always thank you for all you gave me when i was growing up. Your Robin Crenshaw

Banty's 90th Birthday

Heather Birmingham

January 24, 2011

I found this picture, too! Love that smile of surprise!

April 2006

Heather Birmingham

January 24, 2011

Banty, I know you are enjoying being with our Heavenly Father! How glorious it must be! Thank you for all that you taught me about Jesus. I will always think of you as I teach my children and other little ones the First Catechism. I miss you, "My Banty", love "your blonde angel", Heather

Mike Gheesling

January 24, 2011

I remeber living with Aunt Vinie and Uncle John. Ruby, David , Loretta and I think Michael. My mother and father and sister and I lived there for a time. I will always have fond memories of Ruby. I was glad to see her at my Mother's funeral. Mother was also 94 when she died. We all send our con dolences.
Mike Gheesling

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