Ruth Otto Abood

Knowing her daughter was going to die, Ruth´s mom Joan Otto asked her to send her a message in a crossword puzzle which she completed daily in the Lansing State Journal. On 6/21/2010 (almost 6 months later) she got this in a computer generated crossword puzzle with answers of "Ruth", "Babe" (her nickname), and "Otto". Joan knew then that Ruth was okay.

I know it's been 8 years since my mother passed but i just didn't know what to say, but now i think i do, you were an amazing mother who taught me to love everyone and to be there for everyone, i miss you everyday of every second, i can't believe your gone, i love you so much mom, you always have my heart but i know you are close with the necklace around my neck, you are and forever will be my hero

Dear Howard, Joan, and family, I don't know if you remember me but when i was a child you helped my family to give us the best Christmas ever. I still think of you every year. I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember Ruth. She actually taught me how to solve the rubix cube with my eyes closed. lol I also remember her recording music off of the radio on to a tape and I was absolutely amazed. It was the coolest thing to me. I wish I would have known her as an adult. She was always very kind.

Dear Joan and Howard ~
I am so very saddened to have just heard of Ruth's passing. What a heart ache for your whole family, and most especially for Ruth's young children. Such a difficult thing to face and carry on . I do pray for all of you to find peace and comfort with the help of family and friends and the memories that will indeed bring smiles over time, instead of the tears.
We miss you here in Cheboygan and many prayers are being sent to you all. Much love.

Dear Joan and Howard,
Ruth was one of my first and closest childhood friends. Your family was known throughout our community for your generosity, kindness, and charity. These traits were passed on to Ruth and demonstrated in the way she treated those around her. She was typically the center of every social scene, as we were drawn to her fun, spirited personality. I have early memories of wheelchair races at the hospital in Hancock, going out to lunch at Big Boy, playing games of...

Dear Joan, Howard and family,

Ruth's funeral was a moving tribute to Ruth. Your family seemed so strong and supportive of each other. Having 2 daughters myself, my heart breaks for you. You (Joan), Ruth and John were so delightful and enjoyable when you'd bring John to our groups at the MAC and the YMCA. Thanks for letting me get to meet the 3 of you.

Gail

Dear Joan and Howard, I was thinking back to my first memory of Ruth. It was when she came to Troy at about the age of 6-8 (?). I remember her as beautiful, smart and very sweet. Surrounded by strangers, she was immediately one of the family and scooped up in whatever we were doing. I believe she had those same traits as an adult. Your love is still with her and she is with you. You are in my prayers.
love, Diana

Dear Joan, Howard and family,

I had many many good times with Ruth growing up and attending Houghton schools. She spent many days at our house and I did the very same at your house. I cherish every moment we had together.
I am so happy I was able to visit her when she lived in the Lainsburg area a few years back.
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
All my love,
Kathy (Pidgeon) Willman

Dear Joan, Howard & Chris & family,
I went to high school with Ruth and remember her as a kind person. I've been thinking about you all and her a lot since I received the news on Christmas Eve of her passing. I know she will be missed dearly by all her friends, but most especilly you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Love, Dave & Shirley Kitzmiller