Ruth Cunningham Cross

I am so sad to hear of Ruth's passing, just as I return to Charlottesville with the intention of enjoying a conversation with her. She has long been a treasured friend of my parents, Francesca and Bob Langbaum--and especially in recent years, after my mother's passing, she was a cornerstone of my father's social circle. She has been present at all our Charlottesville family celebrations, and of course was a member of the monthly supper club that was such an important fixture in the lives of...

Ruth was a titan -- a powerful force whose lifelong advocacy for art, creativity, knowledge, and her beloved UVA Art Museum were surpassed only by her abiding love for her family. She was a dear friend and mentor to me, and I'll always remember her guidance, her wit, her grace, and her style. Thank you, Ruth, for opening your heart and home to so very many.

I will always be grateful to Ruth for welcoming me into her home in Charlottesville when I first came to live in the town in 2009. She became a dear friend and her zest for life and interest in the Arts remain an inspiration.

Ruth was a delightful, talented, and generous friend to Ashlawn Opera from its earliest days. We always enjoyed her company....a life well lived.

We met Ruth & Bob in 1990 when we moved into our new condo downtown. Her kindness in welcoming us flourished into a wonderful and lasting friendship. Ruth was the Grand Dame of the building, kind, helpful, always positive and never had an unkind word to say about anyone. We will miss you always. God speed Ruth.

Ruth was a rare individual, with whom I was in contact until recently. She preserved her interest in life and art until the end, and her generosity as well as her tact were a model for us all.

Ruth was a remarkable woman of style, grace and sparkling intelligence. It was a pleasure to work with her over the years at the Bayly.