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Ruth remains an inspiration to me and her legacy lives on through the Tashi Lhunpo Foundation formerly the Panchen Lama Tashi Lhunpo Project which she founded.
Joji Arellano Santos
June 23, 2025 | Other


Pasadena, California
Ruth Finney Hayward
Ruth Elizabeth Sutherlin Finney Hayward passed away Tuesday, June 11, 2013 at home in Pasadena, Calif., after a seventeen-month battle with brain cancer. She was 73. Ruth was born in Indiana and raised in San Mateo, Calif. She was educated at Stanford and at Harvard...
Read MoreRuth remains an inspiration to me and her legacy lives on through the Tashi Lhunpo Foundation formerly the Panchen Lama Tashi Lhunpo Project which she founded.
Joji Arellano Santos
June 23, 2025 | Other

Thinking of you my dear friend. Your spirit shines in my memory and will forever be part of the buildings at Tashi Lhunpo. Love forever!!!
Priscilla
June 23, 2022 | Friend
Remembering my dearest friend Ruth! We are carrying the torch for you and keeping your legacy alive. The cause of Panchen Lama Tashi Lhunpo Project lives on! I love you Ruth!
Joji Arellano-Santos
June 23, 2020 | Los Altos, CA | Friend
I remember a very pretty Stanford co-ed.
Peter
December 17, 2016 | Vancouver, WA

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Dear Bob, Ruth's family and friends,
I've returned from the grasslands of Kham where I found myself thinking a lot of Ruth: how much meaningfulness Ruth brought into our lives; her caring, daring, humor, and intellect; and her encouragement to be passionate in our lives, too. May your memories bring you enduring comfort, inspiration, and engagement in the new days to come.
Sean, I am so glad you wrote about your mother for us. Thank you.
Ruth, My heartfelt thanks for our...
Jeanne Cosby
July 29, 2013 | Palo Alto, CA
Dear Bob, Sean and Everyone Else Whose Life Ruth Touched,
I only recently found out about Ruth's passing from Mary Fischer, and it has taken a few days to sink in, even though Ruth called me immediately after the diagnosis and this moment was not unexpected. I lost touch with Ruth shortly after the first few weeks of her diagnosis despite trying to send e-mails and phone, and assumed she needed to focus 100% on her care as well as all the other things she wanted to finish before...
July 10, 2013
Ruth was the embodiment of compassion. She devoted her life to relieving suffering across the globe and her work continues to make a very positive impact on so many people's lives. I miss Ruth's kindness, wit, curiosity and passion for life, to name a few. Ruth's legacy will live on for generations. I feel blessed and thankful that Ruth came into my life and inspired me.
I look forward to commemorating Ruth's latest efforts with the completion of the Tashi Lhunpo Monastery, which...
Deborah DeFilippo
July 08, 2013 | Portola Valley, CA
Ruth has been an inspiration to me from the first moment we met in the remote grasslands of Amdo and Kham in the high plateau of Eastern Tibet. Her selfless life in helping others has changed mine and given such insights into Buddhist spiritual worlds. Our last trip together was such a delight as I watched Ruth and Bob together so devoted to the pleasure of each other. Their eagerness to explore was wonderful to witness as they climbed every waterfall and descended every gorge and interacted...
Phila McDaniel
July 08, 2013 | Murrieta, CA
Just found out about Ruth's passing; was away and sorry to hear.. Ruth was an amazing woman, the inspiration to keep going. We will miss her beyond words. Saying prayers for her family and loved ones.
Ann Brutus
July 07, 2013 | Murrieta, CA