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Stefanie (Hueftle) Greenberg
June 24, 2009
It seems merely yesterday that Sarah, my siblings, myself, and the Bains would hang out and talk outside and spend time together. I've known Sarah since we were younger and she grew into a beautiful, funny young lady who knew what she wanted to accomplish in life. I remember visiting my doctor's office while she worked there and her telling me of her future dreams in the field that I am sure would have made an impact on the world. I can't believe that what happened to her is real, there is no sense in it and no answer to be found. Renee, I wish you and your family strength and (eventually) peace. I know she'll be missed by many people. I'm not religious so I can't say anything along those lines, but remember all of the moments you shared with her and take joy and solace in the 19 years you shared with her. If you keep her close in your heart and memory, she'll still be around..just in a different way. Everyone in our lives-for however long or short a time-is there for a reason and purpose. I DO believe you will see her again someday. Remember you can always count on my family if you need anything. We all cared for Sarah and extend our deepest sympathy to the family.
Zachary Matusheski
June 19, 2009
Dear Phil, Renee, and rest of the Trautwein family,
I was sad to hear about the loss of your sister and daughter. I have many fond memories of her. She always seemed to be the voice of reason when me and Phil hung out which is funny because she was so much younger than us. I remember laughing in the car with all three of you about Phil's knowledge of his own strength. Sarah could tell a good joke. And when she was with Renee, the two of you would play off each other. I remember crying in laughter. It hurts to know that she isn't around. She was a bright beacon of joy for me when I was able to see her. And I know I am not the only one. I will keep you in my prayers as I cannot begin to imagine how devastating this is for your family. May the Lord provide you rest and comfort.----Zachary M. Matusheski
Dawn DiFilippo
June 19, 2009
Renee,
I am sorry for your loss, Sarah was an amazing young lady as I read all that is written about her I can't help but smile as I can see her smiling or hear her giggle. It seems as Sarah has added light to many lives I know she touched myself and my daughters. She will be missed.
Fondly,
Janis Hueftle
June 19, 2009
Renee,
We've known Sarah too since she was a young girl when she would come over across the street to play with Kenny and Kerri and had dinner at our house on many occasions. She was sweet and bright eyed and had a brilliant smile. We are praying for you and your entire family during this difficult time. It's hard to remain faithful when God calls a young one home, but rest assured that in his master plan, he has now a beautiful angel in Sarah. May God grant you peace during this most difficult time.
Much Love,
The Hueftle Family
Ken, Janis, Stefanie, Kerri, & Kenny
Javohn Brown
June 19, 2009
I didnt know you or your daughter....But I felt so much love as I reviewd this site for a recent lost of my love-one....I just wanted to say stay encourage, we may never understand God's master plan...But there is one..and we have to leaarn to trust and accept it no matter how hard..it is...May you find love and peace in her memory....
Donna Moorhead
June 18, 2009
Dear Renee, Phillip and Family,
We can't even begin to imagine the pain you are feeling. Shock and Sorrow is what we are feeling in this area. Sarah was such a beautiful girl who always had a smile on her face. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your old neighbors from Flamingo Ct.
The Moorheads
Donna,Michael,Alexandra and Morgan
June 18, 2009
Dear Renee,
I am so sorry to read of your loss.
I remember Phil and Sarah as young kids in the neighborhood on Peregrine Drive and at St. John's. My heart goes out to you and your family and I will pray for you all. Sarah was such a beautiful young woman.
Love, Kathy Matusheski
judie mangel
June 17, 2009
dear renee, phillip and family-
its seems like yesterday that all of the kids were playing together on flamingo court.there are no words of comfort for the pain and sadness you must be feeling at this difficult time.sarah was a happy, fun loving and beautiful human being, and we only wish that the wonderful memories that you cherish of the good times that you shared with sarah will comfort you now. our thoughts, prayers and love are with you-
with love- your old neighbors from flamingo court... the mangels
judie, warren, carly and samantha
Meghan Bain
June 17, 2009
Dear Renee and family,
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Mrs. Trautwein, I have known you and sarah since I was in middle school when you guys moved across the street from me. I just cannot believe that this has happened. Sarah was a free spirited young lady who always made people smile. and laugh. Sarah will always have a place in my heart and will NEVER be forgotten. Sarah was a girl that everyone loved and she will always be remembered as a bright star that everyone knew. I love you Sarah
Meghan Bain
June 17, 2009
Dear Renee and family,
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Mrs. Trautwein, I have known you and sarah since I was in middle school when you guys moved across the street from me. I just cannot believe that this has happened. Sarah was a free spirited young lady who always made people smile. and laugh. Sarah will always have a place in my heart and will NEVER be forgotten. Sarah was a girl that everyone loves and she will always be remembered as a bright star that everyone knew. I love you Sarah
June 17, 2009
Although I do not know you or your daughter,I understand the pain you are experiencing, I lost my 19 year old son in 2007. There is no greater loss than that of a child. You will grieve forever but you can find strength from family, friends and God. Your beautiful daughter was a gift from above. Cherish the memories of her and keep her spirit alive by talking about her everyday.
JB
June 17, 2009
Dear Renee and family,
We were so sorry to hear about Sarah and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We will never forget Sarah's kindness and willingness to drive Eric to school while he was recovering from his leg surgery. We will always remember Sarah as a smiling, caring person who was kind to all.
Sincerely,
The Rugen Family
Don Davis
June 17, 2009
Bill,
You and your family are in my thoughts.
LiaRose Barabuscio
June 17, 2009
Dear Trautwein Family,
I went to school with Sarah at Eastern. She was in my senior gym class and although i did not know her well it still broke my heart to hear of her death. I will always remember Sarah's abilty to make everyone around her smile and laugh. I am extremely sorry for your loss. Sarah will always remain in my thoughts and my prayers go out to your family at this truely difficult time.
Sincerly,
LiaRose Barabuscio
Gayle Messer
June 17, 2009
Renee, my heart and prayers go out for you and your family. There is no heartbreaking shock worse than the death of a child, especially when it is unexpected. Even though she had become a young women, she was still the little girl you had loved and cared for every day of her life. I hope your memories of her are providing some comfort as you remember the feelings of joy that a daughter can bring as she grows and matures.
Debbie Bain
June 17, 2009
Dear Renee
There are never the right words to express how deeply sad I am that you have to endure your loss. Sarah will be truly missed by everyone who knew her no matter where they crossed her path in life. My heart truly hurts for your families pain.I have such funny memories of her. That contagious laugh that interrupted about 10 minutes of family movie night. How she was the only one that said I was a good cook. The list goes on and on.
Stacy Caldwell
June 17, 2009
Bill,
My deepest condolescents go out to you and your family at this difficult time.My prayers are with you all.
Christine Endlich
June 17, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Christine Endlich
Paul Stephens
June 17, 2009
Dear Renee and family:
Words cannot express how sad I was to hear about the passing of Sarah, and there are no existing words that can express the feelings of sadness that you are experiencing right now. However, please know and understand that Sarah was a true blessing from God. I can wholeheartedly say that Sarah always made my days much, much better. I know that I am not the only one who would say that she had a way of lighting up entire rooms. And she made you feel good that you had a chance to talk to her, even when she was giving you not so good news. Reminder phone calls to Sarah were never met with a bad attitude, but rather a promise to do better. Sarah made our lives richer, and her wonderful spirit reminds us of the importance of living with a positive attitude, despite life's setbacks. Indeed, she was the epitome of the saying "it's not the years in one's life that matters, but the life in one's years". So, although she was here for a short time, she taught many of us valuable lessons that we probably would not have learned from anyone else. Sarah was nothing short of a gem, and I will miss her.
My condolences to Renee and your entire family,
Paul Stephens, Jr., MD
Children's Hospital of Philadelphia
Glenda Ellis
June 17, 2009
With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Sincerely,
Glenda Ellis (Kathy Oxley and Carolyn Grice’s other Sister)
Annette Asbill
June 17, 2009
I did not know your daughter but I wanted to express my deepest symphathy in your loss. Just trust in God to give you the strength to make it through each moment of the day. Cherish your memories of her and know that one day you will be with her again.
Annette Asbill
Leesville, SC
The Staff of Caughman-Harman Funeral Home
June 17, 2009
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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