New York, New York
Driven to Make Friends
Scott Saber was not famous, and he was probably not even the biggest spender at Wollensky's Grill in Midtown, one of his favorite spots for entertaining clients. But when news spread around the restaurant that he had been on the 106th floor of 1 World Trade Center on Sept. 11 and was among the missing, several members of the staff wrote memorial notes to send to his family. It wasn't a surprise.
"I'm sure that nearly everybody in that restaurant knew him by name because he schmoozed with all of them, from the busboys on up," said Mr. Saber's oldest brother, Bruce. "That was Scott."
It was a kind of theme in Mr. Saber's life. When he made acquaintances, it was not casually. When he made friends, they became like family. A friend recently became ill during a trip to Boston, and Mr. Saber, who worked for UBS Warburg, offered to drive up and get him. "He was not kidding," said his brother.
When it came to his family, Mr. Saber, 37, was unwavering. His other brother, Brian, recently adopted a baby from Vietnam. Upon returning to the city, Brian Saber learned that he was not going to be able to return to his own apartment. So for six months, Mr. Saber had shared his small, two-bedroom apartment on the Upper East Side with his brother and the 6-month-old baby.
11 September 2024 Scott and I were colleagues and friends at UBS Warburg. 23 years on from the tragedy of that day, my over riding memories of Scott, his bear hug, his infectious laugh and amazing character are still me and will always endure. Gone but never forgotten. Paul Cooper
Paul Cooper
September 14, 2024 | Friend
Scott..i always think of you this day.. We were together on that entire weekend.. You said to me.."if i die tomorrow I´ve lived a great life".. For those that this means something to..,when i finally decided to for the 911 memorial..i randomly walk up to to one of the ponds..i looked down..in front of me ..Was Scott´s name...that is not religion..it´s spiritualism..
Steven Wondrasch
September 11, 2024 | Friend
9/11 affected me profoundly even though I wasn’t there or knew anyone. A few months later (might have even been the one year anniversary I can’t recall) the city (San Diego) organized a memorial at the stadium. Anyone could roll up and voluntarily read a victim’s name aloud on a microphone that would be broadcast on the radio in town. So I did. I had to.
The persons name I received was Scott Saber. Never knew him. From what I recall he was a businessman in one of the towers...
Bradley Wells
September 11, 2023 | Sierra Vista, AZ | Acquaintance
I did not know Scott but his picture stopped me in my walk today and I immediately researched him. What a loss. Please know he is still thought of (and learned about!) in Westchester, NY.
Angela Byrne
January 27, 2023 | Other
Today is the 20th anniversary of 9/11 and I think of Scott. Not that we were really close, but we were good business acquaintances. I would always chat with him at conferences, knew him over a few years. A really good guy. I was suppose to be at that conference, but I was in Boston. So I missed it and I am alive. When I think of all those who were up there in that conference, I think of Scott.
Ren Mika
September 11, 2021 | TORONTO, ON | Acquaintance
Scott and I met during the summer when we were both working as lifeguards. He was funny and smart and always ready for an adventure. He was a true friend. Scott, I think of you often and miss you. My thoughts and prayers to your family.
Karen Elsberg-Mendez
September 11, 2021 | Friend
I miss Scott a lot. He was a genuine friend. I've been thinking of you a lot lately, and I always smile for the great memories!
Melissa Rohland
September 28, 2020 | Friend
Sending our thoughts of sincere sympathy. Every new day may God give the help needed to cope. Scott is still sadly missed. May a time come when these violent acts are ended for all time.
The Lucas Family
October 26, 2019
Thinking of you today, reminded of the blessing you were to everyone who knew you. We will never forget.
Sharon Lenzi
September 11, 2019 | Davidsonville, MD | Friend
