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Shane Bailey Obituary
Stockton, CA
April 13, 1990 - March 14, 2007
Shane Alexander Bailey, 16, was born April 13, 1990 in Stockton, CA and passed away, Wednesday, March 14, 2007 in Stockton. Shane was a lifetime Stockton resident and a sophomore at Franklin High School. He was the beloved son of Eddie and Viola Bailey of Stockton. Loving brother of Sabrina Dalpogetti (Mike) of Escalon and Eddie Bailey Jr.(Kari) of Stockton. Dear grandson of E.S. Davidson of Stockton. He was the loving uncle of Cameron Dalpogetti, Andrew Bailey and Haley Bailey. Nephew of Virginia Maynard. Cousin of Nicole Halvorson, Tiffany Gunderson and Crystal Gallagher.
Family and friends are invited to attend a Funeral Service at the Central Valley Baptist Church, 520 N. Union Rd., Manteca, CA, Monday, March 19, 2007 at 1:00 p.m. There will be visitation at the DeYoung Memorial Chapel, 601 N. California St., Stockton, CA, Sunday, March 18, 2007, 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Committal at Park View Cemetery.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shane Bailey
March 23, 2007
To Eddie And Viola
This hasn't been an easy time for you, and as one who cares about you.
There have been so many moments when I've wished I could have somehow spared you some of the pain or at least cushioned the blows. But it seems that we each have our own roads to travel in life. For awhile, we're on a smooth, well-wore path, than suddenly the road swerve.
But do you know what? I've watched you with admiration as you face difficulty with strength and courage. And even in those times when you may wanted to give up, you somehow frond it in yourself to carry on...
And I just know you'll continue to do so. Even though this is your road to travel, Be sure to look alone the side from time to time.
The persons you'll see there, the ones cheering you on, will be all your friends and family who love and care about you. we love you guys
love your sis Virginia and family and all your friends
may god be with you
Crystal Halvorson-Gallagher
March 19, 2007
I love you Auntie and Uncle Eddie... I cant believe this has happend to our family... He had such a heart... Full of energy.. Im going to miss him dearly.. He will always be in my heart.. If you ever need anything please let me know.. I love you guys
Susana Fragano
March 19, 2007
Dear Viola, Eddie and family:
I am truly devasted after hearing about your loss. Words cannot express my feelings of sadness and sorrow. I can't begin to imagine what this is like for you and your loved ones. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
I first met Shane in 1993, as he was the son of my co-worker and dear friend, Viola. Even as a young child, Shane's presence was full of life, energy and love. I saw him grow up through the eyes of his loving mother and frequent visits to our place of employment.
Shane, you truly are a beautiful angel and will be missed and thought of dearly. Dear Angel, may you rest in peace.
Chaplain Wes Sullivan
March 19, 2007
Railroad Chaplains of America expresses our condolences to you in this great loss. It is obvious to us that Shane was well loved by his family and his many friends. God's peace be with you in this difficult time.
Bethany Welch
March 19, 2007
Baily Family and Dear friends ,
MY heart breaks at the tragic loss of such a kind and sweet friend to my daughter. she knew shane through mutual friends here in V&P Shane referred to her as Shanes Lady. She will Greatly miss his friendship and laughter.There are not enough words in this world to remove such pain from our hearts except to remember him always in our minds and soul. I hold all of you in daily thoughts of peace and compassion.
Mike & Stephanie (Lakatsas) Craig
March 19, 2007
We are so sorry to hear about Shane's passing. Please know that we send our heart felt Condolences to the whole Bailey family. May God grant you the strength that you will need to get through this terrible and difficult time, and know that people are praying for all of you as you travel down this difficult road.
MANDY SANCHEZ
March 19, 2007
TO THE BAILEY FAMILY, I WANNA SEND MY CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, SHANE WAS A WELL MANNERED KID. HE HUNG OUT WITH MY SON (BUBBA) SOMETIMES. THIS TRAGGIC ACCIDENT HAS REALLY TAKEN AFFECT ON MY SON AS WELL AS THE WHOLE BLOCK (MUNFORD BLOCK) HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED BY ALL. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. FROM (BUBBA'S MOM) MANDY SANCHEZ.
Virginia Maynard
March 19, 2007
To Viola
I can not find the words to say exactly how I feel, that truely describes the hurt inside, for I know your pain is so real.
Your heart, so heavy, with so much pain, for the empty loss inside, the tears fall down like falling rain that never seem to subside.
It's very hard to say "goodbye" to the one you love so much. But if you go to god in prayer you'll feel his sence of touch.
Think of your sorrows calmly, when daylight turns to night. Go tell it all to Jesus,for he will make it right.
He's always there to listen, when you grief to him. You'll
feel the burden lifted, and again your life, you'll live
Michael Hess
March 18, 2007
Im so so sorry for your loss shane i was a really hurt to hear that shane has passed i had really good times with shane we used to always ride bikes and i had him 1st per last year and thats how i got to know him and now hes gone and it tears me up inside and i dont have a ride to the funeral and that tears me up even more because i wanted to say my goodbyes to shane he was one of my good friends and im so sorry to the family i know how you feel
i give my love to his family if theres anything that i can do please call me ill be willing to do anything to help u out 463-0309
Rosie Castillo
March 18, 2007
To the Family of Shane Bailey,
I didn't know Shane or your family, but I was saddened to hear about his tragedy because I too have lost a loved one this past summer in a terrible tragedy. My little grandson Reuben Angelo Castillo was only 6 years old when he fell off a ferris wheel. So I know what your family is going through. No parent or grandparent should ever have to go through this. The pain of sorrow is so deep. My prayers are with your family, that God will give you the strength and comfort through this difficult time and for the many days and months ahead.
R.I.P Shane
Erica Bolt
March 18, 2007
To the family and friends of Shane!!!!
I wanted to say that I am sorry for the loss. I hung out with Shane my junior year which made him a freshman. He was a cool kid and always made people laugh. He was well liked by all the students at Franklin High School. He will be missed!!!! My mother Crissy said that she will always keep you in her prayers!!!! This is from THE BOLT FAMILY!!!! We will always be here for you, if you need anything!!!! R.I.P. Shane, we will always miss you!!!!
Les & Chris BOONE
March 18, 2007
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Daniel & Carmon Santeens
March 18, 2007
How do i begin....well im very sorry for your lose. Shane was a very great guy, he didnt deserve to go this way, he was too young to leave us so early in his life. I still remember hanging out in the trailer park on munford with him and all the guys being goofy!!! He was the only one that could stand up to me, unlike all the other guys. You will always remain in our hearts. You will be greatly and sadly missed!! WE LOVE YOU!! R.I.P!! We'll see you again in heaven when its time for us to go!!! XoXoX
Mindy&Karli Muns/Divine
March 18, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. If we can help you in any way, let us know, your in our prayers.
Debbie & John McFeley
March 18, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Brandy Simpson
March 17, 2007
There are no words that I can say other than our nieghborhood well never be the same. Shane was so well liked and had so many friends. He always looked out for my son Lil Randy. He was a very special person and will be missed by all that knew him.
JESSICA SPARKS
March 17, 2007
MY GO'S OUT OUT TO ALL OF YOU.
SHANE WAS A GREAT KID. I CAN'T BELEIVE HE HAD TO GO. ALL I KEEP
THINKING ABOUT WAS THE TIME WE WHEN CAMPING,I KEEP PICTURING IT IN MY HEAD. HE HAD US ALL LAUGHING SO HARD, THE WHOLE TIME.
HE'LL BE IN OUR HEART'S 4-EVER..
Gloria Castillo
March 17, 2007
To Shane's Family,
I will miss seeing and talking to Shane in 4th period biology and him goofing around. You will be missed! Your now in Heaven with my lil nephew Reuben Castillo. R.I.P Shane
Elizabeth and Sara Albert
March 17, 2007
Shane Bailey will always be missed..I went to school with him all through grammer school!!
I was always mean to him because he liked me and he never left me alone..He was a really good person!!
I now leave in Arkansas..and I am sorry to the family for there lost..
I too know how it feels to lose someone so dearly!!
My aunt an I are sending flowers to the family!!
R.I.P. Shane Bailey!!
Apryl Gray
March 17, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Apryl Gray
March 17, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sophia Castillo
March 17, 2007
To the family of Shane:
I would like to express my deepest condolescences to your family. I too have lost my son at the age of 6, Reuben Castillo this past summer, so I can understand how you are feeling when you lose a loved one to tragedy. Its going to be a hard road for you, but believe in God that he has a plan for everyone of us. God only takes the best and he needed another angel. Your family will be in my prayers. This prayer below, I read everyday and it helps me. I hope it will help your family as well.
The Serenity Prayer
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.
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