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I think of Stanley often. Brilliant, musical, but most of all KIND.
Marla Lewis
October 17, 2025 | Friend


Staten Island, New York
JAY Stanley M. Jay of West Brighton on October 22, 2014. Beloved husband of Beatrice (Bea) (nee Bernstein) Jay. Loving father of Alison and her husband Christopher Reilly and Eric Jay. Dear brother of Andrea Jay. Cherished grandfather of Hannah and Bodie Reilly. Funeral Services will be conducted...
Read MoreI think of Stanley often. Brilliant, musical, but most of all KIND.
Marla Lewis
October 17, 2025 | Friend
I still think of Stan often and wish he were still here. Few are as kind and brilliant.
Marla Lewis
October 17, 2024 | Friend

Stan will always have a place in my heart and in my music. Whenever I work on a new song, I wonder, "Would Stan like this?" His support of my fledgeling songwriting efforts sustains me to this very day.
Marla Lewis
October 17, 2023 | Friend
Dear Stan, Every time I play my McPherson guitar, or write a song, or read a music review, I think of you; your kindness, your encouragement, your crazy sense of humor, your brilliance. I hope you´re pickin´ and grinnin´ with Ralph Stanley and Doc Watson in Music Heaven.
Marla Lewis
October 17, 2022 | Friend
Sorry to learn of Stan's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Luke Biggs
November 12, 2014 | Summerville, SC
Bea, so sorry for your loss. RIP Stan
Toni Sasso
November 11, 2014 | Jensen Beach, FL
I met Stan when I was just 14 years old -- the best friend of his little sister Andrea. He was the quintessential big-hearted, big brother. I will always remember his love for folk music at that time and how we would listen to him play with such joy. I am so glad to learn from the NY Times that he lived a full and rewarding life and that he had the blessings of a loving family. I hope to reconnect with his great sister Andrea some day soon. Our days on earth are so few. Where are you Andrea?...
October 28, 2014
RIP Stan. You will be remembered by so many artists who bought their treasures -- or even just WISH they could buy them! -- stocked in your treasure house. Great guy--you will be missed.
Patricia Shih
October 28, 2014 | Huntington, NY
My deepest condolences to Bea, Allison, Eric, and fmily.
Marla Lewis
October 28, 2014 | Wantagh, NY