Stefano Ottaviani

Stef was a natural environmentalist. At age eight, he came home tearful because a beautiful tree on the street behind us had been cut down for no apparent reason. As a child, he always kept a terrarium, through which rotated garter snakes, turtles, and toads. As an adult, he kept a huge fish tank in which large fish swam. As for his home, in front of it, he built a patio centered by a fish pond with a fountain spewing forth from its center. A lovely man. Very giving. Very caring.

Stef was a natural environmentalist. I recall one day when he was perhaps eight or nine his coming home angry, almost tearful because they had cut down a most beautiful tree that grew on the street up the hill from ours. And his being empathetic and loving. Always loving.

Dear Family. It´s hard to believe it´s been seven years. Seems like yesterday when I was in Stef´s shop chit chatting and laughing with him. I miss him a lot and no words can express my feelings of sympathy to all of you. Sending love and hugs, Wilma

Dear Family, Stef was such a sweet and loving nephew and friend to many. I think of him often and can still hear his cute laugh and see his beautiful smile. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you many happy memories. I miss him too. Love, Wilma

Dear Stef,

I will forever miss your warmth, your courage and enthusiasm for life, your appreciation of each person with whom you came in contact, your kindness and integrity, your art, your music, the loving fathering you provided your sons, and, most of all, the warmth of your smile.

Mom

I still think of Stefano often, especially when I am looking at all the beautiful art you framed in my home. I know he would be extremely proud of his family- they continue to honor his memory with beauty and grace. He is sorely missed.

My heart goes out to all of you. It is still so hard to believe he is gone. He was such a sweet and lovable guy. I know he is watching over all of you and is especially proud of how his boys are doing. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. I loved him too and miss him. Love always and prayers,
(Aunt) Wilma


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Bruno, Catherine and family....
I am soooo sorry to hear this. Bruno, it's been a long time since I've seen you (back when you lived in San Diego)so I hope you remember me. Even though I never knew Stefano, it breaks my heart to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
Paula Patti

Dear Stefano's Family,
I just found out last night about this tragic event as I am on the West Coast...I am at an utter lost of what to say.....I understand 1,000 people showed up for the funeral, Stefano was loved by many people. He will be greatly missed by his family, his parents, his children and his friends. God Bless all of you as you struggle to go on without him. He will be looking down on all of you and watching over all of you......Prayers & deepest condolences to all. Love,...