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Stephanie Lacava Obituary

Stephanie G. LaCava, 40, of Bethel, beloved wife of Jeffrey LaCava, passed away at Danbury Hospital, on Wednesday, January 25, 2012 surr-ounded by her family and friends. She was born in Danbury, daughter of Bart and Cathy (Mandelino) Golankiewicz on August 22, 1971. Stephanie attended Bethel schools and graduated from Bethel High School in 1989. She graduated from the University of Connecticut with a degree in Economics in 1993 where she was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority. She enjoyed skiing and tennis, spending time with her children and her large circle of friends, and was known to be an excellent cook. After working for many years in the banking industry, Stephanie began her work as a stay-at-home mom. She was dedicated to her husband, children, family and friends. She was active in the St. Mary Church and School community where she served as the President of the Home School Association, Track coach, and volunteer for numerous events and activities. A loving wife, mother, daughter, granddaughter, sister and friend, Stephanie will be missed by all who knew her. In addition to her husband and parents, she is survived by her children Zachary and Hannah, of Bethel; her sister and brother-in-law Catherine-Ann and Raymond Manzella and their children Sophia and Maxwell, of Woodbury; her grandmother Anna Golankiewicz; and several aunts, uncles and cousins; and many very close friends who all adored her. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Mary Church, on Tuesday morning at 10:00 a.m. Burial will follow at St. Mary Cemetery. Friends may call at the Green Funeral Home, 57 Main St., Danbury, on Monday evening from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Mary School, 24 Dodgingtown Road, Bethel, CT 06801.

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Published by The News-Times on Jan. 27, 2012.

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Marilynn and Joe Vannucci

February 3, 2012

The Celebration of Life on Tuesday was a beautiful tribute to Stephanie. May her light continue to shine and bless all that knew her. Rest in peace, Stephanie. With our love and heartfelt condolences to her entire family,

Beth Patterson-Dingee

February 1, 2012

Words seem inadequate when trying to express condolences for someone gone too soon. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. From a fellow BHS '89 graduate--

January 31, 2012

Cathy & Bart, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Mary & Mario Napoleone
Bluffton, SC

January 30, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.Kitty & Tom

Frances Evans

January 30, 2012

Cathy and Bart,
Please accept my prayers of comfort and courage as you move through this loss with your family. Know that you're thought of often.
Peace,
Fran Evans, Sarasota, FL

Clemencia Lucisano

January 30, 2012

I kew Stephanie when she was a little girl.She was part of the softball team where my daughter, Katie, played too.They become friends and Stephanie come to be one of my favorites.She was kind,sweet, generous and always happy.

I would see her from time to time in town
and spite of the years that had passed, she always recognize me and say hello and
have a little talk.
Words can not express how sorry I am for your loss. My prayers go out to the families, may the Lord comfort you at this most difficult time.

Salvatore Esposito

January 30, 2012

We are so saddened to hear the news of Stephanie's passing. Our thoughts are with you. Love, Salvatore and Lorraine Esposito

January 30, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with Stephanies family and friends during this very difficult time.

Nicky's Haircutters

Ed and Blanche Vicinanza

January 30, 2012

Stephanie was a very special lady --We pray that her light will continue to shine thru Zack & Hanna. Uncle Eddie & I wish we could be with you durring this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
Aunt Blanche & Uncle Eddie

Debra Fernandes

January 30, 2012

I went to school in Bethel with Stephanie and am so sad to hear of her passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this very difficult time.

Jane and Dan Casanta

January 30, 2012

Our hearts and minds are so heavy to think that we have lost Stephanie so early in her beautiful life. Our lives were enriched for knowing her and trust that heaven is a bit more inspired by her entry. Many heartfelt prayers for you strength and courage during this extremely difficult time.

Kim Byrd

January 30, 2012

My daughter Ashley and I, have very fond memories of Stephanie as her track coach at St. Mary's. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Katie Lucisano-Gallagher

January 29, 2012

Stephanie was such a beautiful person with so much warmth and kindness. It seems not long ago that we had such fun times after school at the Golankiewicz house. I feel lucky to have known such a special person along with her wonderful family. May your love for Stephanie bring your family strength and comfort during this difficult time.

Johnny Manzella

January 29, 2012

Jeff, Mr. & Mrs. G, and Catherine-Ann,
Our Deepest condolences to your family during this rought time.
Love,
Johnny Ray, Elaina, Meagan, and Kyle

Samantha Mitchell

January 29, 2012

So sorry for your loss. May the beautiful memories surround you all during this time..

January 29, 2012

Dear Lacava, Golankiewicz and Amato Families,
At this very tragic time, we send our thoughts and prayers. Although we'd only met Stephanie a few times, we were impressed by her love for family, friends and life. It seems she touched many with her kindness, generosity and strength. Please know that we are thinking of you and sending our deepest sympathy. Love, Mary and Lance Cunha

E Reelick

January 28, 2012

Dear Bart, Cathy and the Lacava family.
At a loss of words at this time, I can only say I'm sorry for your loss. As a neighbor, friend, and bethelite it is hard to express all my feelings for all of you. My prayers go out to all of you during these difficult times.......

Ryan ,Kelly & McKenna Marcoux

January 28, 2012

To the Lacava family. We are so sadden for you loss. Our daughter McKenna and Hanna have become best friends this school year. We are just too sad to hear about this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. Stay strong

January 28, 2012

Dear Bart and Cathy: We were so sorry to hear about the passing of your daughter Stephanie. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Losing a child is one of the most difficult things to bear. We lost a child many years ago. Remember the love and celebrate her life. You will be reunited one day. Our prayers are with you. Fondly, Ed and Marie Nugent, Sarasota, Fl.

January 28, 2012

Bart, Cathy, Catherine-Ann and family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Stephanie lived every day to the fullest and will be missed by many. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy at this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
With care and concern,
John and Annette Schmuecker

Richard Raymond

January 28, 2012

Bart you and Cathy and your family have my deepest sympathy and condolences on the loss of your daughter

Stephanie Newstrom

January 27, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I will always remember Stephanie's smile, spirit, and thoughtfulness during our Kappa days.

sue hecht tuckman

January 27, 2012

Stephanie was my "Kappa Mom" in addition to being one of my closest college friends. She was the highlight of my college experience. My thoughts and prayers are with her whole family during this devastating time.....she will always be remembered with a huge smile on my face...

Yvonne LeFebvre

January 27, 2012

Dear Cathy & Bart,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. May God give you strength to endure in this most difficult time of your life. Cathy, I wish I was there to give you a big hug. My prayers are with you all.

Mike Frey

January 27, 2012

Although I haven't seen Stephanie since high school, I'll always remember her bright, happy demeanor. She had a wonderful personality and was always fun to be around. I wish the best for all of her family and friends.

Melissa Matthews

January 27, 2012

I graduated Bethel High School with Stephanie-thoughts and prayers to your family during this difficult time.

Cheryl Haitsch Barone

January 27, 2012

It has been years since I have spoken to Stephanie but I will always remember her beautiful contagious smile her kind heart and beautiful soul. We were all blessed to have known her. Keeping you all in my prayers and asking God to give you strength and peace.

Amy Salemma Doyle

January 27, 2012

Stephanie and I were sorority sisters at UCONN. Stephanie's laughter and genuine smile always greeted everyone she would see. I am so sorry for your loss and pray for your family.

Jennifer Nicoletti

January 27, 2012

We only knew Stephanie for a short time, but she touched us greatly with her warmth, spirit and kindness. We are deeply saddened by her passing. She will be missed by all of the St. Marys families.

Maureen O'Connor Zavatone

January 27, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. I spent 4 years with Stephanie in Kappa at UCONN. She was such a beautiful, fun and caring person. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.

Barbara Templeton

January 27, 2012

Please accept my deepest sympathy regarding this devastating loss. May you find peace and strength. Barbara Templeton, Redding, CT

Kelley McGuire

January 27, 2012

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Ines Esteva Henrich

January 27, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I'm lucky to have known such a kind and giving person.

January 27, 2012

I want to send my condolences to Stephanie's entire family and will continue to say prayers for you at this difficult time. I have known Stephanie for many years and always seemed to bump into her at the grocery store for the last few!! She will be missed. I will keep you all in my thoughts, especially Stephanie's little angels.

Janice Deep

January 27, 2012

I want to send my condolences to Stephanie's entire family and will continue to say prayers for you at this difficult time. I have known Stephanie for many years and always seemed to bump into her at the grocery store for the last few!! She will be missed. I will keep you all in my thoughts, especially Stephanie's little angels.

January 27, 2012

Cathy, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Debbie Benedict

Regina Ofiero

January 27, 2012

My love, thoughts, prayers and condolences are with all of you during this extremely difficult time in your lives! I was so very sorry to hear the news about Stephanie's untimely passing.

Donna Mariano-Montesi

January 27, 2012

Bart, Cathy and family, I am so sorry to read of your beautiful Stephanies passing. I worked with Bart many years ago at CityTrust. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.

Donna McGrath

January 27, 2012

Kathy and Bart, I am so very sorry, words cannot express how I feel. There are no words that can. Just want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Donna McGrath

Bronwen Baumgardner

January 27, 2012

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. As a Kappa sister at UCONN, I will always remember Stephanie's kindness and beautiful smile. My prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Bronwen Baumgardner

Mary Lou Reseska

January 27, 2012

I had the pleasure of knowing Stephanie for many years. She had a smile that made you smile too! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Janene Ingram

January 27, 2012

Stephanie was one of the most lovely people I have known. She was a wonderful, generous and caring friend to all. She taught me many valuable lessons while growing up. Her beauty, dignity, and grace, will never be forgotten.

Ken & Kathy Hume

January 27, 2012

Cathy and Bart, Ken and I are so sorry to hear about your daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Karen Tomanic Bachmann

January 27, 2012

I have so many fond memories of growing up with Stephanie. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time.

John Murphy

January 27, 2012

Cathy G... what can I say except that losing a child is not an easy thing to
experience.
My prayers are with you and your family
during this time.
Jack Murphy

Joanne Tavino

January 27, 2012

May the loving thoughts and prayers of friends and family comfort you at this difficult time.

Debbie DeLuca

January 27, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. May all your memories bring you comfort. My prayers are with your familes.

Amy Griffin

January 27, 2012

Stephanie was a beautiful soul and lives on in her children and those that she touched. I'm sending love and prayers to your family as you deal with this very difficult time. Such a loss for us all.

Stephanie Jacobson

January 27, 2012

You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Phylliss Benincasa

January 27, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories of Stephanie bring you comfort during this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with your families.

Cindy Rizzo

January 27, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. Although I did not know Stephanie personally, many of my friends did. I pray for peace in your family.

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