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Stephen Franklin "Steve" Bartlett
11/9/1949 - 4/7/2022
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Stephen Bartlett Obituary
Steve graduated from Cranston High School in 1967, and attended the University of Rhode Island, where he graduated with a master's degree in ocean engineering in 1973. Upon graduation, he served in the U.S. Army Reserves, achieving the rank of captain.
He married Grace LaPlume April 15, 1977 (opening day of the Rhode Island fishing season). After a brief stint with Yankee Atomic in Massachusetts, Steve worked for Ocean Surveys in Old Saybrook, for over 30 years. In 1975, Steve bought a house on Rowland Road in Old Lyme, and it was here where he started a family with Grace and raised two sons, Stephen and Timothy.
Steve was a true outdoorsman. He was always a passionate hunter and fisherman. And even when his physical disabilities prevented him from going afield in later years, he was always quick to share a story. He loved listening to Yankees games on the radio, catching trout, hunting over his Brittany Spaniels, eating Grace's cooking and reading about history. He was an active member of Christ the King parish in Old Lyme, in his working years, a daily swimmer at the YMCA in Old Saybrook, and a life member of Snake Meadow Club in Danielson.
Steve is survived by his wife, Grace, of 44 years; his son Stephen Bartlett, daughter-in-law Rachel Bartlett; grandson Parker Caswell; and granddaughter Elsa Bartlett of Sandwich, N.H.; and his son Timothy Bartlett of Keene, N.H.; as well as his sister Lynne Fitzpatrick of Warwick, R.I., and his brother Michael Bartlett of Bow, N.H.
Calling hours will be held from 5 until 7 p.m. Tuesday, April 12, at Fulton-Theroux Funeral Home, 13 Beckwith Lane in Old Lyme. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Wednesday, April 13, at Christ the King Church, 1 McCurdy Road in Old Lyme. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, North Shore Animal Rescue, or the Old Lyme Volunteer Ambulance Association. Please visit www.fultontherouxoldlyme.com for photos, tributes, and directions.
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Rev. Fr. Brad Barco
November 5, 2025
Steve you are truly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing you. Wishing you a very Happy and Blessed Heavenly Birthday
Rev. Fr. Brad Barco
Rev. Fr. Bradford Barco, Sr.
April 4, 2025
Steve, you are missed and thought about. May our Heavenly Father continue to Bless you.
Marilyn Loparto
April 4, 2024
Always a good time when Steve would come to Kansas City and visit. We had a tradition of going to the Smoke Stack where he could get his fill of great BBQ. Steve and my husband Greg went to URI where they met. They hunted and fished together. Sadly, both developed Multiple Sclerosis but Steve always remained cheerful and upbeat. Marilyn Loparto
Lori Falvey
April 21, 2022
Grace, Stephen, and Tim -- Not only did I have the priviledge of working with Steve for over 20 years but was friends outside of work with him as well. I remember some Easter and Christmas Holidays at your house, happy hour at your house and my parents, club picnics and dinners, and many other happy times. Those memories will always be close to my heart and Steve will be deeply missed. My sympathy and deepest love to all of you. Lori
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David Bieber
April 17, 2022
I will miss sharing stories with Steve, but will always treasure his friendship, and the memories of chasing birds in Lyme and elk and deer in Colorado with him. His positive attitude and ability to make the best of the hand dealt to him was a true inspiration.
Chip Rutan
April 13, 2022
Grace, Stephen, Tim,
In processing Steve´s passing, I´ve been realizing just how much he has influenced my life. Not only professionally when we worked and traveled together for many years, but also on a personal level. I hear his voice often!
I´m grateful, too, that we stayed in touch with periodic phone calls, usually on one of our birthdays or around the holidays. The last time I saw him was during one of his stays in New London. We had such a great time talking and catching up. I miss him already.
Marilyn Loparto
April 11, 2022
I have many fond memories of Steve and his visits out here in "fly over country". Good friends with my husband from URI, hunting together and a very long friendship that lasted for the rest of both of their lives. The fight he put up against his increasing physical limitations was awesome. He will be missed by many. My sympathy to Grace, the boys and their families. Hugs and love, Marilyn
Christie McNeil
April 11, 2022
Grace, Stephen and Tim,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love to you all.
Helen McDonald
April 11, 2022
Dear Grace, I am so sorry to hear of your husband´s passing. Please extent my sympathies to Stephen and Tim and the rest of the family. I´ll be thinking of you.
Rev. Fr. Brad Barco
April 10, 2022
Dear Grace, Stephen and Tim, my deepest condolences on the passing of Steve. I always enjoyed the times we spent together in our younger days. Steve was a true patriot and wonderful man. He will be sadly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. I know that no words can take away the pain you are going through during this sad time. Steve´s suffering is now in the past as he dwells in our Heavenly Father´s glorious Kingdom. May our Savior Jesus Christ bring you comfort in the coming days.
God´s Blessings,
Rev. Fr. and Uncle Brad Barco
Sharon Brown
April 10, 2022
Bob enjoyed visiting with Steve. I'm so sorry.
Robert Perry
April 10, 2022
Our thoughts and Prayer for all, Steve was always wonderful to be around on those pheasant hunting mornings, listening to his stories.
Patty Lenehan
April 9, 2022
I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was always a joy to take care of. He was always upbeat and quick to share a smile with everyone! He will be sadly missed.
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