Stephen Lewis Carew

1937 - 2014

Stephen Lewis Carew obituary, 1937-2014

Stephen Lewis Carew

1937 - 2014

BORN

1937

DIED

2014

Stephen Carew Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 3, 2014.
It is with heavy hearts and much sadness that we the family announce the passing of Stephen on December 2,2014 at the Dartmouth General Hospital with family and friends at his side. Born on October 20th, 1937 to Johann McKenna and Stephen O'Neil Carew, Stephen's early years were split between Dartmouth and Halifax. He was educated at St. Peter's school in Dartmouth, where he would later go on to pursue a higher education at St. Mary's University. In time, Stephen felt a call to become a priest. Stephen was ordained as a priest in the Archdiocese of Halifax in 1965. Stephen would go on to hold bachelor degrees in Theology from Laval University and Divinity from Holy Heart. Stephen would also complete his Masters in Pastoral Counselling at St. Paul's University in Ottawa. His ministry would include the parishes of St. Theresa's and St. Thomas Moore. As a priest, his congregations benefited from his gifts of compassion and his musical and artistic talents. Stephen had a genuine interest in every person he met, often going out of his way to be generous and kind. He was always there to offer advice, but just as important, Stephen was there to listen. In 1973, Stephen met his future wife, Maureen Heafey, and were later married in 1974. Stephen went on to be an employee of the National Parole Service for a decade. Stephen's greatest work accomplishment was when he joined the O'Regan's Automotive group in 1985, where he would go on to serve as Vice President of Human Resources. The staff benefited from his communication style and counselling. Stephen knew many of the employee's families on a personal level. Stephen retired in 2002. Stephen generously shared his talents and gifts in every personal encounter, making people feel at ease and important. If you only met Stephen briefly, chances are he left a lasting impression with you. Stephen's smile would light up a room. Stephen was a true Irishman who would love to sit down with a drink and share a stories with his friends, particularly his good buddy, Mike (Gar) Aucoin. Stephen had a great love for Dartmouth. Stephen was never afraid to speak his mind and fight against any injustices he encountered. We are all better people for having known "Big Steve." He is survived by his loving wife, Maureen, with whom he recently celebrated 40 years of marriage; His sons, Stephen(Jennifer), Paul(Elizabeth), and Danny(Ja Hong); His precious grandchildren, Liam Thomas and Connor Patrick; His brother Christopher. He was predeceased by his parents and his sister Jane. Visitation will be held on Friday December 5, 2014 from 2-4 and 6-8pm in A.L. Mattatall Funeral Home, 217 Portland Street, Dartmouth. Funeral mass will take place 9:30am Saturday December 6, 2014 at St. Peter's Roman Catholic Church, 10 Maple Street, Dartmouth. A reception will follow at Brightwood Golf and Country Club. Memorial donations may be made to Feeding Others of Dartmouth: Margaret's House, 43 Wentworth Street, Dartmouth, (902) 464-2919, or a charity of choice.To view or place an online message of condolence please visit www.mattatallfuneralhome.com

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January 14, 2015

I am so sadden to hear this, he was my choir director when I was in grade 6 at Oxford school, I always thought Father Carew was the coolest !

Peter Tobin

December 21, 2014

Maureen; my deepest sympathy. I only learned today of his passing. So glad that I was able to speak to him a few weeks ago.A great guy.

Peter Tobin

December 11, 2014

Dear Maureen and Family, We were deeply saddened to hear about Steve's passing. Our family was really blessed to be part of St. Theresa's Parish when he was there. His humor, laugh and zest for life drew us to him and he quickly became part of our family....he never missed one of our parties, especially the ones on St. Paddy's Day. Steve was always genuinely concerned for those who were privileged enough to know him and even if he hadn't seen them for many years he'd strike up a conversation and you'd know he was still interested in you and all your family and friends. Above all, three Mulcahy siblings (Jim, Monica and Kathleen) were married by him and our wedding pictures remind us of how lucky we were to have been truly blessed by him those many years ago. We extend our sincerest condolences to you all. He will certainly be missed. Kathleen Mulcahy- Rusinak

Jackie and Doug McGuire

December 11, 2014

Dear Maureen, Stephen, Paul and Danny: We were so saddened to learn of Steve's passing. Thank you from our hearts Maureen for thinking to call us. Although we haven't spent much time together since being neighbors on Belvedere, you are all forever close in our hearts. Maureen, we hold both you and Steve in such high esteem and will be grateful always for the life lessons your friendship has brought us. Our hearts are saddened that Steve has had to leave but rejoicing that he is now singing once again - only this time in that heavenly choir we all dream of. Love to all of you and our deepest sympathy.

Robert/Sylvia Anthony

December 10, 2014

Our sincere sympathy to the family in
your loss of a wonderful and caring man.
Your memories will always be treasured.

Mark & Shelagh Radcliffe

December 10, 2014

Dear Maureen & Family: We were saddened by hearing of Steve's passing. We met Steve singing in the barbershoppers. What a wonderful person he was.

December 9, 2014

I just received the message of Steves passing, I was a friend of Jane and my brother Sam was a good friend of Steve, we spent our young years until early teens living on Crichton ave. Stevie's smile and compassionate ways will always be remembered, my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Fondly
Kathleen (Crimp) Eckstein

Bob & Vivian MacInnis

December 9, 2014

Dear Maureen, Stephen, Paul & Danny
We were deeply saddened to hear the passing of Steve. His legacy brought back many memories of the younger years of the children. My sincere apologies for missing his Spiritual Celebration on Saturday. I returned that day from Cape Breton after my routine monthly visit helping to caregive my elderly parents. As you know, I thought highly of Steve who was a well read, kind and caring man with a great sense of humour. And, above all he was truly a gentleman. I know he will be sorely missed by you all and my prayers are with you at this sad time. I know God has taken Steve under his wing and he will enjoy eternal peace. Perhaps we can meet sometime for a coffee and rehash old times. Give me a call when you have a moment and we can meet. 435-3553
Sincerely, Bob & Vivian

Hugh & Doris Gillis

December 9, 2014

Dear Maureen,Steve, Paul and Danny,
We were very sad to learn of Steve's passing, and we sympathize with you in your great loss. As you know well, he was a kind, generous, thoughtful and comical man, and a wonderful neighbour. We often think fondly of him, and of you, when we look at a painting of his that is hanging in our dining room. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dolena and Keith AuCoin

December 8, 2014

Dear Maureen and Family:
So sorry to read(late) of Steve's passing.
What a guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. The wonderful memories we all have of Steve brings smiles to our faces even now.
We are so glad we got to know him through Gar...

Peggy Arsenault (nee MacDonald)

December 6, 2014

I was a teenager when Steve was at St Theresa's. He was such a positive influence on all of us that were involved in the Church. Living close to the church, he would often visit our family and helped as my Dad was dying. He was a special person and I am grateful that I was able to consider him a friend. My sincere condolences to his family.

Joan O'Keefe

December 6, 2014

dear Maureen and family,
Sorry I did not realize the funeral was today. I had heard Steve had died and am sorry I did not get more news right away. Know of my sympathy and prayers. so great a loss for each of you.
Wishing you enough,
Joan

December 6, 2014

Maureen and family,Steve had the gift of laughter,and kindness,he shared these with everyone he met. I was fortunate to have known him.
Anne Dunsworth

Albert & Tina Roach

December 6, 2014

Dear Maureen & Family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with Steve, you, and your family during this difficult time. I cherish warm and happy memories of Steve, especially our trip to Ireland in the 60's. I remember how challenging it was to get him on the plane. I also fondly remember many happy moments laughing, singing, and entertaining together. I am sure Steve is regaling St. Peter and friends with his stories and songs from the old days, maybe even "The little shirt my mother made for me". May Steve rest in peace, and, may you all find peace.

Al & Tina Roach, Calgary, Alberta

Jane Savage

December 5, 2014

Dear Maureen and family,
I was a child when I met "Father" Steve. He used to visit my parents (John & Margaret Savage) and go swimming with all the kids. He would get down on his hands and knees and we would climb all over him. We loved him unreservedly. He was the person to break the news to me that women could not be priests (which was my plan at age 7). He had a profound influence on my belief that I could be spiritual (without being a priest!) and I have always remembered him with love. God Bless you all and thank you for sharing him with the world.
Jane Savage

Kerry and Donna O'Hara

December 5, 2014

Our deepest condolences to the Carew family. We were very sad to hear of your loss.

December 5, 2014

Dear Moe.Stephen.Paul&Danny.It was indeed a sad &difficult day yesterday when I heard of Steve`s death.Our friendship goes back to Holy Heart in 1962 when he fixed a terrible haircut administered by a1st.year rookie.Our friendship grew as we shared work placements in Truro and Moncton with C.S.C. and with you Moe as the boys arrived.We slil treasure the painting of the farm house that we both never had.There are so many good stories of times past-Liz & I will forever cherish .-as I know you will.
May God`s peace guide you in this difficult time
Liz and John Gillis Moncton

Nena Nauss

December 5, 2014

Dear Maureen & family
So sorry to hear the loss of your husband who was obviously an exceptional husband, father and grandfather. Looking at the photos and obituary he sounded like one in a million who lived life large and had a twinkle in his eye. The world needs more people like him. Please accept my sincere condolences and in the coming days ahead may memories of the beautiful life you shared together bring peace and comfort. Sincerely, Nena Nauss

Bernie and Brian Burgess

December 5, 2014

Maureen and Family,Bernie had shared a coffee earlier this year with Steve.Such a caring man and a wonderful friend to his cousin,the late Fr Basil Carew.Our condolences.

December 5, 2014

Maureen and Family - Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. Steve is in a very happy place, and his smile will live on in our memories. Liz and Niel Young

Walt & Mary Vandekieft

December 5, 2014

To Maureen & Family,
It was an honor to know Steve. We have wonderful memories of your family as neighbours. Steve made everyone feel so special. He will be greatly missed. Sincere condolences to all of you.

Jim & Cathy Hiscott

December 5, 2014

Maureen & Family: We wish to express our sincere sympathy at this difficult time. I first met Steve at O'Regan's and talked to him about Barbshoppers after which he joined and quickly became a very valuable member of the Dartmouth Chorus appreciated for his talents by all. Always calm, cool and collected he made everyone feel valued, always cheerful and he was a true friend.
Jim & Cathy Hiscott

Moira MacDonald

December 5, 2014

Dear Maureen and Family,
I am so saddened by the passing of Steve. I have such good memories of Steve from working with dad in Corrections, and later hiring me at O'Regan's. I actually have some of his paintings on the walls of our home that I treasure. He was simply a kind and generous soul. He will be missed. My condolences to you and yours.

Angus Roberts

December 5, 2014

The Roberts-Jimenes family was deeply saddened to hear of Steve“s death. Our deepest sympathy to you Maureen and the family. We cherish many fond memories of Steve, his warm and engaging personality, and his innate ability to make you feel at home, as several people have noted. I notified Luis last night, and he said he would be in touch with Danny. Many you be comforted by the treasure of happy memories.

December 5, 2014

"Big Steve" will me greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.
Jean and James Mallon

December 5, 2014

Maureen, Steve, Paul, and Danny and family. Jack and I were so sorry to hear about Big Steve. Know that our love, thoughts and sincere condolences are with you all at this time. Sorry that we cannot be there to hold you all and help celebrate a beautiful person and a beautiful life. Barbara and Jack Leedham, Florida.

Peter Beech

December 4, 2014

Hi Maureen and Family
My sincere condolences to you all. Steve is one of the finest men I have ever known. I have many fond memories of sharing ideas and stories with him over drinks on Ralph's back deck.Those two were always a class act and absolutely marvelous company. I am sure that their reunion will be celebrated and enjoyed throughout heaven.
Steve has been an inspiration for me and will always continue to be so. His wisdom, kindness, humour and sense of fun will be greatly missed by many of us.
My prayers are with you. God bless you all.

John Donald Cameron

December 4, 2014

To Maureen Carew and the family of Stephen Carew: When my late brother John Allan entered the seminary in Arnprior,Ontario in 1957,he wrote our mother to tell her he was enjoying life there,especially since there were a couple of other Nova Scotians there too.One was Stephen Carew,from Halifax, who he described as very friendly and helpful.I later met Stephen and he was every bit as kind and interesting to talk to as my brother had said.John A. is no longer with us but on behalf of both of us "well done good and faithful servant" R.I.P.

Mark Conroy

December 4, 2014

Dear Maureen and Family - Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of Steve. Although I did not know Steve for a very long time or I would have to say that well. It didn't take me very long to know the type of person Steve was. A man with kind heart and a friend to just about everyone he met. A caring, loving husband, father, grandfather and father in law. It was an an honor to have met and shared some wonderful times with Steve. Please know you will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God bless you all -

Mark Conroy

December 4, 2014

Maureen and Family - Our sincere sympathies at this difficult time.

Harold and Queenie Adams

December 4, 2014

Sincere sympathy to the Carew family during this difficult time. We first met Steve in 1969 when he married us at St. Theresa's. Steve was a "prince of a man".
Sincerely, Al and Paula Poirier.

Mike & Erma White

December 4, 2014

Our condolences and prayers go out to The Carew Family. When we met Stephen in 1969 he wasFather Carew and married my wife and I, a marrage that has stood the test of time, and Blessed us with 3 adult children and 5 Grandkids. We have not ever forgot, nor will we, the wonderful kind man and his words of wisdom in preperation for taking our vows.
Stephen Carew was a wonderful man who will be missed dearly.
Sincerely,
Mike & Erma White
Married 19 Sept. 1969

December 4, 2014

Dear Maureen and family - I was so sorry to hear of Stephen's passing. I always enjoyed a chat whenever we met in Dartmouth. God bless.
Shirley Hines

December 4, 2014

dear Maureen and family - sincere sympathy on Steve's passing. He was such a wonderful, kind and caring person. You and your family were truly blessed to have had him as a husband, father and grandfather. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you all! Ann and Gord Rowe

December 4, 2014

Dear Maureen and family,
We are saddened to learn of Steve's passing. Whenever we would meet a distinct brightness seemed to occur,prompted,no doubt, by his wonderful, warm smile and infectious humor. He will be deeply missed by so many.We send prayers.
Byrne and Janet Melanson

Laura Nicholson

December 4, 2014

Big Steve will be greatly missed. My thoughts are with your family at this difficult time. Just as he made everyone smile in this world, his memories will do the same.

Jim Bowes

December 4, 2014

Dear Maureen, Steve, Paul and Danny I was sadden to hear of Steve's passing. He was a GREAT MAN and I want to offer my sympathy to each of you in your time of this loss. While he will be missed by all who knew and meant him, he has left a huge memory to reflect on. God Bless.

December 4, 2014

Dear Maureen, Don and I are in Toronto with our daughter, so will not be at Steve's service. A lovely man. Our sincere sympathy to you and your family. Hugs, Dorothy & Don Sawler

Anne-Marie Smith

December 4, 2014

Dear Maureen and family, I am so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. One of things I knew I would miss moving from Lakeview/Hillside was talking to Steve. He was always so kind and caring to me and Max. I am so thankful I met you both a few weeks ago in Starbucks because he gave me one of his big hugs. My prayers are with you Maureen. Anne-Marie Smith

Chris Conroy

December 4, 2014

Maureen, Paul, Danny, and Stephen, I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Steve for a short time but, when I did have the opportunity speak with him, I immediately felt warmly welcomed and befriended by a person with lots of wisdom and a huge heart -- I'm sure just like many others he came to know and care for. I hope there are a great many stories you are sharing on Steve's behalf right now and I pray that they bring you comfort and peace. May the love of friends and family keep you always.

Kelly Dillman

December 4, 2014

Dear Steve, Jenn and Carew Family,
Roy and I were saddened to hear of your Dad's passing. Our thougts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Sincerely,

Scott MacKnight

December 4, 2014

My condolences to the Carew family. Met Stephen in the early 1980's while our sons were attending Michael Wallace Elementary, cubs and all the other things dads do with their sons in the community of Port Wallace. Continued to see him through his career with O'Reagan's. He always had a smile on his face and a warm hello. Sorry to see Dartmouth lose a good citizen.

Kevin Archibald

December 4, 2014

Dear Maureen and family:

My wife and I were sadden to learn of the passing of Steven. It was a joy to see you both again at Fr. Lloyd O'Neil's funeral after all these years. Steven had buttonholed me going into the crying room at St Agnes before the service started and later when I saw you then I realized who it was. The Lord saw to it that you and Steve were blessed to have 40 years and three children together.

Kevin and Donna Archibald Truro NS

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