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Stuart Alan Wallace

1937 - 2017

Stuart Alan Wallace obituary, 1937-2017, Raleigh, NC

Stuart Wallace Obituary

Stuart Alan Wallace

July 17, 1937 - August 8, 2017

Raleigh

Stuart Alan Wallace died August 2, 2017 after a full life of seeking, searching and exploring the natural world and striving to make the communities he touched more aware of achievable social justice. He was a rare combination -- a humble and noble soul.

Born in Evanston, IL and raised in Glencoe, IL on the North Shore of Lake Michigan, he received his formal education at New Trier High School (1955), a BA in American History and Literature from Williams College (1959), an MA in History from Teachers College, Columbia University (1966),and an EdD in Adult Education from NC State University (1985).

In his career as an educator, he was known as an old-style "school man" -- there to open doors before dawn and the last to leave post-dusk. Stuart taught history, geography and politics, served as a department chair, college counselor, Upper School Director and coach (football and track). He taught at Mercersburg Academy (PA), where he founded a Summer Sports Camp; Durham Academy (NC), where he introduced an experiential education program with Senior Challenge Outdoor Ed that has expanded to serve all four years of high school and is still operating today. The last decade of his career was spent at Durham Tech. Community College, where he found satisfaction helping older students re-enter the system to pursue college degrees.

Stuart ached to have more than twenty-four hours in a day. There was never enough time to pacify his need to stay active in his retirement. He took and taught many classes in NC State's continuing ed. program (OLLI), supported WakeUp Wake and the Central and Eastern NC Food Bank, and joined Wake County Senior Democrats. He served two years as President of WC Senior Dems and was awarded the Wake County Senior Democrat of the Year award in 2016. Their watchword was the same as his personal credo: "Forward together; not one step back!"

Early adult experiences with NC Outward Bound made him a passionate participant in the natural world --gardening, hiking, canoeing and travel. No one loved God's creation -- and everything in it -- more than he. Always on his knees with his hands in the dirt, planting beautiful gardens to enjoy from every window in the house. Walking the greenways alone was his meditation time. He followed the changes in the trees from season to season. He loved hiking creeks and paddling down rivers. Climbing mountain peaks and surveying the earth from great heights made him happy. He was always at peace in the natural world. (People were another story.) As he aged, he had to slow down his routine, but never his enthusiasm. Hikes became walks. Climbing evolved into watching sunsets and sunrises over Grandfather Mountain.

The formation of early friendships at New Trier HS and Williams College served him well his whole life. The best tonic in tough times was hearing the voice of a friend from any corner of the country. Reunions --formal and informal -- fed his soul. "Good friends are like quilts -- they age with you, yet never lose their warmth."

Stuart is survived by his wife of 37 years, Jennie Harris Wallace; nephew William D. Wallace (and son Dylan) and niece Katharine Wallace Wheeler (and husband Mark and their three children: Kyle, Lili, and Jack), sister-n-law Diana Wallace. He was preceded in death by his parents, Alan Lockhart Wallace and Esther Henby Wallace; brother, David B. Wallace and nephew, DB Wallace.

Memorial service and interment are private. To honor his memory, read widely in what interests and inspires you, plant flowers or trees and nurture them, stop to reflect on your experiences instead of letting them fade away.

Condolences may be made at BrownWynne.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News and Observer on Aug. 4, 2017.

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August 12, 2017

Jennie - Please accept our deepest sympathy on your great loss.

Sincerely, Kathy & Chuck Monahan, Cardinal residents and OLLI members

Moniq James

August 7, 2017

Rest in eternal peace

Jane Bartlett

August 4, 2017

Dear Jennie....I knew Stuart from OLLI. We were classmates together, committee members together, and I thoroughly enjoyed being a student in classes he taught. He was a lovely, kind, gentle man, and I will miss him. My heart goes out to you and the family. Fondly, Jane Bartlett

Billie F. Mann (nee Worde)

August 4, 2017

I was so fortunate to have been able to reconnect with Mr. Wallace in recent months. I remember him fondly as my Track Team coach at Durham Academy, he was an encouraging, talented, humorous, wonderful influence and one of my favorite teachers. - Billie Frances Mann (nee Worde).

Sally Williamson Greaser

August 4, 2017

Jenny,
I was saddened to hear of Stuart's passing.Please know that I am thinking about you. His life was well lived and I know he must have touched the lives of many others through the years. My mom, Sarah Williamson, was a close friend of your mom's at HBBC.

Nancy Huber

August 4, 2017

Jennie,

We so enjoyed having Stuart teach for our OLLI program. You two were quite a team in and out of the classroom. He will be missed tremendously. Please know you are in my thoughts.

Tina Bessias

August 4, 2017

Jennie, you are in the thoughts and prayers of the Anderson (Bessias) family as you navigate this transition in your life. We are grateful for Stu's positive impact in our lives and the greater community.

Mike&Barbara Latta

August 4, 2017

Mrs. Wallace, We are so very sorry for your loss. My husband Dr. Mike Latta was in the Senior Democrats Club with your husband. He spoke very highly of him. You have our deepest sympathy.
\Barbara and Mike Latta
Raleigh, NC

August 4, 2017

Jennie--I was so deeply saddened to read about Stuart's passing and wanted to send heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family. Please know that I am thinking of you all. His obituary was simply beautiful and he certainly lived every moment. With sincerity, Mary Webb Baggett

Dick Forringer

August 4, 2017

What a blessing Stu was to me and to the Durham Academy family.... I send my love..... Dick

Katharine Wheeler

August 3, 2017

We love you Aunt Jennie.
Katharine Mark Kyle Lili and Jack

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