Tam-Pho-Obituary

Tam Pacific Pho

McKinney, Texas

Jan 5, 1965 – Jun 8, 2020

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BORN
January 5, 1965
DIED
June 8, 2020
LOCATION
McKinney, Texas

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Tam Pacific Pho, a son, brother, uncle and friend who was deeply loved for his kind and generous heart, passed away on June 8, 2020, at his home in McKinney, Texas, from a heart condition he had been managing for several years. He was born Phó Bá Hồng-Tâm in Saigon, Vietnam, on January 5, 1965, and was the third child of Phó Bá Long and Claire Ðặng. He was airlifted to safety with his family at the close of the Vietnam War and came to America as a refugee in 1975. They settled in McLean, Virginia where Tam attended Kent Gardens Elementary, Longfellow Intermediate, and McLean High School from where he graduated in 1983. As a teenager, Tam loved model rocketry and was a National Champion in 1982. He was also an avid cross-country and marathon runner. His passion for flight and a strong desire to serve his new country led him to seek and accept an appointment to the United States Air Force Academy where he graduated in 1987 with a degree in Astronautical Engineering. Tam went on to serve in the Air Force at Cape Canaveral, Florida, where he was the manager for the first Centaur upper stage in the Titan IV Spacelifter program. He completed his military service at the rank of Captain and was the recipient of numerous awards, including the Meritorious Service Medal. Tam returned to Virginia to work for Orbital Sciences Corporation where he was instrumental in the integration and testing of the Pegasus launch vehicle, and the creation of an operations control center in Madrid, Spain. He resettled to Texas in 1998, initially to work for Beal Aerospace on the BA-2 launch vehicle and eventually to co-found his own entrepreneurial venture, Aerocross Systems. His company developed the Echo Hawk Unmanned Aircraft System and engineered the Brilliant Eyes augmented reality Head-Mounted Display, the world's first affordable smart glasses designed for general aviation pilots. He continued to work during his retirement as a professional problem solver for both high tech and small business clients, as well as friends and neighbors. Tam especially loved to collect and renovate all manner of things, vehicles, and homes.
In his adoptive hometown of McKinney, Texas, Tam met his long-time partner, Felicia Harris, with whom he shared over two happy decades. He was deeply religious and actively involved in his church and local community, as well as devoted to his large extended family and countless friends. Tam will be missed for his gentle and generous nature, and his willingness to always lend a helping hand to anyone in need without expecting anything in return. Although his heart failed him too early in his life, everyone who knew him could see how big it was, and that it was made of gold. Tam is survived by his mother, Claire, five siblings (Hồng-Phong Bá Phó, Le-Thu Lodge, Hong-Quang Pho, Chau Pho Tung, and Hong-Minh Pho), his beloved Felicia and her grandson Landon whom he loved like a son, and his loyal dog, Ollie.
According to his wishes, Tam will be laid to rest at the U.S. Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs. The interment ceremony will take place later this summer. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Tam's memory to the Air Force Academy Foundation or to the National Association of Rocketry .

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I worked with Tam, at "The Cape" he was a sharp individual, dedicated to his work and a great co-worker. He is sorely missed!

Aww, rats.
I've not seen you in a long, long time, but I would always tell people that I actually had a friend in school whose name meant "chicken soup."

My condolences and best wishes.

Tam with his parents Long and Claire, 22 June 2002, Lyons, Colorado

Dear Tam,

You loved, were loved, and are deeply loved still. That love is now measured by the intense grief of those who are left without the comfort of your presence.

Your gentle strength and kindness are sorely missed as is your support and mentorship of others.

When you graced us at our wedding all those years ago, our one wish for our guests was Lee Ann Womack's "I Hope You Dance"- and how your life honored that!

One last thing- could you send a...

Tam was a wonderful person and he was like a family member to us. We truly miss him. He will always be in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace! Farooq

We really miss you Tam and you were like a family to us over the last five years that we have known you. I have met very few people that have been so honest and professional and will really miss our friendship

My Uncle Tam,
It is so sad and shocked to hear sad news about you. You have gone too soon!
Please accept condolences from me and our extended Pho Ba Ham family members.
Rest in peace, chú Tâm.

Dear Tam, We light a candle from Germany, take you in our prayers and feel with your great and extended family which is thinking of you with great memories which warm our all hearts in this difficult time of grieve. Christian and Philippa and the whole Pho family in Germany

We miss you Tam. Thank you for being in our lives and for blessing us with your goodness.
Love and Peace,
Paul and Family

Memories of Tam always brought smiles to our faces.
Tam visited us often, wherever we were living. On a moving day he came over and helped.
He will be missed but always thought of fondly as a good friend.