Photo courtesy of Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin
Ballwin, Missouri
Jan 10, 1933 – Sep 10, 2025
Thomas Matthew Bushold, US Army COL, Ret., Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church, at the age of 92.
Loving husband of Margaret Clare Bushold (nee Henley). Beloved father of Thomas R. (Peggy) and Steven J. (Debbie) Bushold and Zoe C. de Penaloza; stepfather of Joseph C. (Gina) Williams and Janet M. (Tim) Berry. Dear and loving grandfather of 10. Dear brother-in-law, uncle, cousin and friend.
Tom attended Loyola University of Chicago where he graduated with a B.S. in Clinical Psychology and attended graduate school at Columbia University in New York, studying executive business courses. He worked for Smith Kline, now Glaxo Smith Kline, for 42 years. His duties included Sales Management, Marketing Management, Corporate Personnel and he retired as Director of Corporate Accounts. He also served in the U.S. Army for 37 1/2 years on active duty and in the active reserves, retiring as a Colonel. Tom is also a member of the Knights of Columbus, 4th degree. We, the family, would like to thank St. Andrew's at Cape Albeon and St. Andrew's at Francis Place for their loving and compassionate care. Tom was loved by many who knew him, and we will miss him very much.
Services: Funeral from the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, 14960 Manchester Road at Holloway, Ballwin, Monday, 9:30 a.m. to St. Alban Roe Catholic Church, Wildwood for 10:00 a.m. Mass. Interment at Holy Cross Cemetery. If desired, contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, the A.S.P.C.A. or Guiding Eyes for the Blind. Visitation Sunday 3-7 p.m., with Knights of Columbus Rosary at 7:00 p.m. Friends may sign the family’s on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.
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I remember Mr. & Mrs. Bushold as very supportive parents of Tom & Steve as students at Chaminade College Prep and as members of the Chaminade Band. Mr. Bushold was a gentleman who loved his family and showed great pride in their accomplishments. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family today. God Bless.Mr. Bob Schmiehausen - Band Director (retired)
Bob Schmiehausen
September 16, 2025 | O´Fallon, MO | Teacher
Steve, My deepest condolences to you and your family. He is in the proverbial better place, after living a full and rewarding life. Sending prayers and positive thoughts. Sincerely,
John Rafoa
September 15, 2025 | Clark, NJ | Coworker
My deepest condolences to Bushold family. I remember him as a kind Officer in the US Army Reserve. Slow.....salute SFC (retired) Diane Phipps
Diane Phipps
September 15, 2025 | Florissant, MO | Military
Steve, I'm so sorry for your loss. Your Heavenly Father welcomes your earthly one, and I can't wait til we are restored together and I can meet him. Praying for you and your family always.
Gavin McAlister
September 15, 2025 | Coworker
Marge, So sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. Praying for peace for you and your family Fondly, Laura (dental office)
Laura Niemann
September 14, 2025 | Other
Earth & Sky Memorial
Dolores Ross and Family
September 13, 2025 | O Fallon
I remember COL Bushold with such fondness.When I was made Chief Nurse on annual training at Ft Leonard Wood it was during my anniversary and he somehow made sure I got flowers from my husband! He was very well liked and respected as a Commander.my heartfelt condolences to his family.
Louise Nation
September 12, 2025 | Chesterfield, MO | Military
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your father. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I can only imagine the pain of losing someone so dear, and I want you to know that my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
May you find comfort in the love and support of those around you and may your father's memory be a source of strength and peace.
With sympathy,
Stephanie
Stephanie Tighe
September 12, 2025 | Newburgh, NY | Coworker
Tom was a lovely human being with a sunny disposition and great sense of humor.
Donald Withrow
September 12, 2025 | St. Louis, MO | Coworker
