May God bless you and your...
So thankful for all the times of our lives. See you again someday my friend.
Lex Lemmon
January 18, 2026 | Friend


Los Angeles, California
CARR, Thomas James Thomas James Carr of La Costa, CA, died peacefully in his sleep on Saturday, January 21, 2006, in the arms of his fiancee and soul mate Cheryl Waterman. He is survived by his beloved daughters Taylor Elizabeth, 15, and Hailey Kristina, 11, his mother Patricia Carr Bosley and...
Read MoreSo thankful for all the times of our lives. See you again someday my friend.
Lex Lemmon
January 18, 2026 | Friend
I miss you my dear friend. As the years roll by, I appreciate our friendship more and more and all I feel is gratitude for having known you.
Drew Cole
January 18, 2026 | Friend
One of the worst days of my life was losing you. Goodbyes are devastating for me...And yet you walk with me all the time! I can't express how much I love your presence. My big brother, my joker our love of music! You are ever present and I am ever grateful for your guidance. Always Love, Kimberly
Kimberly di Bonaventura
January 21, 2023
Honestly...what to say when you are so often with me now. More than when you were walking these plains...I do miss your insatiable laugh, your joie de vivre and your WTF attitude and our hours upon hours of music listening and discovering, our philosophical talks...I feel you now...so much wiser, calmer and peaceful and all knowing. It's all about love...still and forever...you constantly searching for it...me trusting it...when the entire time it's just about you loving you...I love you
Kimberly di Bonaventura
January 25, 2022
To the entire Carr family, we still miss Tom and think of him often. He was a truly wonderful man and amazingly kind and compassionate. I think I laughed more with Tom than any other human being on this planet. He was truly a gift to all of us.
Drew Cole
January 18, 2022
I feel you often...I miss you always...I want you back constantly...if you can help bring live music back to our world...DO IT!!!
Kimberly di Bonaventura
January 20, 2021 | Los Angeles, CA | Sister
You were my Best Man and Best Friend, I Miss You!
Bill Brant
January 18, 2021 | Lynden, WA | Friend
Thinking of my dear friend Tom whose life touched mine in immeasurable ways.
I of course miss his humor but what I miss most of all is his love.
Simply put, Tom was a sweet man who gave freely and without condition.
I'll will miss you always my dear friend and I hope that your children are well and thriving.
With much gratitude,
Drew Cole
Drew Cole
January 18, 2020
Remembering today the fine times shared with my most wonderful friend. Always in our hearts dear Tom.
August 21, 2019