Rochester, New York
Age 67
Cray, Thomas "Tom"Rochester: Passed at home at the age of 67 on the 10th of November, 2017. He is preceded in death by his father Gerald Anthony Cray. Tom is survived by his mother, Adeline (Francis) Moracco, daughter Lindsay Cray, her mother Jean and son-in-law Nicholas Brown, sister Debra...
Read MoreWith gratitude for your life, friendship, service and dedication to veterans. Tom, you were a pioneer in this country. I still hear your laugh and feel the force of your advocacy. With love, Ed Murphy .
Ed Murphy
November 16, 2017 | Saratoga, New York
I was lucky enough to coach and play with Tom during his short softball career. Great teammate, highly competitive and high energy individual. We had many great tournament successes always supported through his determination to achieve victory. Many laughs over those early years. His positive characteristics I am sure helped Tom to achieve success with the Veteran Outreach program. Good friend RIP.
Dave Maddalena
November 15, 2017 | Ft Myers, FL | Friend
I worked with Tom at Veteran Outreach Center in 1988 and 1990 and admired him a great deal. I am sadenied by his death. I wished I had been able to see him before he died. Blessings to his family and friends.
Phyllis Dann
Phyllis Dann
November 14, 2017 | Penfield, NY
My heart goes out to all of you. It has been years since I have seen any of you but my thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Lori (Perri )Carder
November 14, 2017 | Newark, NY
That smile, those gentle eyes, the shining soul. Angels sing now that you are in heaven. Thank you for your service. Thank God for your life. Wishing you could have stayed longer, but I really now know your heart did not simply stop, but that you had finally given everything you had to the world. May God bless you Tom.
Jane Stets
November 13, 2017 | Rochester, NY
I have fond memories of Tom and the greatest work crew in Shakey's history with Cliff, Zip and Murph. Tom had a good heart and we are honored to have known him.
Steve Becht
November 13, 2017 | Seneca Falls, NY | Friend
Rest in peace my dear friend. You have provided light in the darkness. Thank you for your service.
With much love,
Gail Van Auker
November 13, 2017
I first met Tom while attending MCC in 1974. Tom was the Editor of the Monroe Doctrine the school newspaper. I began writing sports and saw Tom as a calm and natural leader that was funny, warm and a take charge guy. He cared about people and wanted to do things the right way all the time. People like Tom are treasures to have in your life. i am glad i knew him and will pray that he is now at peace and will be watching over his loved ones.
David Memmel
November 13, 2017 | Rochester, NY
A better man for the cause of supporting veterans could not have been found....thank you Tommy.
Steve Stanton
November 13, 2017