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Both my parents always spoke so fondly of Tom. Many times he helped our family out. He truely was father and brother to my mother Margaret. Rest in peace. Your niece, Maren Larsen.
July 26, 2015


Arlington, Ohio
1924 - 2014
CROWLEY, Thomas H. Age 90, died September 25, 2014 at his daughter Cindy Taylor's home in Bedford, MA. He died peacefully in his sleep, surrounded by his children and in-laws. He was born June 7, 1924 in Bowling Green, Ohio, the son of Thomas Crowley and Esther Murlin. He married his beloved wife Rita E. Feeney in Columbus, Ohio in 1947 and was the father of 14 children who love him very much. The family resided in Columbus, OH, Madison and Summit, NJ, Arlington, MA and Palm Desert, CA. After serving in the Army during World War II, T.H. Crowley attended Ohio State University on the GI bill, graduated in 1954 with a Ph.D. in Mathematics and went to work for Bell Telephone Laboratories in Murray Hill, NJ. He earned several patents for his technical work, headed computer research departments at Bell Labs including development and marketing of UNIX, and retired in 1985 as Software Vice-President, AT&T Information Systems. He received the U.S. Army's Outstanding Civilian Service Award for his work as Executive Director of the Safeguard anti-ballistic missile system software division of Bell Labs. He was a joint author of "Modern Communications" published by Columbia Press in 1962 discussing the use of mathematics in communications. Tom taught Union County, NJ adult education classes on how computers work at a time when computers were still an exotic mystery to most people. As an outgrowth of his classes, he wrote an introductory book called "Understanding Computers" published by McGraw Hill in 1967 which sold well over 100,000 copies, a best-selling technical book. Computers were the focus of his professional career and he volunteered his expertise to help individuals, schools, and church groups with their computer needs. His interest and curiosity led him to keep up with technology change all his life. On his cross country drive in 2012 at the age of 88, he kept the family informed of his progress through pictures and Facebook postings made from his iPad. Education and community service were important to Tom. As a matter of course, Tom and Rita sent all their children off to college - they had three or more children in college at the same time from 1969 to 1983. Tom served on many government task forces and academic committees during his work career. His commitment to lifelong learning meant that even through retirement, he engaged in activities that ranged from teaching bridge to arranging programs and symposiums on current affairs for his community. Tom was an active volunteer with a number of organizations including Telephone Pioneers of America, Habitat for Humanity and Friends of Palm Desert Library. Tom was a lifelong bridge player; he loved games and puzzles, especially working on crossword puzzles with Rita and playing board games of all kinds with the kids. Tom and Rita took up tennis later in life and made many close friends at the Deep Canyon Tennis Club in Palm Desert, CA where they started spending winters in 1984. Tom had a strong sense of family responsibility. He took care of his younger siblings after his mother died when he was 12. With patience and kindness, treating each other as equal partners, Tom and Rita raised 14 children with love (and limited TV time) while never losing sight of each other. They taught fairness and honesty by example, encouraging cooperation and negotiation among the kids, useful skills in a big family and in life. Their love for one another, harmony through the trials of daily living, and faithful hearts are an inspiration to all of their children. Tom was preceded in death by his beloved wife Rita, sister Margaret Larsen, son Steve Crowley and 4 grandchildren. He is survived by his children Linda (Ken) Koehler of Henrietta, NY; Trisha (Steve Schmidt) Crowley of Champaign, IL; Jim (Kathy Campbell) Crowley of Oakton, VA; Sue (Eric) Gottschalk of Danbury, CT; Mary Crowley of Madison, NJ; Dave (Diane) Crowley of Arlington, MA; Cindy (Ron) Taylor of Bedford, MA; Brian Crowley of Albany, CA; Terry (Manuela) Crowley of Woodinville, WA; Karen (Tony) DaSilva of Sudbury, MA; Betsy (Fred) Frederick of Tucson, AZ; Chris (Elizabeth Kim) Crowley of Wellesley, MA; and Tom (Ning) Crowley of Newton, MA. Also daughter-in-law Lora Crowley, brothers James and J. Patrick Crowley, 26 grandchildren, 2 great-grandchildren, and 31 nieces and nephews. Visiting hours will be held Saturday, September 27, 2014 at the Bedford Funeral Home, 167 Great Rd, Bedford MA, from 2:00 to 4:00 P.M. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to Habitat for Humanity, www.habitat.org or Habitat for Humanity, 121 Habitat St, Americus, GA 31709. For directions www.bedfordfuneralhome.com
Both my parents always spoke so fondly of Tom. Many times he helped our family out. He truely was father and brother to my mother Margaret. Rest in peace. Your niece, Maren Larsen.
July 26, 2015
Tom was extremely influential in my life at Bell Labs in the 1960s. He was an absolute joy to work for. The Globe article is wonderful, but barely touches on many of Tom's attributes. His sense of humanity was outstanding, and contributions to Habitat for Humanity are extremely appropriate!
Peter G Neumann
October 06, 2014 | Palo Alto, CA
To all the Crowleys, sincere condolences. On top of his incredible career, what I remember most of your Dad is that he was a kind and loving father, and a gentle man. I was always amazed at how harmonious your household was, with 14 children lovingly ruled by Rita and Tom.
I will never forget long evenings of bridge and laughter enjoyed by Tom, Hank, Rita, and Jewel.
Truly, Tom's demise marks the end of a certain generation marked by grace and wit, moral strength and...
October 02, 2014
So sorry to hear about the passing of Tom Crowley. I have many fond memories of visiting the Crowley home in Summit and being amazed by the game room! Rest assured that he will have many bridge partners to keep him busy in heaven. I know my parents will be happy to play a few hands with him!
Debbie Wright
September 29, 2014
I can only imagine what a joyous celebration of life you all experienced when you gathered this past weekend. Your parents were simply amazing in their love for each other, their children, friends, family and even strangers. I am thinking of you all and the wonderful times I shared in your childhood home. Rest in peace Mr. and Mrs. Crowley.
liz Lamade
September 29, 2014 | Lake Oswego, OR
My sympathy to all the Crowleys on the loss of this wonderful man. I have fond memories of the times I was a guest in the Crowley home in Summit. Your Dad always had a kind word and a beautiful smile. I know his family will miss him. Fondly, Kathy(Carlon) Lynch
September 29, 2014
Karen,
In this day of Social Media, I thought you would take comfort in knowing that The Class of '78, your volleyball teammates and Summit High Alums are all paying their respects on our Class and of '78 and "I Grew up in Summit" Facebook pages.
Please take a look:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/164079563918/10152765890873919/?notif_t=like
https://www.facebook.com/groups/summit2/10152693049803711/?notif_t=like
Your family made such an impact on all of us!
I pray as...
Karen Swartz
September 29, 2014 | Chatham, NJ
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will never forget your wonderful family! Carl and Audrey (Carlon) Piraneo
September 29, 2014
My sisters and I remember all of the Crowleys with great fondness. We wish you comfort and peace.
Gigi Kanouse
September 29, 2014 | Portsmouth, NH