THOMAS JAMES "TJ" DeMAR

It's been about a month since I learned of Tj's passing. In that time, I've been trying to make sense of it and to find the right words to write here. I've fallen short in both attempts. In part, I think it's because there is no real "sense" or just the "right" words; especially briefly expressed.
Above all else, Tj was a passionate person; perhaps, to a fault. He always gave that proverbial 110% to whatever he did. He could be the most understanding and tolerant person,...

TJ, I'll miss you; the great conversations we had and your wonderful cooking :) The world was a better place with you in it, and I'm a better person for having known you.

TJ, knew you when you were s little gut and spent a lot of fun times with you and your family..May God hold you tightly in his embrace..Love Oscar & Joan

TJ, I didn't know you in person. But I did know you thru your Mom. I do know that you are a big loss to your Mother and the rest of family. Just keep your arms around them your hugs will help them get through the hard times. My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with all of you.

High School Graduation doesn't seem that long ago. Rest in Peace TJ! My thoughts and prayers are with your family!

I miss you old friend. God bless you and your family. So thankful for getting back in touch. With love, Kelli

TJ DeMar was a wonderful co-worker and dear friend, his sudden death is a terrible loss to each of us. I am very glad his life is being Celebrated by those he cared for and who also cared for him. My heartfelt sympathy to those grieving. The world is sadder without his infectious, beautiful smile.