Thomas R. Elmer

Dear Betty,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We fondly remember our times together at the TILC.

Bill & Linda Larkin

Dear Elmer Family,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. When I was first hired at Brick, Brick and Elmer, Mr. Elmer truely scared the wits out of me, but over time, I realized what a kind, generous and caring man he was. I learned alot about myself and others through his teachings, compliments and even his "constructive criticism". His mentoring let me see the strength in myself and that I wasn't just anybody. Since that time I bought my own house and started my own business. He was a...

To the Elmer Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and in my prayers. I hope that the warm memories you hold will help give you comfort through this very difficult time.

Dear Betty and family:

With only good thoughts and fond
memories, your family is wished a
peaceful New Year in 2005. Tom's
been a remarkable presence in so
many lives and that's a blessing.
How lucky to have shared him with
so many people. Take care,Marilyn

Dear Betty and Tom and family:

I am so saddened to learn of Tom's death so recently. Doubly sorry that I can't be there to express this personally. However, I shall offer Mass for Tom. He was such a wonderful person, full of life and showed God's love and grace to so many. Now he has the reward after so much suffering these past years.
When I return to Buffalo, I shall give you a call. Be assured of my prayers for you all at this time of a great loss. We are all enriched...

Betty, Marion and Family--May a fine man rest in peace. My deepest condolances. Chuck Osborne

To Tom's Loved Ones,
The last time I saw Tom was in 1966 when we graduated from Canisius College. I remember Tom best, however, from Canisius High School, where we were in the same Greek Honors home room for sophomore through senior years. I recall his debate career and how hard he worked at it.
I am sorry for your loss.

thinking of you and your boys. talked to bobbie tonight he said there were wonderful pictures of tom everywhere at the visitation. we will have you all in our thoughts and prayers love betsy

Betty,

I truly know the feelings you are having at this difficult time. The suffering is over for Tom and he is at peace. Let the memory of your life together help you to get through this. I am here if you need to talk.

Hope