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I loved Tommy
Randy whitehead
June 14, 2025 | Friend
Westborough, Massachusetts
1943 - 2021 (Age 78)
Thomas F. Flahive, 78WESTBOROUGH - Thomas F. Flahive (78) passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on Monday, June 14, 2021 after a long and courageous battle with Mesothelioma. He leaves his loving wife of 59 years Eileen (Dunne), three children Susan L. DiVita, and her...
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Randy whitehead
June 14, 2025 | Friend
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Randy Whitehead
June 14, 2024 | Friend
Loved that man.
Randy Whitehead
June 14, 2023 | Friend
We love you, Bup. Missing you and sending love to all the Flahives. I am lucky to have great memories of Meme and Bup.
Heather M
June 24, 2021
So admired this courageous, selfless soul. Tom (a former neighbor), was very kind to me, encouraged me at a time when it was needed most; did I even thank him, I wonder? To Eileen, Susan, Dan and Mary, to Ben, Sam, Nick, Jess, Vicky, Carly and Kevin, solemnly whisper that "I am so very sorry!"
Richard Kane
June 21, 2021 | Other
Cluster of 50 Memorial Trees
Jen (Jennifer Wickett)
June 21, 2021 | Westborough, MA
I lived in the apartment above them for a few years and got to know Eileen and Tom like family....such a wonderful man. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.
Cara Lynch
June 20, 2021 | Friend
My sincere condolences to Eileen and all of Tommy´s family. Tommy was my life-long buddy. All who knew him loved him. He will forever be missed.
Randy Whitehead
June 20, 2021 | Friend
I always looked forward to speaking with Tom when he would walk Annie around the neighborhood. He was such a warm and welcoming spirit. He will be missed.
Maureen Horgan
June 20, 2021