Thomas A. Frezza

Hello my sweetheart,

Fifty seven years ago tonight we had our first date!! I can remember it as if it were tonight. It is cold and there is plenty of snow on the ground, just as it was then. I can still feel how happy I was to be going out with Tommy Frezza the handsomest guy in the world. That was the beginning of our life together and it was grand. I can still feel the cold of the snow you put down my back!!!'
' This is also the forty first anniversary of Ma's...

Hello my sweetheart,

Happy fifth anniversary in Heaven-I never thought I would make it this far without you. I have always asked you to keep me strong-I think that's why I have made it! I am able to look back at all the good times we had together, great fun and many, many laughs. We could talk about anything for hours and always enjoyed each others company. I miss talking with you and dancing! Even though I always led, we did well jitterbugging, and slow slipping and sliding...

Hello my Sweetheart,

Happy Thanksgiving-your favorite holiday. Everybody just left-we had a great time-good food, laughs, fun. This is the first one, since you died, that I have enjoyed without thinking how sad it is that you are not here. A few weeks ago, I felt another piece of sadness leave me -I am able to look back and remember how much you enjoyed this day. This was the best for you-even your last one made you happy to have all the food and family around you.

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Hello My Sweetheart,

It has been a while since I have written to you-I have really been laid up with my knee-it has taken a long time for the pain to subside and the swelling to go down but, I think I am on the road to recovery now!

Happy 75th birthday-I still think of you as 19 and I always will-tall, gorgeous, funny, and all mine!! Please wish Daddy a happy 115th also. It seems hard to believe that he was only 64 when he died-a long time ago. How is Shamus? I...

Hello my sweetheart,

It is with a heavy heart that I write that Shamus is with you. He must have been so overjoyed to see you again-he missed you terribly! We had so much fun raising him, he was such a funny puppy!!! He was a wonderful friend and confident after you died-he was always there for me-just like you!! I have so many memories of him-they just keep tumbling over each other making me laugh and cry. His brothers, Morgan and Fritz must love him. I miss him terribly-he...

Hello my sweetheart,

I cannot believe this is your 4th anniversary in Heaven. Four years ago today was so horrible for me-I could not believe that you were gone. I have come to terms with your loss since then. I do not like it but I understand it had to be. So much has happened in that time some good some not so good. But, life goes on. I always know that you are with me and I know I am never alone. Mary has been a God send and Jeannie also. They are good girls Tommy, and...