Thomas Paul Gary

You are so missed Tom. You made a mark on many lives. Rest peacefully.

I am so glad to get this reminder of Tom's passing. I have thought a lot about Tom this past year and I still miss talking to him on the phone. We talked often. I am still hoping to hear from one of the sons and talk of Tom's life as well as his passing. He was a good friend. I saw him the last time at the UTP reunion in 2010 and I mourned with him when his beloved Judy passed. My best to the entire family.

Tom, Daniel & Michael,
I was saddened to hear of your Father's passing. We were friends for many years at UTP and in the years since. I was so happy when I read Daniel's message that his Father had accepted Chirist into his heart before he died. We had many long talks about life and death and the eternity to follow. I would appreciate hearing from one of you so I could ask some lingering questions. Tom was a man of character and integrity and I am a better person for having known him....

I originally met Tom while working at UTP. So sad to hear of his passing. Blessings and Peace to his family.

I was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I worked with him at Shell for several years. He was always so kind and sweet. He always had a joke to keep us amused. And we certainly always knew how much he loved Judy and his children. The grandchildren were an extra special blessing to him. I hope right now he's fishing with Judy.

I only knew my cousin Tom as a child, but he was such an important player in my childhood web of memories. Growing up in an all female household (plus Dad of course), my cousins were my first introduction into knowing what it would have been like to have a brother. As an educator in that realm, Tom did not fail. He was adventurous, playful, loving and a pain in the butt all at the same time. I would not have the childhood memories I do had I not shared my life with Tom. Those memories are...