Thomas Lee Gray

Oh, Uncle Tom... how I wished I'd known! How was I to know that exactly one month after I called to wish you a happy birthday, you left us. After we moved from Ann Arbor 19 years ago, we still exchanged birthday cards, birthday calls, and the annual call on Christmas Day. That's how I found it...I tried calling you on Christmas Day, like always, only to learn that both your phone numbers had been disconnected. That's when I got that awful pit in my stomach, and knew. As I didn't know any of...

Tom was a great and thoughtful neighbor, always looking out for others and helping out

This is very sad. Tom was my neighbor for many, many, years. He forgave me (but probably wanted to kick my butt) when I was 12 and I egged his front and back doors on Halloween one year. He was a wonderful man and sat at our kitchen table many days through the week visiting with my mom and dad. You'll be missed Tom. Rest in Peace, until we meet again.

I am so sad to hear this. Tom was a great man. I lived next door to Tom for many years. You will be missed.

Deb (Vangor) Frank

If you'll be attending Tom's service - in honor of his spirit, casual attire is fine. Michigan attire is encouraged!

May you Rest In Peace my friend. Ron Gallaher. San Antonio, Fl

Greatest friend that one could ask for.....thousands of memories of over 5 decades of friendship. They broke the mold on this unique , loving, caring,giving,funny,etc.,etc. individual. I and many others will remember the football road trips, tiger games , and all the fun and , Tom created stories of time spent in his presence. I will miss you so. Thanks for being Tom (the little guy,with a big heart) love, Terry