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Dear Kristen and family. Helene let me know that T.J. ha died. My heart goes out to you. Be in touch if you'd like. Chris and I retired to N. central Maine. Sending love, Barbara
Barbara Bemis Adams
March 22, 2026


Cummington, Massachusetts
1947 - 2026
Thomas "TJ" Neil JayCUMMINGTON, MA - Thomas "TJ" Neil Jay (July 5, 1947) of Cummington, Massachusetts, passed unexpectedly in the morning of February 8th. Son of Andrew and Marie Jablonski of Westfield, where he lived for many years, and attended Westfield High. He took classes at STCC, but never...
Read MoreDear Kristen and family. Helene let me know that T.J. ha died. My heart goes out to you. Be in touch if you'd like. Chris and I retired to N. central Maine. Sending love, Barbara
Barbara Bemis Adams
March 22, 2026
Kristin and Lara you have my condolences at your loss. I think of all the good times we had at the Homestead with Tom: craft fairs, and especially the Christmas celebrations. I know that you are grieving now but I have so many good memories of Tom that I know that while you will miss him forever you will soon be picked up by so many good memories.
Jim Caffrey
March 16, 2026
Kristin, So very sorry to see this. My thoughts are with you. Jenny Streeter Pelissier
JENNY PELISSIER
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