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(Mom) Amanda Roussel
November 6, 2025
My Dear Loving Son,
It has been 21Yrs since we said our last goodbye. Love and miss you so much.
Mom

Mother
November 9, 2024

Mom
January 5, 2024

Love, Your Mom
November 5, 2023
This was taken after mass for my 80th birthday. My wish was for family to join me at mass. You were there in spirit and in my heart We all love and miss you so much. Tuesday 11/7 will be your 19th Angelversary. Keep watch over all of us especially Reed, Reese, Averie, Charlie, and Fisher your great nieces and nephews!!Till we meet again. Love, Mom
His very Proud Mother.
November 6, 2022
Tommy´s 39th Birthday celebration at Captains Quarters. June 15, 2003. All the Family was there

Amanda Roussel
November 6, 2022

Denise and Donna
November 6, 2021
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. Sisters

1996 on one of your visits home from out of state work. Love these memories.
Mom
December 11, 2020
Wonderful memory ❤Miss You
Mother
January 1, 2014
2013 seemed like a blur it passed so fast used FB. coming back to your Guest Book here. Miss and Love you, wish you were here..
Mother
December 25, 2012
Merry Christmas Son.
Love and Miss You
Mother
November 7, 2012
Eight years have gone by. Your Nephew Reed Thomas and Niece's Reese Marie and Averie Claire know and Love you without ever meeting you, I will always make sure of that. As always, I Love and Miss you.

Your Nephew Reed Thomas, Niece's Resse Marie and Averie Claire with Their G.G. They know you without ever meeting you!
November 7, 2012

Today would be the day you would celebtate your 47th. Birthday So "Happy Birthday" Son. Love and Miss You
Mother
June 14, 2012

One of our past famous annual Christmas Family picture. Donna, Mother ,Denise and You
Amanda Roussel
December 26, 2011
Son,
Christmas was wonderful at Richard and Rani home. it would have been perfect if you were here in body. But you were certainly here in our Hearts...
Love and Miss you .
Mother
November 7, 2011
Son,
How fast the time goes, it is seven years today. Time has not changed the way my heart feels. I Love and Miss you very much.
Mother
June 15, 2011
Happy 46th. Birthday Son,
Time passes, Memories I Have, it is said time heals. A heart that has a piece missing never does.
I LOVE and MISS you so very much.
Mother
Mother
January 1, 2011
Son,
Can you believe this is 2011. Time is so quick these days. You would love Reed, Reese and Averie. They would Love you back too. I enjoy watching them when I am needed.
Happy 2011 New Year
I Love and Miss You Very Much
Mother
November 26, 2010
Happy Thanksgiving Son,
I had an open house Thanksgiving here. Everyone has different schedules, so they came when they could. It was a very nice day with the exception of You being here only in Spirit and in my Heart.
I Miss you very much.
I Love You,
Mother
June 15, 2010
A candle is lit for you,
Happy 45th Birthday, Son
I Love and Miss you
Mother
February 14, 2010
Happy Valentines Day Son
I Love and Miss You
Melvin Flenner
December 31, 2009
Time flies by but memories never die. A New Years Eve I will never forget is on Swamp Road 2000. With Tom and Tommy, good times and good friends. Cooking out and shooting fire works. BFFE.
Love and Miss You
Melvin & Debra Flenner
Mother
December 24, 2009
Merry Christmas Son,
I Love you and miss you very much. Since you are spending Christmas in Heaven tell Jesus I wish him a "Happy Birthday".
Mother
November 26, 2009
Happy Thanksgiving Son,
Wish You Were Here
Richard Jr. & Rani had all the family over for dinner. As always a candle was lit for you. A tradition was started by everyone saying what they were thankful for this year. You are again a Great Uncle Brandon & Samantha has a new addition this year born in July, Avery Claire Kling. Can you believe Donna & Jeff Grandparents?
I Love & Miss You
June 14, 2009
Son,
Tomorrow is your 44th Birthday.
Happy Birthday,
I love you and miss you as much as ever,
Mother
Mother
December 25, 2008
Christmas Morning, 2008
Merry Christmas Son
I Love You, and I Miss You very much.
Mother
November 7, 2008
My Loving Son,
It does not seem as though 4 years has passed since you took your journey to your Heavenly home. I visited with 2 of your many friends at All Saints Day Services on Sunday at Hope Haven.
Terry and I went to put up a new candle for you today, and under your bench was a single red Rose someone had left for you. My mind knows that you are in a better place than all of us here. But my Heart wants you to be here.
Although you have not met, Reed knows who you are by your picture. His Baby sister is on the way. Reese Marie is scheduled to arrive in mid February.
Have you seen Ms. Gloria yet? She died August 1st. This was a shock to all. She was such a beautiful loving person in and out. She also thought that you were such a sweet loving person.
I Love and Miss You Very Much
Mitzy Lott
November 7, 2008
It's hard to image that it's been 4 years since you've gone. I remember hearing the news like it was yesterday. It's a good thing I was sitting down because I would have fell if not. We were at Mrs. Norma's wake and the person telling my mom about your mom getting to come but not being able to stay long, didn't know that I knew you. And seeing as you were the 4th person to die within 5 days, it was almost to much to handle. I have to admit I was mad and hurt with you for while. I realized that you had to have known when I saw you that last time at the doctors office & Walmart and you didn't say anything. It took me a long time to get passed it. And to stop being mad at myself for not getting in touch with you like my gut was telling me to those last few months before you passed. But when I finally did, I understood that that was you. You could see how happy I was and you didn't want to spoil that for me. But when I think about it now, I think I did know or knew something was wrong, it was in your eyes that last look when we said goodbye. If I close my eyes, I can still see your face and that smile. Oh that wonderful smile. I still remember the fun times at CQ's and the long talks at work. That was a rough day when I realized CQ's was gone. I didn't know it was being demolished and hadn't pass in the time that they were doing it. Then one day I pass and it's just gone. I had to pull over because I couldn't see the road for all the tears. It was almost like losing you again. But just like you, it's never far away, I just have to close my eyes and remember the good times. It's hard to believe, I didn't think it was possible but I have a new friend that can finishes my sentences and I finish her's. The first time it happened was so weird because I'm looking at her but in my mind I'm seeing your face and all the times we'd do that. Even though she can never be you, it's nice to have that kind of person in my life again. Especially with my life as crazy as it is right now, I've thought of you often and yea I know you're there, but it's nice to have a person who talks back. And I might have found someone to talk to but I still haven't found anyone to dance with. I miss you so my friend. You were the best kind of friend any person could wish to have. You made people feel special just being around you. If only the world would have more like you. And even though it's not possible to have you back or change things so as not to know you & have the hurt & sorrow now, I am so very glad that I had as a friend. I guess it's time I closed, this was just suppose to be a quick note to say hi, I love you and miss you still but before I do, let me thank you for being such a great friend, for all the fun times, good talks and great laughter and best of all that wonderful smile. I will miss you always friend. You are in my heart forever.
Mitzy Lott
November 2, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Mother
June 24, 2008
On Sunday June 14th, 2008 I wrote you a Happy Birthday Wish. It has not showed up yet. I did get a confirmation. I informed legacy.com, have not heard from them. I did not want to miss your Birthday or any time I want to talk to you.
Love
ATLR
March 10, 2008
A land mark as you knew it is no longer. C.Q's. is dozered down. That seems like so short a time ago. Ah! memories both happy and sad are all that is left.
You would be pleased at Swamp Road it is finally cleared and cleaned. Finishing what you started to do.
BLK and Black are still rolling along.
Mother
February 14, 2008
Happy Valentine's Day to the Biggest Hearted Person I know.
I Love You,
ALR
February 3, 2008
Can you Believe RAJ, Jr. is 29 years old today?
RTJ is 2 years old now.
As always wish you were here to celebrate with us.
WOW!, time really marches on so quickly.
Mardi Gras is Tuesday, A favorite of yours.
I Love and Miss You,
December 24, 2007
Christmas gathering was at Denise and Richard's this past Sunday. Richard, Denise, Richard Jr., Rani, Reed, Ty, Brandi, Jeff, Donna, Brittney, Brandon, Samantha, Dad, Becky, Uncle Denis, Terry and I, and of course you in my mind and Heart. A candle was lit in your memory as always. even though I know you are in the best place you can be, I would like for you to be here.
I Love You,
Merry Chrisrmas,
Mother
November 23, 2007
This Thanksgiving as always, I have many things to be thankful for. One, is having had you with us for over 39 years.
I love you and I miss you Son.
Mother
November 7, 2007
W- is for the WONDERFUL person you were.
E- is for the EMPATHY you had for others.
L- is for all the LOVE you gave.
O- is for you OPENESS.
V- is for your VERY high VALUES.
E- is for EVERYONE who miss you.
A- is for how much we ADORE you.
N- is the NUMBNESS & NONETHINGNESS we feel.
D- is for your sincere DEVOTION to all.
M- is for how MUCH we MISS you.
I- is for how much I love you.
S- is for the SHARING yourself
S- is for the SADNESS that you are no longer here.
Y- is for your YOUTHFULNESS.
O- is for OUTSTANDING in all you accomplished in life.
U- is for your UNDERSTANDING Heart.
It has been 3 Years since God called you home and not one day goes by that you are not thought of. Memories are the Treasures of our lives and I Thank God for them. Know how much I love and miss you, My Son.
Your One and Only,
Mother
Denise
November 7, 2007
My Lil' Bro
It's been 3 long years. We all miss you dearly. There's not a day that goes by we don't think about you. I have been speaking to so many of your friends,friends that are mine also that did not know I am your older sister. So many crazy storys that make me cry and laugh. Every one says how much of a caring person you were. Keep watching over us as I call you our guadian angel. O have you seen our family friend (Mr. Charlie)? I'm sure he has a few practical jokes waiting. Watch out! Sending hugs and kisses
brittney kling
November 4, 2007
hey paren' i went visit your grave the other day and i told u hello and told u eveything thats been going on in my life... i miss you so much and there is not a day or second i dont think about you... and think about what you would have done at my graduation party.. gosh i know you would have been so proud that i finally made it... and i know you were there in sprit but i just wish you could have really been there partying it up with me... i am attending river parish community collage now... taking my general classes till i figure out what i want to do for the rest of my life... im keeping the ol dodge clean and in good hands... yes it gets messy but i and taking good care of it... i keep a picture of you in the truck to look over me at all times and i know u loved that truck... you had plenty of memries in it.... it was the first thing i have ever drivin you made me when i was scared and now you are still there pushing me forward in life... i love you so much and i miss you... cant wait till i can see you again for real... i hope you are doing good with out me... ill talk to you again soon sry it has taken me this long i love you
your niece
Donnovan Mabile
September 18, 2007
I miss my friend. We worked together for a year in 1994. Kenny made an unforgettable impression that will always remind me of his humility and kindness. I lost track of him in the late 90's and didn't know he passed on until this year when I sat at his mother's desk and saw his photo. Now that I have met Ms. Amanda, I know where Kenny got his kindness from. I will always remember my friend.
Denise James
June 15, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
LITTLE BROTHER
WE MISS YOU
LOVE YOU DENISE & FAMILY
Denise James
June 15, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
LITTLE BROTHER
WE MISS YOU
LOVE YOU DENISE & FAMILY
Mother
June 6, 2007
June 6th, on one of your out of state jobs in Iowa, while on your way to work an oncoming vehicle passed two other vehicles causing a head on collision with you. We were called at 10:00AM. By 2:00PM we were on a flight to Iowa. Your Red Dodge Ram Charger was totaled. Looking at the vehicle it seemed you should not have made it through the collision, but miraculeously you did. Going through your papers I came across the letter you wrote to an attorney regarding the accident. It took a few years but it finally was settled.
I miss you every day, today is a hard one.
I LOVE YOU
April 9, 2007
Easter has come and gone. Richard, Jr. had cooked the main course we all brought a little something to go with it. Miss you so very much.
Can you believe Brittney will be 18 years old, and Graduating from high school. She and Black have had some experiences. She may even catch up with your experiences.
I Love You,
Mother

I wonder who we were talking about!!!
Jenny McGill
March 20, 2007
I posted a picture today. My niece emailed it to me and I was completely caught off gaurd when I saw it. It was taken in July of 2004. I spent the whole day going back to it and opening it so I could see his face again. Every time I did, I heard his laugh and I felt him next to me. You never know how much a person is going to mean in your life. He meant everything to me. He was my best friend and my right hand. Losing him changed the course of my life, but so did knowing him.
I want to thank you Tom, for sharing him with me. I know he was your greatest love and I am so happy the two of you had each other and that I had you both. It truly was the perfect relationship, you being his husband and me his wife :)
Denise James
January 30, 2007
Hey little brother you had a friend stop by.. Tracy and wife Becky. I had to tell him that you were not with us any more, that you were now our guardian angel.You see friends still ask about you. Every body misses you dearly
A.L.R.
December 25, 2006
Merry Christmas Son,
The Angel candle holder holding the candle was the center piece at our Chrisrmas gathering. Your spirit is with us. As always you are always with me.
Love Mother,
A.L.R.
November 7, 2006
November 7, 2006.
Does not seem as though two years have gone by. I miss talking to you and your thoughfulness.
Your Great Nephew Reed Thomas James is such a joy. I know you would enjoy him also.
I Love You,
Mother
Mother
June 15, 2006
Happy Birthday Son,
Another year passes. I love you, and miss you so very much.
April 16, 2006
Harry Easter Son,
Part of my Heart, you are on my mind and in my thoughts every day. Your picture is the first thing I see as I awake and the last to see when I go to sleep. The Holidays are especially lonesome for you.
I Love You,
Mother
Mother
January 17, 2006
Son,
Surprise, Its a Boy,
It seems that Your Great Nephew wanted to arrive earlier then he was supposed to. He was born today Jan. 17, at 8:55AM. He gave all a little worry, but He and Mom Rani and Dad Richard, Jr. are doing well. So now Denise is a Grandmother can you believe that? And I am a Great Granny (G.G.).
You are to be his special Angel.
His name is Reed Thomas James.
You are so missed,
I Love You,
Mother
December 17, 2005
Dear Son,
Time passes so fast. Every one is so busy with their own lives.
Thanksgiving has come and gone. Missed you there. Christmas is a week away. There is a Decorated Christmas Tree for you at Hope Haven
Our Marriage was finally Convalidated Nov.10th. at St Johns Church. Family and friends attended. You were there in my Heart, That is where you always are.
Richard and Rani will make me a Great Grandmother and you Great Uncle in February. I know you would have been great too. We do not know if boy or girl yet. Have to wait til it gets here.
I miss you so,
I Love You
Brittney Kling
November 7, 2005
You were and always will be a huge part in my life. You were the only person i could not stay mad at; you could always put a smile on my face. You were a great paren, uncle, son, grandson, friend, and an all around GREAT person I cant believe it makes a year today. I still just think you are on a long vacation and you on coming home soon, and let me borrow your truck. I will always treasure EVERYTHING you have given me weather its an item or just a good hearted "PAREN" lesson i hated those but now i know i need to listen to those and miss those dearly. You will always, ALWAYS be in my heart! And in my memories. You will keep being missed. I love you and miss u very much!
Love always your only niece
<3 BrittneyLynnKling <3
Denise James
November 7, 2005
Lil Brother
Today is 1 year since you have been taken away from our family. It still hurts. People say in time the hurt will heal. I don't believe. There's not a day that goes by I'm not thinking of you or a tear that sheds down my face. We all miss you. You are my Guardian Angel
Love You
Denise
Mother
November 7, 2005
My Dearest Son,
One year ago today our Heavenly Father called you home. It does not seem that long ago. Time goes by so quickly.
Family and friends attended Mass for you at St. Marks Chapel this morning.
"All Saints Day" has a new meaning for me now. At Hope Haven there are two benches for any who want to sit and visit. There are 3 lanterns that glow at night, reminds me of New Orleans. I think you would approve of them.
I Love and Miss you so much.
Your One and Only,
Mother
September 26, 2005
My Son,
Can you believe that today your Mother is 62.
Denise and Donna called to wish me H/B.
My Heart still hurts for you, I miss you as much as ever.
No matter what any one says, it does not get any easier either.
I Love You,
Paul Vicknair
June 28, 2005
I couldn't sleep tonight. You were on my mind, again. Just wanted to write something here, not sure yet what it is I want to say, but to let you know that you are missed by many, and we all think of you a great deal. I want to also thank Mr. Terry and Amanda for inviting me to your 40th blowout birthday celebration. Wish you could have been there, but you were in spirit, and I realize that. I could almost hear the laughter at the table during and after dinner. We all love ya, buddy!!
ty james
June 15, 2005
" RED ROVER, RED ROVER YOURE THIRTIES ARE NOW OVER".fINALLY YOU ARE NOW FOURTY. WE ALL MISS YOU AND WISH YOU WERE STILL HERE.HOPE HEAVEN TREATING YOU GOOD, BECAUSE YOU NEED TO BE TREATED WELL FOR THE THINGS YOUVE DONE FOR EVERYONE.SO HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I LOVE YOU "OLD FART". LOVE
TY JAMES
Amanda Roussel
June 15, 2005
Forty years ago today on June 15, 1965 at 6:11 PM God sent a third addition to our family, A Beautiful Baby Boy Angel to add to the two beautiful girl angels, Sisters, Denise Marie and Donna Marie. You weighed 6lb 10oz. We named you Thomas Michael Kenney, Jr. You were called "Lil Tommy" most of your life. We are blessed to have had you with us for over 39 years.
We are getting together tonight to celebrate for you, You wanted to have a 40 Over the Hill Bash, You are there, Heaven is as high as you can go.
For those who did not have a chance to meet or know him, he lived a liftime in those so short years taking care of and administering wherever he needed to. Making a multitude of friendships and folowers along the way. Many of his friends Mothers wanted to adopt him along the way, but he always lovingly assured me that I was his "One And Only".
A proud Mother I am.
Son, I wanted to have you longer here on Earth, but it seems God had other plans for you. I know that you are in Jesus' company now and are being taken care of in a special way.
To My "ONE and ONLY"
I wish you a Very Special 40th Happy Birthday today. I carry you in my Heart always.
From Your "ONE and ONLY"
I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH,
MOTHER
Denise James
June 15, 2005
My Little Brother
Today would have been your 40th birthday. Happy Birthday to you in heaven. Miss you very much
Love You
Denise
Brandon Kling & Samantha Forbes
June 14, 2005
Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear Uncle Tommy, Happy Birthday to you! Tomorrow you will finally be 40 over the hill!!! We love you and miss you so much!
brittney kling
June 14, 2005
Paren, happy birthday! tomorrow you will be the big 40! you are finally over the hill. i bet it feels great! just wanted to say that we all miss you very much and love you very much! It sucks that we cant throw you the big tradition suprise party because we could go all out for you! wow you just dont even know! you'll get a kick out of this but in memory of your 40th i am going to wear black tomorrow. to make you laugh again we all know how you loved the ditches in your truck im sorry i haven't been in any ditches (YET)!
Donna Kling
June 14, 2005
TOMMY, little brother you would be 40 years old on the 15th.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Hope you are having a wonderful birthday in heaven.
Miss and Love you always
Mother
March 28, 2005
My Son,
This is the day after Easter.
If Tears could build a stairway and
memories build a Lane,
I'd walk right up to Heaven and bring you Home again.
I Love and Miss You so much,
Your One And Only,
Haylie McGill
March 21, 2005
Hey Tommy,
I know it's been a while since I wrote in here last... i think I try to avoid it because It's so hard. It's just that you were so much in my life. You were more than just a "Father figure" to me.You were someone i could go to for love and kindness(not all the time), but most of it lol. I just miss you so much... I think about you all the time..everything i do reminds me in some way of you.. I get in my car and i feel like nothing and no one can hurt me when im there it feels like my security, because i know it was YOU who fixed it for me and made it work. I know your always there watching me all the time i can feel you there... It drives me nuts because i look around for someone and no ones there, but i know it's you because you knew how the drove me crazy... But i think i can learn to cope with it as long as its you. You were an amazing person and no one and nothing will ever take your place with me because you were my everything. I loved you with everything i had..I wouldn't be even close to the person i am had you not been in my life through all of the good and bad. I just hope each day that i can live my life as you did...fun and live in the moment... You always did that... I know that you know how much you mean to me... even though your not here in person i know you're with me all the time... and I miss you so much... I wish i could turn back time for that one last hug... Im getting ready to go to Prom.. im so excited and I know if you were here you would be just as excited about it as I am if not more lol. My dress is really pretty you would love it. When i get my pictures back i'll come and leave you one. This is a big thing for me and I wish that you were here so that i could my happiness with you... I always did that homecomming, mardi gras ball, any and everything you were there sharing my happiness.. You were the only other guy that would do that because i know my dad tries but he could NEVER amount to the way it was with you.. You were ALWAYS there.... I still talk to you all the time in my car... TO see you smiling back at my in the picture of us on my dash makes me smile..Oh that smile.. It was so full of joy and happiness... I miss it so much... I miss you more than ANYTHING! it's so complicated now still because its so hard for me to except it. It still doesnt makes sense... it just so hard for me to get close to anyone because i dont want them to leave me... You and i had a bond like no one could have... we laughed and joked all the time, but knew when to get serious... you were ALWAYS there and no your not and its still hard for me.... because i can't call you up at 2 in the morning and cry on the phone to you about all my issues... like i used to.. and you not there to sit and laugh and listen and make fun of me.... I miss you soo soo soo much... i know you ok now though... and I know you're always here with me... I'll never forgett all that you did for me... I love you so much and Im so in complete with out you here... I love and miss you more than anything... My Best friend... My Dad.... My everything
I love you and Miss you SO!
MOTHER
February 28, 2005
A CARD SENT FROM A FRIEND,
Safe in God's Keeping
I am Home in Heaven, dear ones,
Oh! so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this Everlasting Light
All the pain and grief are over,
Every restless yearning past;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely Home in Heaven at last.
Dear ones do not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still;
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust Our Father's Will.
When your work is all completed
He will gently call you Home,
Oh! the rapture of that meeting!
Oh! the joy to see you come!
CENACLE PRAYER
Embrace Your Memories;
I DO
TOMMY'S
Melissa Louviere
February 25, 2005
Tommy,
I talk to you often. Hope you can hear me. I had a dream that you and my grandmother were together. I also saw you holding Prissy. I really hope you are talking to me in my dreams. It was so real. I miss you terribly. I don't get to talk to Tom very much. He is really working hard last time I spoke with him. I am going to try to go out to eat with him soon. I also saw your mother. She is doing the best that she can. I see you through her eyes. You wouldn't believe it but I went to the cemetary and then went out to eat. My waiter's name was Tommy. He was wearing one of those yellow bracelet that says livestrong. It is to benefit cancer research. I really think you were with me in spirit that evening. I need you to give me some type of closure if you can. I wasn't able to go to your funeral so I don't feel that you left us. If I could only talk to you what would you tell me? I know that life goes on. But to me your still here. I need to let go and be happy. Help me do this. I really miss you and love you. Always in my heart you will be.
Your friend.
Jenny McGill
February 22, 2005
If we could hear him...this is what he would say
I'M STILL HERE
Friend, please don't mourn for me
I'm still here, though you don't see.
I'm right by your side each night and day
and within your heart I long to stay.
My body is gone but I'm always near.
I'm everything you feel, see or hear.
My spirit is free, but I'll never depart
as long as you keep me alive in your heart.
I'll never wander out of your sight-
I'm the brightest star on a summer night.
I'll never be beyond your reach-
I'm the warm moist sand when you're at the beach.
I'm the colorful leaves when fall comes around
and the pure white snow that blankets the ground.
I'm the beautiful flowers of which you're so fond,
The clear cool water in a quiet pond.
I'm the first bright blossom you'll see in the spring,
The first warm raindrop that April will bring.
I'm the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine,
and you'll see that the face in the moon is mine.
When you start thinking there's no one to love you,
you can talk to me through the Lord above you.
I'll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees,
and you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze.
I'm the hot salty tears that flow when you weep
and the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep.
I'm the smile you see on a baby's face.
Just look for me, friend, I'm everyplace!
Unknown
Tom
February 14, 2005
I miss you, Tommy. You were my hopes and dreams, my whole world, my Love.
* * * * * * * *
A hundred days have made me older
since the last time that I saw your perfect face.
A thousand lights have made me colder,
and I don’t think I can look at this the same.
But all the miles that separate,
They disappear now when I’m dreaming of your face
I’m here without you baby
but you’re still on my lonely mind.
I think about you baby
and I dream about you all the time.
I’m here without you baby
but you’re still with me in my dreams,
And tonight it’s only you and me
The miles just keep rollin
as the people leave their way to say hello.
I've heard this life is overrated
but I hope that it gets better as we go.
Everything I know,
and anywhere I go,
it gets hard but it won’t take away my love.
And when the last one falls,
when it’s all said and done,
it gets hard but it won’t take away my love.
I’m here without you baby
but you’re still on my lonely mind.
I think about you baby
and I dream about you all the time.
I’m here without you baby
but you’re still with me in my dreams.
And tonight, my Love, it’s only you and me
Brittney
February 14, 2005
Paren,
Happy Valentine's Day. I love you and miss you very much.
Sunday in the rain, (We need a ladder to reach you), Ma Manda and I put up two Valentine Hearts for you.
Have you seen Mom-Mom Boo yet? Wish her Happy Birthday tomorrow.
Love,
Brittney
ALR
February 14, 2005
Son,
"Happy Valentine's Day".
I Miss and Love You Very Much,
Mother
Melissa Louviere
January 28, 2005
Tommy,
Today is Friday January 28,2004. I am going to the parades this weekend. Our parade is Sunday. I picked up the phone to call and see if you wanted to come. I know that your in heaven but I just don't feel like your not here with us. I really miss you. I love you so much. This was a very special time you enjoyed. Happy Mardi Gras!

Helping Celebrate one of Christopher's Birthdays with all my family!
Becky Harrison
January 11, 2005
Tommy, I miss you so much . . . I know in my heart you are still here (I feel you watching over and with me) and I know I am blessed to know I am still in yours . . . You are such a huge part of my life and I know everyday as much as I think about you - you are thinking about me! I am so grateful to know I was able to be someone that you know supported you and loved you unconditionally! I can only thank God that you were strong enough to know that you needed to make yourself happy unconditonally! "Right back at you" a few lines from an email you sent to me . . . "I am so blessed to have these friends with whom I've grown so close . . So this little poem I dedicate to them Because to me they are the most! God Bless you all is my prayer today . . I'm honored to call you "Friend" I pray the hand will keep you safe until we write (or see) again!" I love you. Happy Mardi Gras Cuz!
Jenny McGill
January 8, 2005
Tom,
I think of you always but especially today. I know this is the anniversary of the day that you and Tommy began the journey of your lives together. I am so grateful that y'all were able to share the years that you did and I know how wonderful they were for you both. After years of searching Tommy had finally found his home and it was with you.
Love You
Johnny Martin
January 7, 2005
I feel so fortunate to have known Tommy these past few months. His courage, kindness, thoughtfulness, and sense of humor has help me deal with life's little obsticles in a more positive manner. I will miss Tommy, but will be constantly reminded of him through his wonderful friends and family that surrounded him.
With Much Love, Johnny
Russell Charbonnet
January 4, 2005
Tommy was one of the kindest, most genuine people I have ever met. He loved life and it truly showed. I cannot recall a single time when he was not smiling or making someone else smile. He touched so many lives and I am grateful to be one of them. I know that he is now in a far better place and that he is still touching our lives in ways we cannot imagine. He will live forever in our hearts and our memories. God bless you, Tommy!
ALR
January 1, 2005
Son,
Today is New Years Day.
I know that you already know this, but I still need to tell you, I LOVE and MISS you so very much.
I LOVE YOU,
MOM
Denise James
December 25, 2004
It's Christmas today the first one with out you. It started sleeting then came a few snow flurrs. It's very cold. Christmas is at my house, everyone will be here this evening. You would be proud of me
I'm speaking with mom-mom Boo. I asked her to come,she decided that it would be to late and cold. The holidays will not be the same. I know you would want us to contiune our get together with the family. Even though, it will be hard. We Love and Miss You dearly.
Merry Christmas
Denise,Richard,Ty,Brandi,
Richard Jr.,Rani
Mother
December 24, 2004
Thomas Michael,
Son, as you use to say to me, "your one and only".
You already know how much I love you, well I miss you even more than that. Love and Peace to you, your First Christmas in Heaven.
I am your one and only,
Ronnie Kesler
December 20, 2004
Amanda, my thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of a son and a very special person. I saw Donna in the store yesterday and all of a sudden the thoughts of Tommy came flashing through my mind. He was such a loving, giving and caring person. Never had a bad thing to say about anyone. Tommy always had a hug for me when we would see each other--in the store, on the street, wherever--and had time to bring me up to date on things in his life. Tommy is a person you never forget. Thank you, Amanda, for giving birth to such a wonderful person and giving us a chance to be a part of his life even though it was a small part.
Tommy was an angel on earth and is looking down on us now as an angel in heaven.
Prayers and thoughts,
Ronnie Kesler (Formerly Martinez)
Melissa Louviere
December 7, 2004
For my best friend:
A friend is someone who loves you for being yourself. You don't have to impress or fake your feelings around that person. Being there no matter what time or day it is. Dropping what you are doing and being there to help you when your down. Especially giving your opinion of what you think whether you like it or not. Tommy, you were and are the best friend I will ever have. I can't love you no more than I have. You were as close to a brother that you could be. We shared so many experiences together. Laughed and cried together. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. I have a song by Tim Mcgraw that reminds me of you. It's called My Best Friend. It's on his latest CD. When you died apart of me died with you. I wish that everyone could experience what it's like to have had a friend like the friendship that we shared. Even today I talk to you. I think what you would tell me when certain situations occur. It makes me laugh and cry. You were always honest with me. You loved me and my family. My children loved you too. They asked me why you died. I told them that the angels needed you in heaven and that you were taking care of all the people in heaven. Brandon said that you would do a good job. You touched so many people in your life time. Even cared about people that didn't care about themselves. I am so grateful for the family and friends that surrounded you with their love and kindness while you were ill. You were truly a guy to look up to. I have my memories and pictures of you until we meet again. You'll be that guardian angel that you once gave me. "A guardian angel for you to wear, to protect and guide you and show you that I care".
To my buddy, my pal, my friend.
From your buddy, your pal, your friend. I will forever love you!
Your friend Melissa.
brittney kling
December 5, 2004
Paren, oh I miss you so much. I wish this wouldn’t have happened to you. You were always there for me whenever I needed you no matter what it was. You went to all of my dance recitals. Its funny how me and Katie remember this but, we remember riding home from a dance recital and we were I think in the 5th grade and in your old truck and you played the song “Jeremiah was a bull frog”, and we all sang it at the top of our lungs. You even went to the jambalaya pageant I entered, and you were still proud of me even though I didn’t win. Not to long after that we were on the roads and you took me to get my friend some flowers and a get well present because she had surgery. And we went see maw maw Boo, You let me drive your truck on the back roads and I didn’t even have my permit. You trusted me that I knew what I was doing and that I wasn’t going to wreck your truck. Now when I look out my window I still see that truck because you told everyone not to touch it that it was left for me. And that means so much to me. We were on the way to eat at chili’s for aunt Denise’s birthday and I asked my mom what we were going to do with your truck. And that’s when she told me that u left it for me. I started to cry because it meant so much for me to know that you wanted me to have your truck the one you traveled in to go wherever god wanted you to go. And I guess god needed you in heaven because that’s where you are now. Just looking down on your family and friends. You lived a great life you were always happy and helping everyone out before helping yourself. Mandi told me the other day that that’s where I get it from because I am always helping my friends out before helping myself. And I laughed and cried because its true I do get it from you. I will never forget the times we had together, I love you and miss you so much!
Love your one and only niece,
Brittney Lynn Kling
Jenny McGill
December 2, 2004
It takes courage to love life. Loving it demands imagination, perception and acceptance... And loving it takes something more besides… it takes a gift for life, a gift for love.
Tommy had the gift. He loved and appreciated life so much. Tommy was the world to us. He was my friend, my ally and my right arm when it came to raising my girls. We are so blessed to have had him in our lives. Losing him has been so difficult but in it there is so much opportunity. There are so many lessons to be learned from his life and the way he lived it.
We are always saying goodbye in this world, always standing at the edge of loss attempting to retrieve some memory, some meaning, from the silence -- something that was precious but
now is gone.
Once the moment is gone, it cannot be recreated. For this reason we all need to live the way Tommy did. He lived with honesty, whether we liked it or not, laughter, kindness, trust, unconditional love, passion and no fear. This way we will honor his life, the lessons we learned from him and hopefully teach them to other people.
My life was forever changed by you Tommy. I miss you so much….
Lisa (Young) Gorham
November 29, 2004
Tommy was a wonderful, kind person. He always had a huge smile on his face. I last saw Tommy at our 20th High School Graduation in October 2003. Tommy and I became friends in 4th grade and we graduated together in 1983. One funny thing I remember was that on the first few days of school each year the teachers would call him Kenney Thomas. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Lisa Young Gorham - Class of 1983
David Turner
November 26, 2004
I wasn't lucky enough to have spent a lot of time with Tommy, but he was so clearly a genuinely good man. His interest in other’s welfare seemed to be the first thing on his mind at all times. He is missed.
Paul (paulbear) Vicknair, Jr.
November 26, 2004
Words cannot express the loss that I have experienced in the death of Tommy Kenney jr. He was a great friend and I will cherish the wonderful memories that we shared. The world won't be the same without him, but his memory and character will live forever in my heart and mind. Thank you Tommy for being you, that Wonderful YOU!!

Haylie, Stevie and Jenna baked Tommy a cake for his 39th birthday!
Tom Evans
November 25, 2004
GIVING THANKS FOR TOMMY
Tommy Kenney’s life was a life well-lived. No one else did it quite like him.
Tommy truly gave his life to everyone he touched. Tommy experienced more in his 39 years and gave more and became more than most of us can ever hope.
He wanted to set everyone’s world right. When some around him couldn’t hold up their own lives, Tommy was there to pull them back on the path. He was a brother and a son to many, a counselor, a man who you look up to, a respected and responsible man who kept his word and never let you down.
He was a father figure to many children, rocking them to sleep, doing crafts, taking them to ball practice or swimming, teaching them to drive. He gave up his time to care for the elder folks. He put his own needs to the side and was there for you.
The words you read throughout this guestbook are living testimonies about a man well-loved, well-respected and admired. Yet, words fall short of the experience of being a part of Tommy’s life, and words cannot express the sorrow we feel for losing him. Tommy will always live right here in our hearts and memories.
Donna Kling
November 23, 2004
Tommy, my little brother. I miss you so much, they say time will heal but there is not a night that goes by without a tear. You were my little brother, which even came out with my girlfriends and me. Even walked to church on Sunday mornings with Lydia and me. You were always with me. I remember when we moved out together. You were still in school, an honor-roll student. You also worked after school (late nights) to help pay the electric bill, which the next morning was a fight to wake you up, you always wanted to sleep late. We ate a lot of egg sandwiches and egg on rice but TOGETHER we made it. When I would wake you up in the morning, your words were Yeah Yeah, I'm getting up, and go back to sleep. (What’s so funny is that Brandon's actions are some of the same actions that you had.)and another thing is that You and him never meet a stranger.
Tommy, you were always LATE for everything BUT one day it was around 2:00p.m. on my wedding day, that I was getting married at 7:00p.m. You knew I did not pick up my wedding dress. We had to call the store to make sure they were still open and we ran to get my dress. That day you were watching the clock. Everyone that knew Tommy knows he never knew how to tell time. Tommy you were there for everybody and took care of everybody. You also touched so many people in so many different ways. You always done what ever you had to do to help others. I know those gates were open as wide as they could. I know you are in a better place at peace, but it is still hard to know that you are not here with your family. (We went eat for your sister’s birthday and I kept waiting for you to walk in) You are a special angel, and I guess your job here was complete. You did a wonderful job here taking care of everyone, so I know I have a special angel looking over us.
Love you always, your sister
Denise James
November 23, 2004
My Brother
I miss you very much.
A very special person who touched so many lives,with his care giving big HEART.Who never asked for anything in return.I'm sadden that he has been taken away from our family.I'm not sure I'll ever understand why.I'm told he is in a perfect place Heaven,with the Master at his side.No more hurt,pain,and tears,just paradise.I know his life on earth was very good.With that we have many memories that will help ease our pain as time passes by.I know he is watching over us.One day I will join you and maybe my question will be answered.
I LOVE YOU LITTLE BROTHER
Your sister Denise
Live a Life That Matters
Ready or not,someday it will all come to an end.There will be no sunrise,minutes,hours, or days.All the things you collected,whether treasured or forgotten,will pass to someone else.Your wealth,fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance.It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.Your grudges,resentments,frustrations and jealousies will finally disapper.so,too,your hopes,ambition,plans and to-do lists will expire.It won't matter where you came from,or were you lived.It won't matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant.So what will matter?How will the value of your days measured?What will matter is not what you bought,but what you built,not what you got,but what you gave.What will matter is not what you learned,but what you taught.What will matter is every act of ,compassion,courage or sacrifice that enriched,or encouraged your example.What will matter is not your competence but your character.What will matter is not how many people you knew,but how many will feel a lasting loss when you're gone.What will matter is not your memories,but the memories that live in those who loved you.What will matter is how long you will be remembered,by whom and for what.Living a life that matters dosen't happen by accident.It's not a matter of circumstance but of choice.
Choose to live a life that matters.
Beth Niquiporo
November 23, 2004
God has Angels on earth to touch each one of us in a very special way and I believe Tommy was one of God's Angels. I will miss him dearly but his work on earth was done and God called him home. While here, Tommy taught all of us how to be a true friend by being gentle, kind, and caring towards everyone he met. Let's live our lives the way Tommy taught us and this world will be a better place. Tommy, I feel blessed by knowing you.
Becky Harrison
November 21, 2004
"Tommy was a good son, a loving partner, great brother, wonderful uncle, caring husband, amazing caretaker and unbelievable friend" Two weeks today, I miss him more than ever!
Patty (Shonk) Borskey
November 21, 2004
My deepest sympathy to Tommy's family and friends on his passing. I will always treasure the memories of my times spend with Tommy in our high school days. You will be missed deeply my friend.

Tommy blowing out B-Day candles June 15, 2004
November 20, 2004

Tommy's 39th B-Day June 15, 2004 in front of fireplace at the Old Captain's Quarters
November 20, 2004
Kay Simpson
November 15, 2004
I am sadden by Tommy's death, but will always remember him in my heart. He was truly a very special person and was always willing to help me. We shared some special moments and I will always treasure the friendship we had. I know he is at peace now and I will keep all of his family in my prayers.
Haylie McGIll
November 14, 2004
Tommy was like a father to me. He was always there when you needed him. He never let you down when he told you he would do something He ALWAYS did it. He may have been a little late for it but he was ALWAYS there. I am one of the many many lucky people who were Blessed to have Tommy in my life. I know I would not be who I am if it weren't for him. You rarely saw Tommy with out a smile on his face and laughing and cutting up. My 16th Birthday recently passed and I want to thank Mr. Tommy Sr. and also Tommy Jr. Because my mom bought me a car for my birthday which I had NO IDEA about and if it weren't for them Fixing it up just like new I wouldn't have it. Tommy Jr. and Mr. Tommy Sr. worked so hard fixing that car for me and it meant so much when he surprised me and told me , " That's your car". He was the greatest. He also taught me how to drive. Most of the time he would trick me into it, but he did it. I am forever thankful and blessed to have had Tommy and Tom Evans in my Life they are the two greatest people that I know. I am so sorry for the loss of a True Hero, but i Know he is watching over us now, and Laughing when we do stupid little things. He will always be with us.

My Date "Tommy" Jitter Bugged around with me at the Madri Gras Ball In March 2004. This Picture was in my School Year Book.(Haylie McGill)
November 14, 2004
Richard Melancon
November 13, 2004
Amanda, Terry and Thomas:
My heart extends to you in this time of deep sorrow. Although I did not have much time to know Tommy, I am inspired by the mark he left on the community.
His love and his good works will not go unnoticed or unrewarded.
Nadine&Chad Roussel
November 12, 2004
We are very, very sorry for your loss. You all will be in our thoughts and our prayers.
Kim Stephens
November 12, 2004
I was shocked learning the news about L'il Tommy. We were not aware of his illness. We had many "Good Times" with Tommy at Captain's Quarters. Tommy was also a fantastic "Chauffeur" while driving the gang to New Orleans in the limo - Trudy, Lorie, Mona, Tammy, Margarett & Myself. We will all miss him and treasure our memories together. Tommy was a very special person to all of us. Our deepest sympathy to all his family & friends.
We will keep you in our thoughts & prayers,
Kim & Friends
Rhonda Arceneaux-Gautreau
November 12, 2004
I just heard about Tommy's passing. I had no idea he was ill. He was always so funny and never had a frown on his face. My deepest sympathy goes out to you all. I know what you are all going through -- it is not easy to loose a brother, and I think about my own brother every day! Always remember, he is now in heaven watching down on everyone, and one day we will all see him again.
Love you all!
Rhonda Arceneaux-Gautreau
Dale Guillot
November 11, 2004
To The Kenny Family
I am truly sorry for your loss. Just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dale,Tammy,Devin,Blaine & Shea Guillot
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