Thomas Lam

My heart clenches when I think of you. You had a very full life . I just wish we had had more time. Love you dad!

Dear Mr. Lam,
I have memories of how wonderfully warm and kind you were over the years when I would see you every night when you picked up Rachel from gymnastics, when I hung out at the house and had dinner (always offering me Squirt), and fishing on your boat. Your smile truly went from ear to ear. You will be missed.
Love, Okashi
You will be missed.

Dear Mr. Lam, Thank you for your warm heart, kindness, big laugh, and beautiful spirit. I was always impressed with your self-made entrepreneurial drive and I have such fond memories of you during our high school years and beyond! Luckily I can still see your big smile in your amazing daughters. You are loved and will be missed. Love, Lara

Hey Grandpa I love you so much and you will always be with me in my heart and in spirit. Im so sad you left us, but I will always admire you and will never never forget you. Thank you for being with me and helping me love your dearest grandson Ethan Fry

Tom was unequivocally the best friend a person could ask for. He had the most contagious laugh that would instantly brighten the mood of any environment. He cheered me up many times when I most needed it. I am forever grateful we crossed paths in our lives. He will be deeply missed!

I am deeply blessed to have known Tom, Dorcy, Olivia, and Rachel my whole life. Tom was like a second father to me and always made everyone feel good about themselves. His love will live on through his always kind daughters and spirited loving grandchildren. Love ❤ Devora

I never got to know uncle till much later in my life. But, when I did, I was always glad to see him again and again at the home of his daughter (my cousin) Rachel in New York. He was a sweet man, who had many stories about the Go clan, which was how our lives intersected. As an in-law, he approached our family temperament--which could go from loving warmth to volcanic in a moment--with a mixture of awe and humor. I will miss him a lot but will see him in the smiles and the kindness of Olivia...

Your smile is your trademark. I think the last time we were together, we were at a crab feed. You enjoyed your food. Love to you and your dear daughters. ❤