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Thomas J. Stapleton, 84, of Springfield, died at 11:20 p.m. on Tuesday, December 6, 2016 at St. John's Hospice.
Tom was born February 21, 1932 in New Berlin, the son of Edward P. and Stella Hanrahan Stapleton. He married Patricia Coggan on February 17, 1953 at St. Agnes Church in Springfield.
Tom graduated from Routt High School in Jacksonville and proudly served his country in the United States Army. He was employed as an Operating Engineer with the State of Illinois for 35 years. He was a member of Blessed Sacrament Church, Operating Engineers Union, and AARP. Tom also volunteered for Meals on Wheels and served as a Manager and Coach for many years for Little League and Khoury League. He enjoyed gardening and spending time with his family, especially his grandchildren.
He was preceded in death by his parents; brothers, William E. and E. Patrick Stapleton; and sisters, Stella Pistorius and Norma Jean Fairweather.
He is survived by his wife, Patricia Stapleton of Springfield; sons, Thomas G. (wife, Kathi) Stapleton of Springfield and James (wife, Alice) Stapleton of Albuquerque, NM; daughters, Debra (husband, Roger) Fulton of Highland, Mickey (husband, Don) Daniels, Sharon (husband, Alan) Fowler, and Stella Stapleton, all of Springfield, Maureen (husband, Bryan) Crowe of Crystal Lake, Patricia (husband, Kurt) Knowski of Port Washington, WI, and Karen (husband, Charles) Maloney of Park Ridge; twenty grandchildren; five great-grandchildren; brother, Charles R. (wife, Donna) Stapleton of Springfield; and numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Visitation: Family will receive friends from 4:00 – 7:00 p.m. on Friday, December 9, 2016 at Kirlin-Egan & Butler Funeral Home, 900 S. 6th St., Springfield. Visitation will begin with a prayer service at 4:00 p.m.
Funeral Mass: 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, December 10, 2016 at Blessed Sacrament Church, 1725 S. Walnut, Springfield with Rev. Scott Thelander, SJC and Rev. Philip Kraft, concelebrants.
Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery.
Memorial contributions may be made to: Routt Catholic High School, 500 E. College Ave., Jacksonville, IL 62650 or St. John's Hospice, 800 E. Carpenter, Springfield, IL 62769.
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Darlene Eastep-DeLay
December 9, 2016
Charlie and the Stapleton Family: I met Tom when my Dad was at the Bridge, such a sweet personality, I knew he was your Brother you look a lot alike Charlie, of course Tom said he was the best looking. I am so sorry for the loss of Tom. The Stapleton Family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Dennis Corcoran
December 9, 2016
Dear Pat and Family: I would like to offer my condolences to you and to all who knew Tom. He had that wonderful "Stapleton Spirit" and great gift of gab and sense of humor. He will be missed.
Ed and Bobbie Stapleton
December 9, 2016
We would like to offer our condolences to the family and let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I am very blessed to have had Uncle Tom as my godfather. I will always remember Uncle Tom for his profound love of his family. He had a great sense of humor and it was always a pleasure any time we were fortunate enough to spend time with him. He will be greatly missed.
Lisa (Keefner) Cleeton
December 9, 2016
Dear Mrs. Stapleton & family,
I was sad to learn of your husband, father, grandfather passing away.
I will always cherish the fond memories of Mr. Stapleton & my dad coaching girls khourey league softball. Our family also attended Blessed Sacrament, Ursuline Academy, & The Olympic Club swimming pool. It was always a pleasure seeing his sweet cheerful face. His wonderful & amazing legacy will continue to exist through each of you.
May he rest in eternal peace.
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Rick and Faymel Booth
December 8, 2016
Tommy, work at the Stratton Bld. With my father Leon Priddy, for many years. Remembering the many lunches that they cooked in the basement. He was truly a wonderful man. I am sure he will be missed by all that loved him. Your family are in our prayers. Rick and Faymel Booth. Dawson, Illinois
December 8, 2016
To the Stapleton Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I have always had great respect for Tom Stapleton & his family. God bless all of you. Dave Ketchum
Betty Breeding Stephens
December 8, 2016
Sorry to hear of your loss, he was a wonderful person, have know him for years.
My thoughts and Prayers are with you.
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