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Thomas Walden Obituary
Tom was born on Nov. 23, 1963, in New London, the son of the late William and Margaret (Korineck) Walden. He married Brenda Brackett on July 7, 1990 in East Lyme. He was employed for 23 years at the DOT for the State of Connecticut.
Tom grew up in East Haddam. He attended Nathan Hale-Ray High School and Essex Satellite school. He graduated in 1983. Tom was so much fun to be around. He had a passion for telling jokes and making people laugh, even to people he barely knew. Tom had a big heart and it showed to all that knew him. He enjoyed tinkering with cars and motorcycles, watching classic TV shows such as Star Trek, Lost in Space and Deputy Dawg cartoons. Since his illness, Tom took up playing guitar. He bought a Gene Simmons Battle Axe and it was his pride and joy. Tom and family loved decorating their house for the holidays. Not a Halloween or Christmas went by without his house being decorated for the occasion. Tom's joy was cooking Christmas breakfast every year. It became his tradition.
Mr. Walden is survived by his loving wife, Brenda; his son, Frank T. Walden of Uncasville; daughter, Cindy L. Walden of Uncasville; his sisters, Teresa Terrel and husband, Pete, of Griswold and Valerie Kiernan and her husband, Mike, of Maine; his brother, William Walden Jr. and his wife, June, of East Lyme; his grandson, Jackson Walden; and his beloved dog, Rascal. Tom had several nieces and nephews that he cherished as much as he did his own children.
He will be sadly missed by all.
A Service will be held at 8 p.m. Wednesday, Sept. 11, 2013, in Fulton-Theroux Funeral Home, 13 Beckwith Lane, Old Lyme. Visiting hours will be held prior to the service from 6 to 8 p.m.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Walden
Mike Carter
July 3, 2014
My sincere condolences for Tom's family, and for Brenda, an old friend from many years ago. God bless and may He watch over your family.
September 11, 2013
Dear Walden Family,
It was my pleasure to have met you and have opportunity to have been a part of your family all of you are special to me and to the the men I cared for. I'm sad that this day has come. Tom Loved all of you and express to me that, I'm sorry that I could not of been there MY HEART IS THERE with all of you, SINCERELY, Lori pct backus hospital
Tim Yuhas
September 11, 2013
To the Walden family our prayers are with you I worked with Tom He sure will be sadly missed.
Lisa Ruberto Wilson
September 11, 2013
Tommy, you have the biggest heart of anyone I've ever met. I will miss you terribly and have so enjoyed reconnecting with you these past years. You've brought joy to so many and i know we are all better for having known you. My love to you my friend.
Deanna Pesce
September 11, 2013
Tommy you were the greatest guy. Always a sweetheart and my life is that much better for having known you. You will be missed
Your Favorite Niece
September 11, 2013
Uncle Tom only you would joke with everyone and make it hot and muggy on your service day. Wish I could be there tonight. I know you understand though. I love you and please behave! Its Sept not July!
Hank Bogan
September 10, 2013
To my great friend Waldo, May Gog Bless your soul, as you should be inside the pearly gates, and have the best spot. I will miss you tom, love your old bud Hot Rod Hank.
he loved that guitar
cindy walden
September 10, 2013
Mark Morth
September 9, 2013
Tommy always had a way of cheering people up. I ran into him a few times during the course of his illness and he always had a real positive outlook. He never complained about his circumstances and always would inquire about how others were doing. He loved his family and took such pride in his children. I am sorry for your loss Brenda, Frankie and Cindy.
Ray Duff
September 9, 2013
To the Walden Family..So sorry for your loss. I worked with Tom at East Great Plains DOT. He was a gentle giant .The Lord needed a sweeper operator!
RIP
Theresa Tessier
September 9, 2013
May the Lord give you peace and comfort, Brenda and to your family. Chops always had a smile on his face and that laughter.
Tim Chase
September 9, 2013
Chops was a very good friend and co-worker at Marlborough DOT I can still here his laugh.We new where all the coffee spots were hey chops.I will miss you, thoughts and prayers to the family.
Erika Struve Bochereau
September 9, 2013
Tommy was a great friend in elementary school and I will also remember him fondly. My thoughts are with you during this awful period of grief.
Rich Bohara
September 9, 2013
To the Walden family sorry for your loss . Tom was a great guy and good friend I will miss you . Rest in peace my friend no more pain and suffering.
Steve Winakor
September 9, 2013
"Brother" in every sense........ I am truly without the right words to say. We shared the craziest of times. Thank you for all the memories. You made friends with everyone you met. You were always there for me and were an awesome "Uncle Tom" to the kids. My world will never be quite the same knowing your not just a phone call away. Brenda,Cindy and Frank......our thoughts and prayers are with you........Heyyyy Ralphie Boy keep the coffee
warm
your chum
Steve,Vanda, Matthew and the gang
September 9, 2013
Dear Brenda and Family;
So sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. From my family to your family you have our hearts of caring and special prayers. Condolences to all for we are all at a state of grieving at this time of our lives here on earth. Love Brenda (Losacano) Choate
Michael Granata
September 8, 2013
My Prayers go out too Toms family, We had many year at Waterford DOT , Lots of laughs Chops was such a kind soul and I have so many great memories and his laugh you will never forget!! Till we meet again Chops!!!
Henry Aberdeen
September 8, 2013
You will be missed. You were the best friend, cousin anyone could hope for. I loved your laugh, smile, jokes, building models (until the goat got in the model room lol) listening to music. Teaching me how to drive in your chevy pick up. You taught and shared so much with me growing up the mark you left on me is immense. Gods speed Chops.
March 1980
September 8, 2013
David Deckler
September 8, 2013
To the entire Walden Family, Iam very sorry for your loss Tom (CHOPS)As we called him at the D.O.T> Was a very funny guy had a heart of Gold & was fun to work with,Take It 1 Day @ A Time!!!
Val
September 8, 2013
Wow,what do you say to a little brother that steals your best cat eye marbles and hides them out in the sand box, so he can fill his tonka trucks full of diamonds. What do you say to a little brother who eats the last cookie and eats it with his mouth opened. What do you say to a little brother who gets exactly what he wanted for Christmas and cried about it. What do you say to a little brother, who gives you a chocolate pie facial. All these things and more I will remember, you were a great little brother, and I love you so much. Even when times were sad, you always knew how to make me laugh. You loved Marianne like she was yours, and for all this I will always be grateful for. Give Mom and Dad a hug for me, Nana and Gomp, Grandma and Grandpa, and don't forget to give Charlie and Rosie a big hug from me too.. Love you Little Brother.. Your big Sister Val
Gina & Peanut Russell
September 8, 2013
Our thoughts are with you
September 8, 2013
TO MY BUD "CHOPS" REST IN PEACE. AL CROSSLEY MARLBOROUGH CT
Rosalyn Lachapelle
September 8, 2013
I was so very sorry to read this in the New London Day today...my condolences to the entire family....
Freddy
September 8, 2013
Uncle Tom, I miss you more than words can express. I will cherish last Sunday forever. You were so silly, goofy, weird, and a great Uncle. I'm going to miss your crude humor, and holidays with you even more now. I love you so much. I know you are in a happier place with family and friends and unlimited possibilities. I can't wait to tell my baby stories of their Great Uncle Tommy. I miss and love you.
once again, making people laugh. lol
cindy walden
September 8, 2013
our last family picture
cindy walden
September 8, 2013
his other son Rascal
cindy walden
September 8, 2013
father and son pic.
September 8, 2013
dad and mom
September 8, 2013
the funny stuff he used to do. lol
September 8, 2013
last family pic
September 8, 2013
his other son, Rascal
September 8, 2013
Lisa Martin
September 8, 2013
I am so very sorry for your loss.Tom was a great person to be around.thinking about the fun times we had at the say brook bowling ally.
KAREN YORK
September 8, 2013
Tom was such a wonderful man and always had a smile on his face. He will be greatly missed from all who knew him. Lots of love and prayers go out to your family,
KAREN YORK
September 8, 2013
I am so sorry for the loss of Tom. I graduated with him and he was such a great guy. Even though I haven't seen him in years he will always be remember as a wonderful person. Lots of love and prayers go out to all of the family!
Lynn Duplice-Wells
September 8, 2013
To Tom's wife, children, Terri, and the rest of the family, my heart goes out to you all at this time. Although I never met Tom, I am friends with his sister Terri. When ever talking about him she would always laugh. Just know he is in a better place now with his Mom and Dad.
Nancy Antone
September 8, 2013
Tom was such a wonderful man he will be missed by all who knew him..I am so sorry for you loss..sending prayers and love to his family
Nancy Antone
Stephen and Kelly Mather
September 8, 2013
To the Walden family words cannot express the sadness I feel for you. The world has lost one of its best. Tom was a gentle giant that everyone loved. He will be missed by many. I feel honored to have been able to call Tom a friend. Rest in peace my friend.
Sandi Radford
September 8, 2013
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
September 8, 2013
Brenda,Frank, Cindy and all the Walden family. We send our deepest sympathy to all. He was a good person to be around and will surely be missed.
Pat & Bill Winakor, East Haddam
Nancy Ward
September 8, 2013
Brenda, Frank and Cindy.. I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was a good man. My prayers to you all. I wish I could be there for you all. Know I am there in spirit.
Laurie Miller
September 7, 2013
Tommy I am going to miss your contagious laugh, silly humor, and unique way of expressing Yourself. You were always there when I needed you and would do anything in the world. I am going to miss you more than you can imagine. Brenda, Frankie and Cindy he loved you so much remember all your good times with him and he will never be forgotten. I love you all! Allen, Laurie, Scott, Erica, Cheryl and Rachael
Terri T
September 7, 2013
Tom no words can say what I'm feeling right now. You and I were very close. We shared so many fun times together. Some sad times too. We were always there for each other. I'm gonna miss our picnics and our Christmas eves together. We always had a blast. Your with mom and dad now and sister Cindy. If I have to share you I'm glad its with them. Give them big hugs for me. I'll love you always!
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