Dr. Thomas M. Whalen

Hi handsome,
You were pure joy and love. What an extraordinary man. Simply put, you were one of God's finest. The most honorable and devoted husband and father. I loved the times we spent together and listening to the stories of you and Hazel's wonderful life together. A true love story. Also, all of the stories that Tommy has shared about his idyllic childhood. Your amazing children are your legacy. You are missed more than you will ever know. You are in my heart forever.

Dad -- you taught me to soar, to look at the world through kind and generous eyes, to aspire to make the world better, one person at at a time. Because of you I know how to see the beauty in a babbling winter brook, soaring meadowlark, and crunch of autumn leaves -- because of you I know how to listen and truly hear -- because of you I can walk down a city street anywhere in the world with confidence and wonder. You gave me a strong, enduring place to stand in this world, based on love of...

Uncle Tom, you were one of a kind, and were such a big part of our lives in many different ways. I am so blessed to have had you as my uncle and friend, and your influence on and benevolence to my mother, your sister Ellen, was huge, and will never be forgotten. To your dear Hazel, and cousins Patty, Tom and Chris, I offer continued prayers, love and support as we all grieve our loss. You are loved and missed greatly!! Carl Rydell, formerly of East Longmeadow

My Uncle Tom inspired us all his life. His love of family and his artistic skills shone through, and well as his big heart and love of people.

I had the distinct pleasure of knowing Dr. Tom personally and professionally. He was a big part of my life for many years, and for that I am grateful. God blessed him with a wonderful family whom he loved dearly and he lives on in them.
With Love
Liz Pappas

Chris: Your dad was a wonderful doctor and couldn't have been more proud of you following in his footsteps. I remember him bragging about you while he was performing "minimal incision surgery" on me. His skills were a specialty admired by others in his profession. He was a genuinely nice person who took an personal interest in his patients. I can understand why you loved him both as a father and as did everyone else who came to know him, professionally and as a friend..

I miss the sound of your voice, the wisdom of your advice, working side by side with you, the stories of your life and just being with you. My heart is broken, I miss you just as much today as the day you left us. I love you dad, Chris xxoo