Thomas Paul Wingate

Tom was a senior at KU when I pledged the Phi Psi house. I will always remember his sense of humor (he was a riot), his intelligence (smart as a whip) and friendliness (really good guy). He was someone I could always talk to while I was going through a tough transition year in my life. May God bless the Wingate family.

My condolences to Tom's family. Tom was always a kind and caring person who helped others. He will not be forgotten and my family grieves with you and sends prayers of peace and comfort to you. I enjoyed knowing Tom at Phi Kappa Psi.

My condolences to the family on your loss. I was fortunate enough to have met Tom through the Phi Psi house and my college friendship with Steve. I'll always remember Tom's comforting and accomodating personality. My thoughts and prayers go to the entire family during this difficult time.

Tom rocked. You couldn't ask for a better friend to go through college with. He was one of those rare individuals who possessed great character and the uncanny ability to elevate anyone's enthusiasm level about whatever he was passionate about...which was quite a bit. My prayers go out to Brenda, the girls, and the entire Wingate family. Thanks for sharing Tom with us.

We cannot express how saddened we were when we heard of your loss. It seems like yesterday when our boys were in activities together at Grace. We pray you are comforted by God's loving presence as you celebrate Tom's life and the wonderful legacy he left.

Tom was my pledge brother at Phi Kappa Psi. He was a good friend and a really great guy. "Amici usque, adaras, Deep graven on each heart, Shall be found unwavering true, When we from life shall part."

Words cannot express the sorrow we feel when we lose one whom we love, but the pleasant memories and our time we share are always with us. We share your grief, but only God truly understands our hearts and the pain we feel, and only God can provide the peace to still the ache in our hearts. Know that our thoughts and love are with you, and that we will be praying for you and your family, and rejoice that Tom has touched so many peoples lives in a positive and loving way.

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.