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Tom "Tommy" Thompson

1952 - 2024

Tom "Tommy" Thompson obituary, 1952-2024, Paso Robles, CA

BORN

1952

DIED

2024

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Kuehl-Nicolay Funeral Home

1703 Spring St

Paso Robles, California

Tom Thompson Obituary

Tom "Tommy" Thompson

November 17, 1952 - May 12, 2024

Paso Robles, California - Tommy Thompson was born in Upland, California, to Dorothy (née Frazier) and Frank Thompson. As the baby boy in a family with two older sisters, Tommy was no stranger to having the ladies dote on him. He spent the majority of his childhood in Escondido, California, attending both Orange Glen and Escondido High Schools before graduating in 1970.

Working in construction and owning a trucking company were a great foundation career-wise. But Tommy really hit his stride as a commodities merchandiser, first with Wilbur-Ellis before founding Thompson Trading Co. He served terms as both President of the LA Grain Exchange and Director of the California Grain & Feed Association. The ag industry was a perfect fit for Tommy since it incorporated his strong work ethic, his savvy financial sense, and his charismatic ability to bring people together in both social situations and business deals. When other passengers in his car might comment on the aroma of a nearby dairy farm, Tommy would roll down the windows, inhale deeply, and say, "Smells like money!"

Tommy lived in Southern California and the Central Valley until finally settling in Paso Robles, which he referred to as "the town of his life."

He loved golden retrievers, Ray-Ban Wayfarers, beautiful women, Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young, Ketel One, Lonesome Dove, playing 1-4-24 (no bottoms!), the Dodgers, golf tournaments, and a never-ending list of friends that continued to grow year after year. But more than anything else, Tommy adored his family.

Tommy was predeceased by his parents and his beloved dogs, Brandy and Gus. He is survived by his sister Francie Freetly (Jeff) Huttner; nephews Jeff (Christy) Freetly and Greg (Stephanie) Freetly; his grand-niece Harper Freetly and grand-nephews Robby, Max, and Austin Freetly; his four-legged buddy Call (who is now enjoying the beach life in Florida); and his extended family, which included lifelong friends whose children grew up calling him "Uncle Tommy."

Tommy's family will forever be grateful to friends Tyson Hayward, Doug & Sabrina Kruse, and Lorraine Farkas, who were the core foundation of "Team Tommy" when he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.

In lieu of flowers, Tommy requested donations to Must! Charities. A celebration of life will be held in June at Jack Creek Cellars. Wayfarers are optional.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on May 26, 2024.

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Harper Freetly

June 15, 2024

Harper Freetly

June 15, 2024

Photo board Harper and aunt Christy made for his celebration of life

Harper Freetly

June 15, 2024

I´ll miss you Uncle Tom. I really wish I could have said goodbye. To all the people who see this message the Florida Freetlys are taking very good care of Call and I love him so much. Call has chosen me as his person and he´s so sweet. Daisy and him play great. Rest easy uncle Tommy.

Roberta Reese

May 28, 2024

Tom would stop by for a visit during his morning walks with Gus and then Call. He was always so upbeat! I will always treasure our friendship and will take comfort in knowing Tom and Gus are together again.
Rest In Peace Tom

Gerrit Van Leeuwen

May 28, 2024

Tommy was a long time business associate, but more importantly a long time friend. Before my retirement in 2022, Tommy would call me (or I'd call him) every couple of weeks, not just to discuss business, but to catch up on things in our personal lives. Tommy was always positive and upbeat no matter what was going on in our lives. When I was diagnosed with prostate cancer last year, Tommy became my "go to guy" whenever I had questions or concerns because he'd gone through the same thing earlier in his life. He always knew how to address my concerns, allay my fears and provide a positive outlook for what coming up, and for that I'll be eternally grateful. My wife Carol and I visited Tom in January and we will both cherish the memory of spending the afternoon with him and Call. Rest in peace my good friend. You will be sorely missed.

Elle Kilmister

May 21, 2024

Uncle Tommy,

To your valor, your warmth, and the undying love that you bestowed upon us all-here´s to you. May your journey beyond the veil be guided by the stars that have watched over our people through the ages, and may the chorus of our ancestors welcome you with open arms.

Here's to you Uncle Tommy - a final tribute not just of words, but of hearts full of gratitude, love, and the promise to keep the flame of your spirit burning bright within us. May we live with the courage you showed, love with the depth you shared, and honor you in the stories we tell and the lives we lead.

I love you.

Rest In Peace
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