Tomma Suzanne Hargraves

Dear Tomma, miss you and love you, especially as the Muttniks are gathering soon for another reunion. Love, Chrissie

Tomma was a bright light on this earth! Vibrant, dedicated, tireless energy and a loving amazing wife, caregiver, mom, grandmother, teacher and advocate! Truly the world is a better place with the seeds she planted. Sending love in my heart and prayers to Bob, Josh, family and dear friends for your loss.

I will miss my childhood and forever friend the rest of my life. So much love to you Bob, Josh, and Charlie. xoxo

Tomma was a wonderful person--I got to know her as I got involved in promoting Democratic party issues. She was such a joy--smart, committed, a dedicated activist. Will miss her SO much!

Tomma was an amazing teacher and a wonderful friend. She supported her students and the teachers who she worked with. We remained friends after she left our school and always had a great time even if it was only chatting on Facebook, but we were able to get together in person one time and really enjoy each other. Tomma, I will miss your wonderful sense of humor and devotion to the people who you worked with and gave so much time and love to in order to make their lives better

Tomma was such a support to me as a young special education teacher. She was very knowledgeable, kind, and patient with the students. She touched many young lives during her years as a speech pathologist. She will be remembered by many. Prayers for the family.

It was a such a gift to get to work on LCI volunteer committees with Tomma, and become friends. Her energy and enthusiasm for life and service to others was boundless. I can´t imagine our happy hours without her, but they will go on to honor her! She will be so missed. My condolences to Bob, Josh and family, and all Tomma´s family, friends and causes. Rest in peace, Tomma.

Tomma was an amazing super volunteer with the Wake County Democratic Party. She was hard working, creative, outspoken, and hilarious. I always looked forward to every conversation and every event with her. She will be sorely missed for a long time.

Natalie & I are heartbroken to hear of Tomma´s passing. She was an amazing soul and her legacy will live on through LCI & those of us who had the privilege of knowing her. With love to Bob and her family, Jeremy & Natalie Holden.