Tommy F. Harpman

It has been years later Tommy and I still think of you often. To his family: I hope you are all doing well. All of his friends and classmates miss Tommy. His name still comes up often when some of us gather at reunions and other functions. Just thought you would like to know that. Some of us have passed on including a few from Pacheco who knew Tommy most of their lives. All wonderful and fun thoughts. He had sooo many friends who loved him as a Brother, myself included. He is missed but never...

Diana, there is not a day goes by that I do not think about Tommy, I miss him more than you can imagine.I hope you are being strong and things are well. Thank you for the nice card.I need to come by and see you. I really am sorry for your loss and do wish he was still with us. But be assured he will forever be in my thoughts each and every day.

love ya,

The Harpman Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Joanne Charter

To the Harpman family, thank you so much for including all of us at Tommy's memorial, Diana and Mary thank you so much for letting me share my story with you about Tommy and for being so kind, I can see that Tommy was just as lucky to have you, a wonderful loving wife and family. You are all such special people. When you heard people saying such wonderful things about Tommy it makes you reflect yourself and realize the importance of being the kind of person that people can say those things...

Dear Diana,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this most difficult time. May God give you comfort and peace.

Diana and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Tommy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during your time of sorrow. May your friends and family help you though this time. May the Lord bless you all...

To my dearest cousin Diana....I cannot even imagine,I remember when you and Tommy got married and when you were pregnant with Brian and then Stephanie. Tommy was so proud of all of you. He adored his granddaughter and beamed when talking of his bride Diana. His special nickname from me was "Tommy Two Shoes" and he will always be in our hearts. He drove me to my wedding when I married my husband and that memory I will always cherish. He would make us laugh during the holidays with his camera...

I had the pleasure of meeting Tommy for the first time when I joined the Antioch Golf Club and the first tournament I played it I was paired with Tommy, it was pouring down rain I was soaking wet, he was so sweet, he said if you want to quit I will quit with you, I told him I have never quit anything in my life, he then said " Let's go girl" from then on he was a friend. I will miss his smile at the golf course, I will miss the golf tips and his friendship, and for you Tommy when I am...

Tommy, no better man ever graced this earth. From fourth grade until your passing you were always a best friend, even when many years separated us. Our parents did a lot to keep us in touch, and took turns hauling us to Elvis (Blue Hawaii, our mutlual favorite), and Dion Movies. Good times, and days of such innocence. We had a lot of fun together. After we left school many things in those times sent us in different directions. But, we always seemed to run into each other in places...