Totton Heffelfinger II

I remember a visit to Inverness in 1972 with my father Michael Weir, and brother Andrew. He seemed a very admirable man, and made an impression one m

Many years ago when I first came to San Francisco in the late fifties Tot and Joanne were so kind and hospitable to me. I shall always remember the perfect baby gift they gave me when I was expecting my first child and about to travel and live overseas. Tot helped so many worthy people and causes during his lifetime. He truly was one of those rare individuals that left the world a better place because of his presence in it. My sympathies to the Heffelfinger family.

For a good man
For a good heart
For everything you have done for us
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our condolences and prayers to Heff family, may his kind soul rest in peace.
Jochems

My condolences to the Heffelfinger family, who were generous hosts and friends when I lived in San Francisco.

Tot... I feel we would have been kindred spirits and rich in friendship ... if only we had met! What a magnificent life you had. I too am devoted to Nepal children and will, in your name, donate to keep the wonderful smiles on the faces that you so enjoyed embracing
Your extraordinary devotion to life, nature, family and others will long be remembered by those closest to you... and by those bystanders in life, like myself, that just Have to salute a life Very well lived. Slainte. Jillo

I grew up on Fifth Avenue in SF, and knew the family well. I played outside with Perry and Ellen. The family were involved in so many important movements over the years. A great inspiration. RIP.