Tracee-Martin-Obituary

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Tracee Lynn Martin

New London, Connecticut

Nov 11, 1961 – Mar 16, 2021 (Age 58)

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BORN
November 11, 1961
DIED
March 16, 2021
AGE
58
LOCATION
New London, Connecticut

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QUAKER HILL  -  Tracee Lynn Martin, 58, passed away peacefully Tuesday, March 16, 2021, at home surrounded by her family, after a courageous battle with brain cancer. 


Tracee was born November 11, 1962 to David and Betty (Kendall) Martin of Preston, CT. Tracee was a graduate of Norwich Free Academy. Tracee began her career as a police officer at Norwich State Hospital, before leaving to raise her four children and helping at the family business, Captain Scott’s Lobster Dock. Tracee was employed by Waterford Public Schools as a paraeducator, eventually leaving to return to work for the State of CT as a case manager at Southeastern Mental Health Authority. Tracee worked on several different teams while at SMHA and was the glue that held the team together, often going the extra mile to assist her clients and coworkers. Even after she left her position, her clients still reached out to her through cards and letters to see how she was. True to her character, even on holidays you would find her working and passing out meals to those in need. 


Tracee’s children were her pride and joy, and she could always be found with a minivan full of kids and hockey gear. When Tracee wasn’t busy attending one of her children’s sporting events she devoted her time to traveling the country with her kids and her parents in their RV. Tracee loved spending time with family and friends- her home was an open door for all. Tracee enjoyed spending her summer days at Pequot Beach in New London and enjoying a cold glass of sauvignon blanc with her girlfriends following the CT wine trail. Tracee loved her dog Penny, taking her everywhere she went and always making sure Penny was dressed in the most stylish outfits. 


She will be greatly missed by her parents David and Betty Martin, her children Kendall Fenton and son-in-law Scott; Thomas Eshenfelder and Emily Vanstaen, Peter Eshenfelder and daughter-in-law Sydney, her partner John Palladino and his children Jessica Palladino and daughter-in-law Alison, Johnny Palladino, and her former husband Thomas E. Eshenfelder, many relatives and friends, and of course by her beloved chihuahua, Penny. 


Tracee was welcomed into heaven by her daughter Emily Eshenfelder and brother David Martin. 


A celebration of her life will be held 1 p.m - 4 p.m., Friday, March 26th, at Langley’s Restaurant in Waterford, CT. Burial services were private and held in Preston, CT. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Emily Eshenfelder Foundation, 80 Hamilton Street, New London, CT 06320.Byles Memorial Home, 99 Huntington St., New London is assisting with the arrangements. Please visit www.byles.com to sign the guestbook or to share a memory.

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Sorry for your loss, she was a staple in the area growing up. I still call the house the eshenfelder house. Your family is in our prayers, peace and love to all of you.

Tracee,
Even as I write this, the tears are streaming down my face. I just can’t believe that you’re gone so soon. I have so much to say. I’m a better person from having worked with you at SMHA. You were a class act. Selfless. Caring. Supportive and Kind. I’m sorry that I’m never going to get to see you again. I pray for the peace and love of God to surround your family and loved ones as they take this journey without you and grieve your loss. You were a great, great person and I’m...

My heartfelt condolences for your loss. I worked with Tracee on the ACT Team at SMHA yrs ago. She was a pleasure to work with.......fun, smart, helpful, caring, & dedicated to our team & clients. She was an exceptional and beautiful women. I know she made a difference in this world.

Matthew could not have made it without YOU! You are a Saint.

With my deepest sympathies in honor of beautiful Tracee.I used to style Tracees hair and was lucky enough to learn what an amazing woman she is.Her love and pride of her family.The stress of her job, that she just rolled off of her shoulders. I learned alot from her. I loved when she would laugh because she had this twinkle in her eye.Tracee was truely special.

Sending our deepest sympathies and wishing you moments of peace and comfort. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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Dave and Betty,
So very sorry for the loss of your dear daughter, reading through the guest book I know she was special just as her parents raised her! Being an oncology nurse for 20 years I can only imagine how devastating this was.
With deepest sympathy,
Debbie (Boyd) Ackley

May you now rest in peace Tracee. I will always remember the birthday celebration in Westerly with Johnny and you. You lit up any room that you walked into and I’m sad to see you go. My deepest condolences to the family.