Victor Monroy Cleofe

Today... I am thinking of my friend Victor. He was so young and left behind an amazing little boy and a beautiful, loving, strong and courageous wife. I've learned a lot from this tragedy and these people. From Vic I’ve learned that time is presious and I need to treasure every single moment. I need to tell the people I love, that I love them. From Georginette I’ve learned what being a strong woman really is and what it means to love someone unconditionally. And from Daniel I’ve learned...

God is good, all of the time. Even when it doesn’t feel like it.
Remember the good times. Remember the fun times. Keep those feelings close to your heart.
Rejoice in knowing your loving husband is in the Kingdom of Heaven and he is smiling down on you.
Rejoice with Daniel the time you have left with him. Make sure he knows he is loved.
Ask for help and guidance when you need it.
Do the best you can with what you have, don’t bite off more than you can swallow.

Having Victor is the best thing that ever happened to me. I have learned so many things from the way you lived your life. You made everything easier for me as you always took care of us. I thank you for that.....I wish that I was given enough time to show you and to tell you how I love you and how important you are to me.
Please do take care of yourself.....Wherever you are...I will be around to hold your hand.
I love you so much and I will take care of Daniel for you. I promise.

Georginette, you and Victor have taught me the beauty of being close to God - in words and actions.
Victor in his quiet ways taught us the gentle ways of living a Christian life. I will never forget the joy he brought to Mamita when your family would come up from Seattle to visit. He never forgets anyone.
In his quiet ways, he will always be with us. I will continue to pray for God's Blessings, for him and for all of us whom he'd left behind.

What a beautiful person Victor was. His quiet ways, his smiley face, his devotion to his family will always be remembered. I will look forward to watching Daniel grow up because I know I will see Victor in his ways, in his smiley face and in his love for his Dad, though he is no longer with him, and for his Mom. Our dear Georginette, our Heavenly Father has blessed you with a personal angel. Truly. Victor is now a more permanent part of your life. Ask him to intercede for you in all...

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. Yesterday was your birthday, and while I was having that Chinese dinner, I remembered how you loved to eat that meal and now I will never get to enjoy it with you. Missed you lots. You were great company when you came to visit. Miss you too, Georginette & Daniel.

Maintaining social & family ties is a sign of good coping on Victor's death & birthday anniversaries which also answers: Where do I want to be? and Whom do I want to be with? on such dates to keep your anxiety within tolerable limits.

Our (Rose & I) prayers and thoughts are with you & Daniel for Victor & God's sake.

I thank you in advance for submitting your memories of my beloved husband Victor Monroy Cleofe. Victor was a good husband. He loved me unconditionally and gave me the best life I can ever imagine. I could not ask for more. He was my best friend. As a father, he was an epitome of a good and passionate father. He gave his whole heart to his son Daniel. Daniel was his whole world and same thing with Daniel. ( I will add more pictures in my next visit to this site.) Both Daniel and I will...

Dear Carmelita: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May your special memories of Victor help to get you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Rose DesJardins