Vijayashanker -Paramsothy-Obituary

Vijayashanker Paramsothy

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Vijayashanker Paramsothy, known to one and all as Vijay, had been just about everywhere in his 23 years. He was born in Petaling Jaya, Malaysia; he had visited friends in Turkey, Switzerland, Argentina, Brazil, Mexico, Japan, Germany and England.

On Sept. 8, 2001, he attended a wedding in Spain. "He was looking very elegant that day," the bride, Ana Oliver, wrote to Mr. Paramsothy's father. "He made lots of new friends." But he loved New York, and he came back Sept. 10, in time to return to his job the next day as a financial analyst for Aon Corporation in the World Trade Center

Though he lived half a world from home, in Astoria, Queens, he called his parents in Malaysia every day and visited them when he could.

"He was a great companion to me," said his father, Paramsothy Sivapakiam. "We were on the same level. We would drink together. We liked to play jokes on each other. When he got a movie camera, he said, `The first thing my father will do is take pictures of me in the toilet.' "

The son lived through a close call in the World Trade Center in 2000. He was in an elevator that overshot its highest floor, hit a ceiling and then fell 15 feet. His back was injured, and he spent four months in a cast.

Five days before Mr. Paramsothy died, his father had a heart scare in Malaysia. "A palpitation, 199 beats a minute," Mr. Sivapakiam said. "But I survived. If only I had died he would have come home and he would still be alive."

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My dear Vijay, It’s been over 23 years since that fateful day I think about you so often, our friendship at TCI, our lunches on Sunday, hugging you at graduation last You helped me pick my first suit, prepare me for my first interview, took me to my first off broadway show My favorite songs today are the ones you introduced me to 25 years ago. I wish I could tell you today how much your friendship meant to me then, and still means to me now. RIP my friend. I will see you one day again. Until...

Rest in peace Vijay, kind soul

Memories of a special person like you are special treasures.

Rest in peace. On my behalf of my dad, Anthony Doss Gabriel.

Rest in peace, on behalf of my late father Anthony Doss Gabriel.je

We loved Vijay! Rest in peace our friend❣

Rest in peace. On behalf of my father, Anthony Gabriel.

Sending our heartfelt condolences for your loss. Vijay touched the lives of others and will always be fondly remembered. May the time come when these acts of violence are ended forever.

i miss you every day... you are in my heart . i know one day we will see eachother.