Wilfred H. "Toby" Whitley

Missing you Big Cousin

HEY Toby I think of you often, you would come be often to check on me to see if I needed anything or a ride to the doctors. You will always be in my prayers. Miss you my friend.

This has really and truly thrown me for a loop... Toby has been like a father to me ever since I could remember.. We kept in touch every year, especially w/ his birthday being the day before mine and always ended the convo, "Ok, talk to you tomorrow" and like clockwork, would always call me on MY day!! Even w/ me moving to Florida, he still kept in contact and let me know when he bought his Florida home about 15 mins away me.. He always reminded me how he named his daughter as close as he...

I just got the news. I'm shocked and sorry to hear of the loss of Toby, Aunt Lorraine and Uncle Harold, Alfred, and Lori. I grew up with the Whitley's, and Toby was the big brother to Lori and me who lovingly tormented us all. He was a great guy, and I'm proud to have known him and of his accomplishments in life. Rest in peace Toby. You are loved and will never be forgotten.

Our Deepest Sympathy in the loss of your Son, Father, Brother, Uncle and Friend to many, he will be sorely missed.

The Nims Family
Plainfield, NJ

My big cousin, my buddy. You always took me under your wing. You protected me from a young girl until I was a grown woman. You were like the big brother I never had. I can never forget the fun we shared...."Stroller Softball Team" dance 1983, motorcycle rides, Roccos and then room mates...omg just laughing all the time. I am truly going to miss you. Rest in Peace.

My condolences to the Whitley Family. I
remember Toby helping me with "National Night Out" in our city of Plainfield as Councilwoman.
Elizabeth Urquhart and Family.