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William Thomas Nelms

Denton, Texas

Jul 9, 1939 – Feb 12, 2023

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July 9, 1939
DIED
February 12, 2023
LOCATION
Denton, Texas

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Bill DeBerry Funeral Directors - Denton Obituary

William Thomas Nelms, 83, of Denton passed away on February 12, 2023 in Denton. He was born in McAlester, Oklahoma on July 9, 1939 to Clyde and Woodie Nelms. Tom graduated from McAlester High School and Northeastern Oklahoma State University. Tom married Susan in Tulsa, Oklahoma, in 1971, moving in 1972 to Corsicana, where his children, Brian and Stephanie, were born. After relocating to Denton, TX, in 1974, Tom worked in hospital administration and insurance before retiring from Peterbilt.


Tom worked as a lifeguard as a teenager and held a lifelong love of swimming, teaching his children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews how to swim. He loved working around his home and yard and usually had (too) many projects going at the same time. Tom was also creative and always wanted to spend more time pursing artistic endeavors, especially painting. Above all, Tom was intensely devoted to his family as a loving father, uncle, and grandfather. He was especially fond of children and will be remembered for always being there for any of them who needed help.


He is survived by his wife, Susan Nelms of Denton; daughter, Stephanie Nelms-Wright and her husband Dustin of Aubrey, Tx.; son, Jeff Nelms and his wife, Kelly of Bedford, and five grandchildren (Sydney, Shelby, Camille, Colette, and Claire) and two step-grandchildren (Carissa and Austin).


He was preceded in death by his parents; his son, Brian Nelms; sister, Joann Adams; brothers, Clyde Nelms, Jr., and Robert “Bob” Nelms.


A memorial service will be held in the Chapel of DeBerry Funeral Directors on March 11, 2023 at 10:00 AM. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the National Parkinson's Foundation.

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I just now saw that Tom had passed away. I am very sorry to have heard this. Tom was always such a kind and generous man to everybody. I saw him come in contact with, and certainly to me. He opened his house to me and allowed me to stay with he and Susan for quite a while, which was a great blessing at the time. A kinder person I do not believe you will ever find. It´s just very sad that life has to end, but while Tom was alive, he certainly lived it to the fullest, and with the kindest of...

Susan & Family,
Sending condolences to say we are so sorry to hear about Toms passing. He was a special cousin growing up & we sure enjoyed the reunions & sharing those times with him. Prayers of comfort being sent to all the family. Cali Cousin Darlene

Dear Susan, Jeff, Stephanie and family we send our deepest condolences.
Tom was such a kind hearted, loving man that loved his family above everything. He fought a long battle with the love and support of his family. May the memories help ease your sadness. Much Love, Debbie and Steve Izenman

So sorry for your loss!!. He was a special Cousin to all our family and we loved him. We have great memories of him in our younger days in McAlester. After we all moved to other places, Tom would travel for different occasions, sad and fun and we all appreciated that. I will always remember the great time we had when he and Susan hosted a family reunion at their home in Denton. Rest in Peace my sweet Cousin. Prayers for all the family.

Tom was my uncle, but better than that, he’s was a friend. We had many good memories together and shared advice between the two of us. It hurts deeply that he’s gone, but I know he’s in no more pain.
Love always,
Jeffrey Allen Nelms

Just heard about Tom. So sorry for all of you, Susan Steph and Jeff. I know he fought Parkinson’s for years, as did my sister.
Prayers to all of you.
Shirley Dane

Susan, Jeff, Stephanie and your beautiful family, I send love and prayers to you all. Tom was such a remarkable man and his devotion to his family and friends will always be cherished. May all of your wonderful memories bring you peace. I hope to see you 3/11 for a hug.

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.