Wilma-Gary-Obituary

Wilma M. Gary

Obituary

Gary, Wilma M. Passed away Thursday June 28, 2007. The family is truly thankful that the Lord allowed her to spend her last six months in Texas surrounded by her children and grandchildren. Our mother was born in Dunlap, Kansas on May 22, 1923 to Henry Baker and Mamie O. Hale. She is survived by her brother Cleo Hale and family in California. Mom and her late husband Printice T. Gary are survived by their six children: Janice Gary, Printice Gary and his wife Cynthia, Hedy Gray, Kenneth Gary and his wife Dineo, Alberta Hicks, her husband Victor all of Texas, and Russell Craig Gary of Minneapolis, Minnesota. She had 17 grandchildren, 25 great- grandchildren, 2 great-great-grandchildren, and many other family members and close friends including Joy Lumbly & Pam Hardimon Jackson. Our mother loved education and had a strong desire to share her knowledge with both young and old. Her yearning for knowledge, uniquely, was nurtured by her father who raised a yearling and sold it to finance her start at Emporia State College (Kansas) in 1939. Our mother worked her way through college and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree at age 19. She was an early, undocumented civil rights activist; taking genuine risks including sit-ins (1941), and other bold actions to challenge then existing social injustices at a time when there was very limited mass media coverage to generate exposure and rally sympathy for local civil rights demonstrations. After college she began her career teaching in a one-room country school. She went on to teach in the public school systems in Kansas and Minnesota. She was director of CEP and Volunteers Unlimited programs, which targeted disadvantaged people by empowering them through education, employment and training women in community service. Her final positions include being the first African American woman to teach at the University of Minnesota Agriculture division and working with the Minneapolis Unemployment office from which she retired in 2005. In addition to being an avid reader, our mother loved God, family, teaching, history, art, literature, and every part of quilting. All of these passions were combined as she collected quilts and studied the history of quilt-making. She was taught to quilt by her Texas-born mother at the age of six. As she matured and continued her interest, she recognized the absence of information in America's history of African American quilts and quilt-making. She researched this area and began lecturing, writing, and showing her beautiful collection throughout the Twin Cities area. She was an expert on quilt making and the codes held within the quilts made by slaves to help one another along their journey to freedom as they fled on the Underground Railroad. Funeral service will be held on Thursday, July 12 at 11:00 AM at Fellowship Missionary Baptist Church, 3355 4th Street North, Minneapolis, MN 55412. Visitation one hour prior to service. Estes Funeral Chapel 612-521-6744
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.

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Thanks and a Prayer goes out to the Gary family, for sharing a "Mother"s Love." She'll be missed by many. To Mrs. Gary (mom), Thanks for the love and lessons you showed me during the passed few years. My last few visits with you, I'll remember the most. Picking you up from the Hair dresser, you look so wonderful and our very last meeting in the living room and you ask abot how it's going with me and told me to communicate with my son more often. Well I'm doing good and my son emails me more...

You will be missed. Thanks for the love you shared with all of us. Now rest in peace!

Our prayers are with you in this time our sorrow.

I worked with Wilma at the Minnesota History Center on quilting bees in connection with the Minnesota Quilt Project a few years back. When we needed another quilt to work on, she volunteered a red and white quilt top, snail's trail pattern, that she and her mother had made. When I asked her how she could let dozens of people work on something she and her mother had made, she said she would never get it done herself. The night we finished it, we wrapped her in it and took a wonderful picture...

To the Gary Family,
I am sory to hear that your Mother has passed away. Like Jimmy Hill said, Mr and Mrs Gary were people our community could be proud of way back in the day. I remember when the family moved in across the street from the "Browns" on 3rd Ave. Mr and Mrs Gary insisted that we all behave and concentrate on being productive individuals. She will be missed. I heard about this too late to attend any of the services. Please accept my condolences.

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Gary. I had the fortunate pleasure of working briefly, with her and the other senior citizens at Sabathani Community Center on a quilting project. I can't tell you how much it meant to me to be able to spend that little time with her. She made such an impact on my life, and I will cherish her memory forever.

I pray that God's most precious angels are watching over your family during this time.

Thank you so much for making quilting so much fun. Also thank you for all the lessons I learned from you about African American history in the process of conducting research on AA quilts in Minnesota with you.Indeed, Thorunn Bjarnadottir, Isak Thor and I will truly miss you.

LaWanna Harrod (Battle)

Russell and Alberta, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I pray that you will be comforted and be surrounded by family and friends as you walk through this season.

Our prayers and thoughts are with your family, Russell and Alberta. Maxie (Jones) Rockymore