Zita Katherine DeGraffenreid

Today Kat and I talked about Zee Zee. She is missing her and, like me, thinking about things she could have done better or times she could have been nicer when Zee Zee was here. I know Mom wouldn't want us to have regrets, only good memories and joy that she was able to be with us (so we could be nice and sometimes fight just like family). Madeline wrote this essay. I hope Zita doesn't mind me putting it in. It is so beautiful.


Zee Zee
By Madeline

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Dearest Zita,
We miss you terribly, but I guess Norman couldn't get along without you. You and Norman have enhanced our lives in so many ways! What great times we had together! You two have been outstandingly successful in all phases of your lives. The wonderful families that you leave behind reflect your parental love and ideals. God bless you both. Roseann and Ches

Dear Mommy,

We are missing you a lot around this house. I keeping heading to Starbucks to pick up a coffee for you in the mornings! Sadie lies by your door every day. Kat and Chelsea are both sad. We all wish you could have spent more time with us, but are happy that you are at peace and not in pain. Tell Daddy hi for me. I've been missing him, too.

Love,

Karen

Hi Mom,
I really miss you. I've been wearing the bracelet you wanted me to have. It is so beautiful. It reminds me of you and how much you loved fine jewelry. Sophie is doing great at our house. Don't worry about any of us. We are taking care of each other and will be fine. I love you.

Zita K.

Dear Mom,
It was an honor to be able to care for you the past nine months. You were a great mother. I love you and miss you. Give dad a hug for me.
Zita K.